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    Fozzbear [sign in to see picture]
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    It really is a turn on! I got some underwear off someone and funnily enough they're the best ones I own I wear them a lot of the time in the bedroom and out and about they're great

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    Angel241113 [sign in to see picture]
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    do you make arrangements with people or do they just pick a person and buy stuff for them?

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    Fozzbear [sign in to see picture]
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    If someone likes you they can just buy you things no spend caps no commitments no strings and no arrangements.

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    what if the person you buy for wants to keep in contact? become friends, etc?

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    i mean, youre buying things for them, it seems only right you get a chance to thank them

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    Fozzbear [sign in to see picture]
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    Then that's down to your judgement. Cus you don't know who's bought you things.

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    Angel241113 [sign in to see picture]
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    how would you possibly find out who has?

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    Fozzbear [sign in to see picture]
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    It's hard but usually it'll end up being someone you've gotten close too. There are some threads that specialise in prezzies

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    It's against forum rules to exchange contact details. So that's not an issue x

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    Angel241113 [sign in to see picture]
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    do you give others gifts? or do people just give to you?

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    I have only ever had one gift and like you I'm money shy atm I'm only 19 nearly a qualified engineer so until then no gifts bought for people

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    I have given and received in the past. I'm likely to return a gift if I don't know who it's from.

    There are many threads on gifting etc, try using the search bar to find them and you can learn from there.

    Also, not a lot of people can afford to send things to others willy-nilly, so usually a friendship is built up over time. A lot of people come on the forums hoping for a freebie and it just doesn't happen that way.

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    what was it like to recieve the item/s?

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    MysticalMayhem wrote:

    I have given and received in the past. I'm likely to return a gift if I don't know who it's from.

    There are many threads on gifting etc, try using the search bar to find them and you can learn from there.

    Also, not a lot of people can afford to send things to others willy-nilly, so usually a friendship is built up over time. A lot of people come on the forums hoping for a freebie and it just doesn't happen that way.

    how does a friendship form when, as far as i can see, you cant message people directly?

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    If you are interested in the excitement of getting items you haven't had to pay for yourself I would recommend trying to be a sex toy tester. There is a link with all the details on the community page. There is also a thread on the forum in which people discuss the items that are up for testing. You would be a lot more likely to get a freebie going down this route :)

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    MysticalMayhem [sign in to see picture]
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    Become a member of the community. Give advice, chat on other threads, play games etc. Not rocket science really.

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    The best way to get freebies is to spend a bit of cash on stuff you want, write some decent reviews and then make a wishlist called sex toy testers and add tester items to it, and after a few months you might be chosen to test stuff - for free, and with dignity maintained. 👍

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    Angel241113 wrote:

    MysticalMayhem wrote:

    I have given and received in the past. I'm likely to return a gift if I don't know who it's from.

    There are many threads on gifting etc, try using the search bar to find them and you can learn from there.

    Also, not a lot of people can afford to send things to others willy-nilly, so usually a friendship is built up over time. A lot of people come on the forums hoping for a freebie and it just doesn't happen that way.

    how does a friendship form when, as far as i can see, you cant message people directly?

    There are a lot of threads on the forum and if you're a regular you get to know the other users. People also use twitter. I'm a newbie on there so I don't understand it at all yet x
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    Angel241113 [sign in to see picture]
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    i wasnt looking for freebies, i admit free stuff is always nice, but i just wanted to know peoples reasoning for and feelings about giving and recieving gifts. and meet some new people to talk to- im fairly new to this site.

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    Angel241113 wrote:

    MysticalMayhem wrote:

    I have given and received in the past. I'm likely to return a gift if I don't know who it's from.

    There are many threads on gifting etc, try using the search bar to find them and you can learn from there.

    Also, not a lot of people can afford to send things to others willy-nilly, so usually a friendship is built up over time. A lot of people come on the forums hoping for a freebie and it just doesn't happen that way.

    how does a friendship form when, as far as i can see, you cant message people directly?

    That's easy I think we are all friends on here and I for one feel comfortable in exchanging posts with anyone on here.

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