• Anal..helppp tips please

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    Lovehoney - Dani [sign in to see picture]
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    My main tips to enjoying anal play:

    Silicone anal lube if you are not using toys, or a really good water-based anal lube otherwise. It's impossible to have too much moisture for this, especially when starting out.

    Different positions - try cowgirl, missionary or a spooning position instead of doggy style to vary the intimacy, the depth of penetration, and to help you control the speed and angle.

    Combine penetration (whether fingers, toys or a penis) with gentle clit stimulation, this helps relax the sphincter. 

    And most of all - communicate! If something hurts, or feels really good, or you want to change it up, speed up or slow down - say so. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with and certainly don't ignore any pain as that is your body saying stop. 

    Good luck! :)

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    Lovehoney - Dani wrote:

    My main tips to enjoying anal play:

    Silicone anal lube if you are not using toys, or a really good water-based anal lube otherwise. It's impossible to have too much moisture for this, especially when starting out.

    Different positions - try cowgirl, missionary or a spooning position instead of doggy style to vary the intimacy, the depth of penetration, and to help you control the speed and angle.

    Combine penetration (whether fingers, toys or a penis) with gentle clit stimulation, this helps relax the sphincter.

    And most of all - communicate! If something hurts, or feels really good, or you want to change it up, speed up or slow down - say so. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with and certainly don't ignore any pain as that is your body saying stop.

    Good luck! :)

    This!!! yes yes yes :) and have bags of fun!

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