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    Vanilla_Kink [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner is really unhappy with how long he lasts in the bedroom and was wondering if anyone has made any purchases that have helped with this. We have tried delay lubes but we didn't like them. He is hoping for some sort of pill that will do the trick. Any help will be much appreciated x

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    Fozzbear [sign in to see picture]
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    Have you used cockrings?

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    Fozzbear wrote:

    Have you used cockrings?

    Silicone cock rings would be could to try. My OH has this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33549

    Pill wise, how about these? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28370

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    Purring-Pussy wrote:

    Fozzbear wrote:

    Have you used cockrings?

    Silicone cock rings would be could to try. My OH has this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33549

    Pill wise, how about these? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28370

    Excellent choices! Even if you didn't want to spend 5 pounds on the ring they do a basic one for a pound at the moment and a vibrating one for two if that helps.

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    Yeah defo a cock ring! Very good choices yes!

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    itshatter [sign in to see picture]
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    Asside from rings he could try edging and kegels.

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    Vanilla_Kink [sign in to see picture]
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    We have only tried one before and he took it off straight away because it was tight and uncomfortable. Are they supposed to feel like that though? Also, kegels? Are there male ones too?

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    Get him measured for one there's a guide in the cockring section. It's ment to feel tight to keep the blood in it but never realllly uncomfortable.

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    Fozzbear wrote:

    Get him measured for one there's a guide in the cockring section. It's ment to feel tight to keep the blood in it but never realllly uncomfortable.

    Thanks I will measure him then to make sure we get the right one :)
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    Taken from WebMD

    (how to find the muscles)


    Halfway through urination, try to stop or slow down the flow of urine.

    Don’t tense the muscles in your buttocks, legs, or abdomen and don’t hold your breath.

    When you can slow or stop the flow of urine, you’ve successfully located these muscles.


    To do Kegel exercises for men:


    Contract these muscles for a slow count of five.

    Release the muscles to a slow count of five.

    Repeat 10 times.

    Do a set of 10 Kegels daily, three times a day.

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    I find the more sex I have the longer I last.

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    Sir Psycho Sexy wrote:

    I find the more sex I have the longer I last.

    Lol I'm sure of all the advice he will want to try this method!
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    itshatter wrote:

    Taken from WebMD

    (how to find the muscles)


    Halfway through urination, try to stop or slow down the flow of urine.

    Don’t tense the muscles in your buttocks, legs, or abdomen and don’t hold your breath.

    When you can slow or stop the flow of urine, you’ve successfully located these muscles.


    To do Kegel exercises for men:


    Contract these muscles for a slow count of five.

    Release the muscles to a slow count of five.

    Repeat 10 times.

    Do a set of 10 Kegels daily, three times a day.

    Thank you, very similar to female ones then. I had no idea men could do them! I will tell him to get on the kegels ;)
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    No problem, soon he'll be like the energizer bunny and just keep on going. Lol.

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    Yes male kegal excersized and edging are the way to go, although neither is a ten Minot fix.

    if it's a one off special night he wants to last longer for, get him to masterbate before fun. Then give him a blow job, while he is recovering he has to pleasure you (however you want) when he has recovered make sex slow and sensual, spooning is a good position for this, and he should last longer than normal.

    Enjoy experimenting.

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    I had a similar problem,however I started using the Durex Extended Pleasure condoms really helped me last and I now find I last longer even without them.Definitely worth a try

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    Thank you for all the wonderful advice! I think we have a lot of experimenting ahead of us xx

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    I'd always recommend China brush. Allegedly used by porn stars. Works brill for me, though as said keep practising . :-)

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    Hi Vanilla_Kink

    I can personally recommend these "Bull Power Sexual Performance Pills for Men" they genuinely gave me a stamina boost, they're also in the two for £20 offer at the moment. 😉
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33692&reviewid=115132#customer_reviews

    Please keep in mind that these types of pills work differently with everyone, hope this helps. 😎

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    Distraction techniques work for me. I recite my 17 times table in my mind, can last forever like this ( I get well into the thousands lol sometimes in the tens of thousands - oops bragging now - wifey loves it, she says keep on counting lmao). When it's time to come I stop counting - simples!!! I'm sure he will find a way it's all a matter of experience. Do you mind me asking how old is your OH? If he is young then this issue is a common one.

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