• A thing for the maturer opposite sex.

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Mysteron...

    Wow I guess I live by a pretty crude statement that is probably better summed up if not mixing business with pleasure.

    You handled it well in my book.

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    Fozzbear wrote:

    I'd more than happily have a relationship with a maturer women I see no shame in that and would love it I don't see why other young fellas such as myself wouldnt corset_is but then again there isn't anyone like me :P

    I'll bet there's not 😜

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    Fozzbear wrote:

    I'd more than happily have a relationship with a maturer women I see no shame in that and would love it I don't see why other young fellas such as myself wouldnt corset_is but then again there isn't anyone like me :P

    I'll bet there's not 😜

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    Well, Mysteron!

    I would say you handled it very well, and it was the right thing to do by asking for her car keys, as goodness knows what could have happened. From a woman's point of view if I was her, I would today be feeling embarrased about what happened. It went from the sounds of things too far too quickly, and indeed let her down.

    A little disapointing to hear that she still tried to continue with her antics after telling her that you were happily married, I guess though that isn't something that always matters to everyone.

    Perhaps now you've seen a different light to the situation/her when she has had a drink.. half a bottle of wine would not be enough to get me into such a state. Everyone is different though I guess. Maybe this will settle any thoughts you may of had of her/and a situation that may arise?

    What was your wife livid about? The suit, her, or both?

    I now predict an apology coming from her. Are you scheduled to meet her again soon? I would be so so embarrased and doubt I would get involved with someone in such a way like she did if it was business, I like the saying "Don't shit where you eat", and would be worried if such a meeting would cause repercussions at work. Maybe I'm over analysing everything here.

    Everything aside, well played!

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    Mysteron, it sounds like you handled an awkward situation in a very gentlemanly manner.
    If I were this woman I'd be feeling mortified over my behaviour today! Oh, and well done over the car keys ....good thinking! x

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    mysteron wrote:

    Well I thought I would post details of the business luncheon meeting.I am probably about 13 years her senior and therefore pertinent to the topic.

    I arrived at the meeting some 30 minutes late as my taxi got caught up in the heavy Christmas holiday traffic.

    When I arrived I greater her with the usual double kiss on the cheek which I consider to be normal etiquette .I of course apologised for being late and I noticed she had already drunk half a bottle of red wine.Now I must admit that this lady is my type if I was perhaps 20 years younger and single being a little like Jess Glyn in looks and dressed very smartly in a pencil skirt type suit.When she got up I could tell with the bumps on the sides of her skirt that she had the full kit on underneath.

    The business side of the meeting went quite well with the promise of another contract for 2016 on top of our existing work with them.

    What let her down in my opinion was her antics.I did feel her foot rub against mine during the negotiations . I wasn't for playing footsie and moved my feet out of the way.She was rather forward fuelled by the drink and told me that she had just recently broke off her current relationship.Whilst on the subject of relationships I did tell her I was happily married. This did not seem to put her off as she had the desires for me of which I did find awkward to handle.She did try to place her foot in my groin area and I got up and made an excuse to go to the Gents.On returning she apologised for being forward and knocked my glass of wine over which went all over the trousers of my suit.I left again in an effort to sponge some of the red wine off.I told her on my return that we had better end this meeting now and I decided to do a gentlemanly thing and ask for her car keys.She was clearly well over the limit and I gave the keys to the restaurant manager for safe keeping.

    I ordered a taxi for her and escorted her to the vehicle when it arrived. I then ordered my own taxi and left for home with a potentially ruined suit.

    My wife was quite livid when I got back but was happy that I did nothing to encourage her advances.

    Wow..intense! i think you handled yourself very gentlemanly. What a flirt she is! Pity about your trousers though huh.

    Must be a nice feeling though to be desired like that though!

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    Sugarboobies EXACTLY the statement I say all the time!

    I work mostly with men and male customers sometimes someone will get a little ripped and flirty and my pat line is "thanks my OH will thank that is such a compliment" shuts it right down.

    We are all human I personally find it a compliment when someone hits on me, but there is a line esp. In business.

    Mysteron if I was your wife I would be proud of your control and also making sure the other lady was safe. My OH would have been more pissed about potentially ruined pants that I would be.

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    Thanks for the words of encouragement ladies.The suit is ruined but the boss will be replacing it for me as I was on official business .He will get the cost back by loading it into our prices.

    It wasn't easy because I haven't been in the dating game for over 25 years and I'll be honest here I have been out with some girls that really I didn't like because I was rubbish then at saying no.I was always worried about upsetting the other person's feelings.

    I am not sure if she really fancied me if being honest as she was fuelled by the wine ,on the rebound and the crazy time of the year.

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    Lots of variables but still there must have been a slight attraction!

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    Fozzbear wrote:

    Lots of variables but still there must have been a slight attraction!

    Certainly not encouraged from my end. Perhaps a younger version and single would have thought differdnt

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    I got told I'm naturally seductive but I have no idea I don't put anything on it just happens

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    Fozzbear wrote:

    I got told I'm naturally seductive but I have no idea I don't put anything on it just happens

    That's a good attribute and you new lady will appreciate that.Seduction appears to be a dieing art these days in a fast must have now world.

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    Fozzbear wrote:

    It went well we spoke for like half an hour then I had too dash off before I got proper told off there's a big job on today. We're meeting up on Sunday after getting XMAS out of the way!!!! I'm so excited.

    thanks for the support, help and guidance mysteron! I'll take on board the dressing up bit sounds like a good idea!!

    I'm so so pleased it went well for you fozzbear and can't wait too see how it Progress's on Sunday!💑

    Mysterons advice was good xx

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    Ozz wrote:

    mysteron wrote:

    Well I thought I would post details of the business luncheon meeting.I am probably about 13 years her senior and therefore pertinent to the topic.

    I arrived at the meeting some 30 minutes late as my taxi got caught up in the heavy Christmas holiday traffic.

    When I arrived I greater her with the usual double kiss on the cheek which I consider to be normal etiquette .I of course apologised for being late and I noticed she had already drunk half a bottle of red wine.Now I must admit that this lady is my type if I was perhaps 20 years younger and single being a little like Jess Glyn in looks and dressed very smartly in a pencil skirt type suit.When she got up I could tell with the bumps on the sides of her skirt that she had the full kit on underneath.

    The business side of the meeting went quite well with the promise of another contract for 2016 on top of our existing work with them.

    What let her down in my opinion was her antics.I did feel her foot rub against mine during the negotiations . I wasn't for playing footsie and moved my feet out of the way.She was rather forward fuelled by the drink and told me that she had just recently broke off her current relationship.Whilst on the subject of relationships I did tell her I was happily married. This did not seem to put her off as she had the desires for me of which I did find awkward to handle.She did try to place her foot in my groin area and I got up and made an excuse to go to the Gents.On returning she apologised for being forward and knocked my glass of wine over which went all over the trousers of my suit.I left again in an effort to sponge some of the red wine off.I told her on my return that we had better end this meeting now and I decided to do a gentlemanly thing and ask for her car keys.She was clearly well over the limit and I gave the keys to the restaurant manager for safe keeping.

    I ordered a taxi for her and escorted her to the vehicle when it arrived. I then ordered my own taxi and left for home with a potentially ruined suit.

    My wife was quite livid when I got back but was happy that I did nothing to encourage her advances.

    Waw....she wasn't half giving you the signals, i think she needed an ice bath too cool down! It's not all bad, I always find it flattering when guys compliment or "make a move", it's always nice being desired.

    I must say you handled yourself like a true gentleman mysteron, which is eather refreshing too see. Xx

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    Ozz wrote:

    mysteron wrote:

    Well I thought I would post details of the business luncheon meeting.I am probably about 13 years her senior and therefore pertinent to the topic.

    I arrived at the meeting some 30 minutes late as my taxi got caught up in the heavy Christmas holiday traffic.

    When I arrived I greater her with the usual double kiss on the cheek which I consider to be normal etiquette .I of course apologised for being late and I noticed she had already drunk half a bottle of red wine.Now I must admit that this lady is my type if I was perhaps 20 years younger and single being a little like Jess Glyn in looks and dressed very smartly in a pencil skirt type suit.When she got up I could tell with the bumps on the sides of her skirt that she had the full kit on underneath.

    The business side of the meeting went quite well with the promise of another contract for 2016 on top of our existing work with them.

    What let her down in my opinion was her antics.I did feel her foot rub against mine during the negotiations . I wasn't for playing footsie and moved my feet out of the way.She was rather forward fuelled by the drink and told me that she had just recently broke off her current relationship.Whilst on the subject of relationships I did tell her I was happily married. This did not seem to put her off as she had the desires for me of which I did find awkward to handle.She did try to place her foot in my groin area and I got up and made an excuse to go to the Gents.On returning she apologised for being forward and knocked my glass of wine over which went all over the trousers of my suit.I left again in an effort to sponge some of the red wine off.I told her on my return that we had better end this meeting now and I decided to do a gentlemanly thing and ask for her car keys.She was clearly well over the limit and I gave the keys to the restaurant manager for safe keeping.

    I ordered a taxi for her and escorted her to the vehicle when it arrived. I then ordered my own taxi and left for home with a potentially ruined suit.

    My wife was quite livid when I got back but was happy that I did nothing to encourage her advances.

    Waw....she wasn't half giving you the signals, i think she needed an ice bath too cool down! It's not all bad, I always find it flattering when guys compliment or "make a move", it's always nice being desired.

    I must say you handled yourself like a true gentleman mysteron, which is eather refreshing too see. Xx

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    Ozz wrote:

    Oh you're too kind slinky binky. I wish my hubby was half the man yours appears to be. he's lucky to have you. We sadly won't be together this time next year I'm sure of it! I need more, and I won't get that from him sadly again! x

    He's actually started paying me small compliments the past 3 days, doing more round the house, but it's just too late.

    Bear you really do need spec savers babe lol..but thank you kindly x

    Lol, don't get me wrong its not all hearts and flowers, there's been quite a few events since we've been together which had pushed us too the limit. I think because we always talk and most importantly listen to how one another feels make us stronger.

    Sounds like you've come to a decision, be strong you're a lovely, hot, warm, beautiful, Sexy lady and you'll find the path to happiness hunni 😘xx

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    Ozz looks fab in my eyes.

    I am one for the older lady, but i get on with most woman, just never take it any further then chats. I did date two or three that were all twenty years my senior, but got on as if they was my age.

    I have a few older female customers who will only talk to me, might be to do with trust. One I have gone too outside or work and checked over her car for her.

    Two/three i have seen online dating sites.

    Will never push things further, but nice to get a long with the older ladies.

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    Awe thanks slinky binky and skrammd xx

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    I was from the age of 15 into older ladies... they ranged from 2yrs to 6yr older than me and then I met my now wife and see is 7years younger..... things change

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