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    obsessionnumber1 [sign in to see picture]
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    This man (me) absolutely loves having ass played with. Bum is one of my strongest erogenous zones. I love it when I'm on top and wife digs her nails into the bum cheeks or teases my crack with her fingers.

    Can't beat the feeling of anal penetration too either by a finger or dildo.

    I consider myseld to be quite a masculine and straight guy but bum play is definitely one of my favourite acts. It really annoys me that the stereotype of anal = gay/bi is still prevalent. However I do sense that it is becoming more mainstream and accepted. Only two of my friends know about my so called preference. One thinks it's weird whilst the other has opened up about his own curiosities towards being on the receiving end.

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    obsessionnumber1 wrote:

    This man (me) absolutely loves having ass played with. Bum is one of my strongest erogenous zones. I love it when I'm on top and wife digs her nails into the bum cheeks or teases my crack with her fingers.

    Can't beat the feeling of anal penetration too either by a finger or dildo.

    I consider myseld to be quite a masculine and straight guy but bum play is definitely one of my favourite acts. It really annoys me that the stereotype of anal = gay/bi is still prevalent. However I do sense that it is becoming more mainstream and accepted. Only two of my friends know about my so called preference. One thinks it's weird whilst the other has opened up about his own curiosities towards being on the receiving end.

    I wish that was true . However any kink in general is still fairly small in numbers in comparision to those having no sex or just vanilla sex. Numbers are increasing but I still wouldn't call it mainstream ,perhaps some way off yet . On here its a bit different as you are in contact with like minded people but numbers wise we are still very small compared to the big wide world. But it is getting better and the sex toy companies like Lovehoney are getting bigger which is a sure sign of things going in the right direction.

    Sorry for bringing you back down to earth a bit ! lol.

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    obsessionnumber1 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes mysteron you are correct.

    Its not mainstream but it is heading (very slowly I admit) in that direction. Apart from the wife and two very old friends of mine who I feel confident discussing sex with, I wouldnt mention the topic. When I say mainstream I do not necessarily mean that participation rates increase but that acceptance of the practice does.

    I remember looking at sex toy sites about 10 years ago when I first flirted with the idea of bum play. It was quite annoying when things like butt plugs and prostate massagers were listed under 'gay toy' categories. Nowadays, sites are more likely to say that they are mens toys without referring to sexuality.

    Porn has changed quite a bit in this time too. It used to be almost impossible to find much anal play stuff without it being heavily femdom related. Now, thanks to amature sites too, that's changed. Possibly in reaction to changes in 'consumer' tastes perhaps.

    Who knows where it will be in another 10 years time...

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    obsessionnumber1 wrote:

    This man (me) absolutely loves having ass played with. Bum is one of my strongest erogenous zones. I love it when I'm on top and wife digs her nails into the bum cheeks or teases my crack with her fingers.

    Can't beat the feeling of anal penetration too either by a finger or dildo.

    I consider myseld to be quite a masculine and straight guy but bum play is definitely one of my favourite acts. It really annoys me that the stereotype of anal = gay/bi is still prevalent. However I do sense that it is becoming more mainstream and accepted. Only two of my friends know about my so called preference. One thinks it's weird whilst the other has opened up about his own curiosities towards being on the receiving end.

    Couldn't agree more, and you put yourself across so well too. As a lady I adore anal, my ass isn't all that but I love a mans hands on it, teethe biting it, lips kissing it and his cock in it..a dill or vibe is just as delicious too....

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    sexychris [sign in to see picture]
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    I love it, but some people don't. Personally, I wish my OH was more into it, but she's happy for me to pleasure myself when she isn't around and thats all I can really ask for.

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    Somebody on here ,can't remember who decribed anal/bum play as the Marmite of sex .Thats 100% spot on IMO.

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    Hugh1985 [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and most of my mates like it, but when i first get with a girl its all about breaking barriers down,

    find out what each other likes,

    talk to him and he might openly say yes or no he likes it or you don't .

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    greeneyed_girl [sign in to see picture]
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    My boyfriend absolutely loves it. He wasn't too keen on the idea when we first got together but after a while he couldn't get enough. It went from just finger play and rimm jobs to butt plugs, anal beads and even pegging via dildo's and a strapon! I find it very exciting and enjoy the dominance it brings with it. He says that some of his best orgasms have been with something in his ass

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    Rimmer57 [sign in to see picture]
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    I Absolutely adore Anal, and the OH does as well. Every aspect of anal play we love, from basic stroking and probing to full on f•••••g and pegging, toys also play a big part in our play from the smallest plug to big inflatable plugs, and not forgetting the dildos and vibrators.
    Don't get me wrong, it isn't the mainstay of our love life, bit it does play a main part, it is something we both love, and till one of us says anything different it's here to stay, and if there anything, we have not tried and it's mutually conagreeable, we will keep pushing the boundaries.

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    kc. [sign in to see picture]
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    Absolutely yes. My wife and I love indulging in anal play. I love being fisted by her and being milked. She can get her whole fist in and stretch me. We have loads of toys as well that get shared about, more than needed really but I couldn't resist getting yet another one and had the pegging of my life this weekend. Well one of them. It not quite the biggest I've taken that goes to a ten incher and eight inches in circumference. Now that really does challenge.
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35261

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    This is a very nice welcoming thread!

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    tallguy1975 [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I'm a big fan of anal play. No matter if its toys (beads/plugs etc) or fingers. Its great visually as much as it is when invovled too

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    I do (men or women, in my case)

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    sugarboobies2232 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love my OH's ass. It's so peachy and sometimes I'll sneak up behind him in the shower and bite it. I think Bex hit the nail on the head. I would love for my OH to experience a different kind of pleasure and I would find it really sexy and such a huge turn on to know I'm the one providing it. He is completley against it though and will never ever try it. He says he doesn't like the idea of it, that's fair enough, but atleast he could say he doesn't like it ONCE he's tried it. So frustrating. It's a huge fantasy of mine and I doubt it will ever get fulfilled (with him, atleast)

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    sugarboobies2232 wrote:

    I love my OH's ass. It's so peachy and sometimes I'll sneak up behind him in the shower and bite it. I think Bex hit the nail on the head. I would love for my OH to experience a different kind of pleasure and I would find it really sexy and such a huge turn on to know I'm the one providing it. He is completley against it though and will never ever try it. He says he doesn't like the idea of it, that's fair enough, but atleast he could say he doesn't like it ONCE he's tried it. So frustrating. It's a huge fantasy of mine and I doubt it will ever get fulfilled (with him, atleast)

    Your OH is just like me really in that regard .My Mrs likes my rear but neither of us really want to progress any further than a lubed vinyl glove in a role play.

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    tallguy1975 [sign in to see picture]
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    honeybun91 wrote:

    Do men like women playing with their ass? I have tried hinting at it a few times but dont want to look too weird ha.

    Anyone else?

    Whats not to like!! More please!

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