• Dildos or butt plugs

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    There is no substitute for time with this. I think the trick is to do regular exercises with plugs and dildos of modest size. Initially I found the whole thing quite a challenge but these days I take the receiver's end of a Fun Factory Share XL:-

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14816

    fairly easily. The important thing is not to do anything that hurts. If it hurts your body's natural reaction is to clamp down on whatever is up there and this serves to make it hurt even more and the next time you do it your body will be expecting it to hurt.

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    AnalLover [sign in to see picture]
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    nastygrrl wrote:

    This is from a post i made previously about anal that didnt get as much feedback;

    I've recently stareted having anal sex with my partner but i want to know the best way to loosen my ass so it doesnt hurt. We usually start with lots of lube and fingers and then he puts his penis in slowly, keeps it sill in there, and then moves back and forth slowly until I'm ready for proper sex. I love anal and want more of it but my partner is pretty thick and sometimes it just takes too long to get it ready, or it just hurts too much to try. Even when we are successful if i want to do it again after its too sore to try.

    I want to be able to have anal much more regularly, a bit crude to ask but will my ass always be this tight or does it eventually get looser so its not so much hassle to get started?

    I have some beads and a butt plug but theyre more for pleasure than for training, can anyone recommend any lube/ toys to help me get a bit looser down there?

    I've found over the years that my starting size has increased. I used to start with a small / medium plug, then I graduated up to starting with a 1.25" diameter dildo... these days I can easily take this without any warm up http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27161

    It's just a matter of time and practice (such a hardship eh? )

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    susan50 [sign in to see picture]
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    I've been enjoying using this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31111 during sex and would like to try a dildo anally next - husband very excited by this idea

    thinking of tyring this - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31109

    opinions welcome

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