• Prostate massage

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    Jenny42 [sign in to see picture]
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    Any ideas on how I can do this
    We have never tried anal before
    I gave him a blow job this morning before work and I felt around his anal area
    He loved it and came hard in my mouth
    Would love to enter him and massage his prostrate
    Any tips please <<<

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    MK7 [sign in to see picture]
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    It's as simple as slipping in some fingers with plenty of lubricant, searching around until you find it and then stimulating it by rubbing, pressing or whatever with their fingers. Just make sure they've gone to the bathroom beforehand. Save him the embarassment...

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    Your hubby is turning out to be a VERY lucky man!

    Just a couple of thoughts - he may be more squeamish than you about such things so he might like to douche beforehand so he is totally clean. There are loads to choose from here on LH

    Also, fingernails (even quite short ones) can be an issue in which case a small dildo could be an alternative to the finger. - e.g :-

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30708

    And, of course plenty of lube is a great help.

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    Jenny42 [sign in to see picture]
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    Turns out we are both far naughtier than we realised
    It's amazing what a good talk can do
    We have had more sexual encounters and mind blowing sex this week than we've had all year!!!
    Thank god I'm off on holidays this week
    You seem pretty open minded which I'm sure your OH loves
    My OH was surprised that he liked that sensation
    Thanks for your advice

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    We are pretty open-minded now but both had the sort of Victorian upbringing that instilled quite the reverse. It took a long time for simple logic to kick in - we are all programmed to like sex for the continuance of the species so why be up tight about it?

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    Jenny42 [sign in to see picture]
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    My husband and I were brought up Catholics!
    Funny how the guilt has left us now
    Replaced by pleasure and love
    It's great to have a platform to talk to other people
    I'm sure my sister would choke on her cuppa if she knew what I get up to!!!

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes, I guess Philip Larkin had it about right about parenting. Hopefully we will do a better job than previous generations.

    This is a great place to exchange ideas and info that you could never have a face-to-face discussion about with a friend. I once tried to help a friend who I know had problems with much the info we have been discussing and I thought a friendship of over 30 year's standing was going west - he was horrified!

    Anyway, I wouldn't worry about family opinion - my brother would only be confirmed in his low opinion of both of us if he knew what we get up to.

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