• Please can I have some advice

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    Pudgie [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my hubby aren't talking at the moment and we are both to stubborn to break the ice

    I got my lh package today a sexy lace body stocking and I can't wait to try it out as I've never wore anything like that and I'm not very confident especially in the bedroom

    My plan is to let him go to bed first put the outfit on the be very controlling in the bedroom we are going out for a meal tomorrow so going to talk to him then but just want to break the ice

    I'm really scared as I've never done anything like this before what would you suggest I do to him

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't know what dynamic your relationship has, but I'd wait until you're talking again. I know if my OH wasn't speaking to me then came at me for sex I'd be telling him no, and it would be terrible if your OH turned you down when you are trying out your new bodystocking. Would be a pretty bad confidence knock and I know I would struggle not to think that I was undesirable in my new lingerie, even though I'd know deep down he is rejecting me because we aren't on good terms.

    Unless of course you are a couple who practise make up sex, in which case do ignore silly old me :)

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    rainbowbaby [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi pudgie, are you two not talking because you've had an argument or not talking for a different reason? I would probably wait until dinner tomorrow, have the stockings on underneath and go for it when you come back from dinner? You could drop hints in the meanwhile. Do so when you feel comfortable.

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    Pudgie [sign in to see picture]
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    He is in the wrong this time and he knows he is so I was hoping he would enjoy it

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    I would hold fire and get some talking done to get to the root of the problem .The body stockin g can wait until the following weeked.or until things improve whichever is the sooner.Use the dinner to settle your differences and be prepared to compromise .Falling out over trivial things isn't worth it, Talking is a vital component of a relationship , so normal service needs to resume as soon as possible.Making up after a fallout/disagreement can strengthen a relationship.

    Good luck.

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    Talk things over and see how the night pans out find out how he feels about you dressing up or down for him if he likes the idea tell him you have a surprise for him later if he is a good boy but let him know you want to be in control

    I think he needs a good spanking for being horrible to you loll

    If he's not into it maybe just some nice massage and kissing cuddles show him you love him even if he is an arse sometimes eather way hope it all goes well and enjoy

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    Remember the best part of breaking up is when you are making up

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    nodrog wrote:

    Talk things over and see how the night pans out find out how he feels about you dressing up or down for him if he likes the idea tell him you have a surprise for him later if he is a good boy but let him know you want to be in control

    I think he needs a good spanking for being horrible to you loll

    If he's not into it maybe just some nice massage and kissing cuddles show him you love him even if he is an arse sometimes eather way hope it all goes well and enjoy

    Definitely in need of a good spanking

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    nodrog [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry but the suspence is killing me

    How did it go?

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