• Watching porn and playing with toys while other half is out.

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    mrsksmithy11011 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya all,

    I've got a big secret, I watch porn and have a play while my other half is out! He doesn't know, I don't think I could tell him as I know he won't approve.

    I'm not even sure if it's wrong or if it's just me having a bit of me time. Thing is, we don't have sex very often, maybe twice a month, and sometimes I get really sexually frustrated, but I can't tell him!

    I guess Im telling you guys as I needed to get it off my chest!

    Also the other night I had a dream about a 3some and my god it was amazing!!

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    sugarboobies2232 [sign in to see picture]
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    I feel you. I'm quite lucky with my man, I love watching porn and he knows I do, sometimes we even hook the laptop to the telly and have porn on in the background while we have sex, he finds it a huge turn on.

    How do you know he wouldn't approve? You never know, he may surprise you! Regards to th threesome; have you tried double penetration during sex or a solo session? I've found it helps with the threesome fantasy, a great full feeling without the third party. X

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    Omnom95 [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't see anything wrong with this in the slighest. Is it the porn you don't think he would approve of or simply playing without him being present? If you aren't getting enough pleasure, or even if you are, it's perfectly normal to want a little me time. In my previous relationship we would masturbate a hell of a lot even though we were getting pleasured when in each others company.

    I myself like watching porn too while playing. If I was your partner I would more than approve of you having some time to yourself. Chances are he does it too so why shouldn't you?

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    I play with my butt plugs/sounding rods when my OH is out, but she knows I do that, she doesn't know I've watched some porn though.

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    Vanilla_Kink [sign in to see picture]
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    Ive been the same in both long term relationships I've been in. I think part of it is losing a bit of the spark Sexually. Part of it for me is also that if I'm on my own it's quicker to get the job done and I only have to think about myself lol

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    twincats [sign in to see picture]
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    I see no problem with play time for your self, it Hurst no one and help with your own sexual desire.
    I have personal time and enjoy watching film/ tv programmes.
    My other half never miss her desire need, always willing to help out....

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    nodrog [sign in to see picture]
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    Maybe if you let him catch you and tell him why your doing it you may find that it relights the spark and sex may happen a lot more than twice per month

    Hopefully for you it could lead to all sorts of nice things

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    FirstTimeLovers [sign in to see picture]
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    Does he watch porn? If yes he can't complain, if not then he might not like it but that doesnt mean he will see anything wrong with it. If i was him i'd only be annoyed that you hadn't told me sooner, i'd love it. My girlfriend doesn't watch porn but id she ever has played by herself i love to know; iask all sorts of questions and we normally have sex.

    Ignoring the porn, would he eally see it as that much of a ba thing that you're so horny for him you can't wait? One day you could just drop him a text while he's at work or whatever telling him that you're having a play. If it was me i'd either get home asap, have to run somewhere i could sort myself or at least phone to share it with you.

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    Sir Psycho Sexy [sign in to see picture]
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    If having sex only twice a month bothers him then I would be very careful. If I were in his shoes and I found out my OH was pleasuring herself I wouldn't be happy given we don't have a lot of sex anyway.
    If he's not particularity bothered about having more sex than twice a month then go for it!

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