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    Boogaloo wrote:

    Thanks for the advice everyone :)

    Hot Dog I know what you mean. I do like to 'edge' during foreplay and sex, as in get so close to orgasm but stop myself from coming to make the feeling last as long as possible, however if my partner changes position/technique all of a sudden it aggravates me and then I end up too frustrated to orgasm ha! It's not really his fault though because I should communicate better with him to let him know that I want him to continue doing something, usually he can pick it up just from my voice or body language though.

    I guess I'll keep trying, everyone talks about how incredible it is it's hard to feel like I'm not missing out! Having said that my normal orgasms are so good it's hard to be imagine what it feels like, especially since I've been doing my kegels (which apparently helps with squirting). We'll see I guess!

    I wouldn't get too hung up on all this squirting malarky. As you say your "normal" orgasms are good, and I'm pretty sure there are plenty of ladies who would love to be in your shoes for that alone, factor in your stunning looks and general demeanour? Its a shoo-in. I think intensity of orgasm is all down to the partner you are with, and by all accounts you are blessed in that department as well. A guy doesn't have to worry about multiple, squirting, gushing or any of that new fangled stuff (although I am a bit partial to a stinky finger on the vinegar stroke) so I guess we are blessed in our simplicity. Having said that I have given up on the odd crafty wank, as its just a waste of time in the pleasure department. However an orgasm with my wife can leave me feeling godlike/ an emotional mess/ vulnerable/ the most bad ass person in the world, and sometimes all at the same time. A bit like Burt Reynolds in Deliverance. Without the inbred banjo boy.
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    Ah macspants you're absolutely right, thank you :)

    Squirting isn't that important to me, just something I'm really curious about and dying to know what it's like! But as you said I'm more than satisfied with my regular orgasms and the pleasure I have with my OH, so it's not an absolute must for me. If it happens then it happens I guess :)

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    I think that's the right attitude. I am so grateful that 99% of the time me and my wife have synchronicity in our orgasms.

    Even after 20 odd years of frickle frackle it still bothers me if I orgasm and she doesn't. When that happens there is always a nagging doubt that I have somehow failed. I couldn't imagine the pressure I would feel if I felt beholden to assist in this squirting (which seems pretty nebulous anyway)

    Thank god she doesn't read these forums. Its bad enough that I'm hung like a hamster and have the technique of Anne Widecombe on Strictly Come Dancing. If she finds out that some men are capable of making something other than a baby come from a vajayia? The fact I have a nipple that is George Clooneys doppelganger just won't cut the mustard.

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    Hahah macspants! You always put things so eloquently ;)

    My partner is the same, if he comes and I don't then it upsets him and I have to explain that some days it's just harder than others and it's nothing he's done wrong. He always offers to finish me off in other ways though! But lately we have been quite in sync and been finishing at the same time, I think the clenching from my orgasms sets him off..

    I wouldn't ask him to help me squirt tbh because I don't even know how to do it myself! If I ever figure it out then I may show him how to do it if he's interested, but otherwise I'll keep this to myself as there's no use frustrating him as well as myself! :p

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    Well done - here is a story of immense happiness!

    After literally years of me going on at my OH to see if she will squirt as I'm desperate to feel it and see it (too much porn I think!) we seem to have hit the jackpot!

    For years I've tried to give it to my OH harder when she gets real wet, pull out at oppotune moments etc etc but it just hasn't worked. I've even asked her to pee on me just to feel the wetness. Nothing though.....even reading and wathcing techniques on here, she didn't like the feeling of fingers inside her trying to touch her gpost and rub fast etc...I tried different toys as well, including getting the Njoy Wand which was apprantly guranteed to make her squirt! nothing! £80 later!

    But....after reading a post on here, I purchased the following:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14134

    OMG!!! It so worked for my OH! The first time we tried, it was in out slowly, smoothly, not to hard for about 15mins when she was very turned on and out came a gush! Wow I was over the moon as was she! Felt nice she said but not mind blowing.

    Tried a second time on another session and a small trickle, nothing major....little dissapointed but didn't mind, lots of experimenting is good.

    Third time on Monday, OMG!!!! She told me to make sure I pull it out when she says, christ it was like a fountain!!!! Pushed out hard and it squirted all over me and in my mouth! Glorious I tell you! VERY pleased and it left her begging straight for my cock and a good session!

    Going to try again tonight for a fouth session...

    For those practicing, get this toy and insert it when foreplay has been commenced and ease it in and out slowly, fast or smoothly whatever suits your lady and it does take about 15-20mins but she will get the feeling and that feeling leads very nicely to explosions - I want her to do more now though that's the only thing, but she just wants me in her!

    Thanks Love Honey! You have let us achieve a life time ambition!!!! AMAZING!!

    Tips wise on the toys - has anyone got another one like this shape that is slightly less noisey or stronger vibrations? Any recommendations taken!

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    I used to really have trouble with coming and squirting, then I read that the best thing to do is get in the bath (full or empty), and masturbate and focus on tensing your kegels then when you feel the climax build up, start to use the muscles the other way like you do when you wee :) the bath helps because you're not bothered about the clean up and it worked first time for me after 2 years of trying :)

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    I've only really explosively squirted once, a few weeks ago with my friend. If I squirt it needs to be constant stimulation of my g spot and none on my clit right from the start of the session. He went at it for ten/fifteen minutes... Then it happened about four times in quick succession. Like a fountain!⛲
    I honestly believe that it's definitely something every woman can achieve, just takes practice.

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    fingers work best in a come hither mothing really firmly rub yor g-spot also dont stop as you gety the "pee" feeling keep going and breath my first try i was determind it took me an hour and half but now i squirt with mr fucking me it gets easier once you get the hang of it x

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    Interesting experience last night and still not 100% sure what happened...

    Historically found it very difficult to orgasm apart from lying on my tummy. Started experimenting with toys and am now able to orgasm on my back with or without penetration. So far so good.

    Was playing with just a toy on my clit, nothing inside me, and I felt this weird feeling. It was a bit like one of those phantom wees (you know when you're just minding your own business and suddenly feel a warmth like you've wet yourself- but you haven't?). I assumed it was just something new sensationwise so I carried on, and by the time I realised I actually was weeing I couldn't really stop.

    Thoughts after the clean up operation as follows:

    1) I was more or less at the point of orgasm but if anything it was less intense than usual... seemed without the normal strong muscle contraction or as clear cut a sense of going over the edge

    2) No g spot stimulation was involved

    3) I had a wee after and not much came out

    4) Think it smelt of wee (though hard to tell as well hydrated)

    I didn't feel like I needed to go beforehand but apart from that I'm 90% sure that I just got my body a bit confused and let go by accident without realising. To be honest squirting has never really appealed to me because of the mess, so as much as I'm a bit embarrassed at the idea of essentially wetting myself... I would sort of rather it was that.

    If anyone with a bit more experience (in either the squirting or the accidentally weeing department) could let me know what they think just happened that'd be really helpful, thanks!

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    First time posting, so be gentle :-) didn't think it was worthy of a new topic.

    Squirting is a regular occurrence in the bedroom for us now, and at times it's led to me sleeping in the spare bed due to a frankly huge wet patch. Towels don't seem to do much at all, easily soaking through a doubled up one.

    I've been looking at the Liberator Fascinator Throe, now unfortunately love hunny appear to have stopped doing these and after a quick chat with a friendly customer service rep the only alternatives are very plastic slip-and-slide style covers. It's this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10935

    Has anyone used the above product? I read a review that says it soaks in about 2l of water, and it looks nice enough to keep on our bed without it's purpose being too obvious :-)

    It's pretty expensive though, perhaps why love hunny stopped stocking it? There are alternative pads on amazon for cheaper that may also do the trick but I'm happy to spend a little more for something that works.

    I'd also have to find somewhere to buy it, though my preference would obviously be for love hunny to stock it again ;-)

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    I've wanted to try squirting too, but I always feel like I have to pee, it makes me tense and I can't let go. My ooh is very nice about it though, he wants me to let go and he says if i pee, then i pee, but it makes me self concious Any ideas?

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    This was so helpful. I need to show this to my boyfriend when he gets home.

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    Squirting or even being able to cum at all shouldn't be on anyone's mind before or during sex!
    It's very true what's been written here and its about the experience you're both having with one another that's really the magical bit..

    So relax and don't sweat it, if it happens then that'll be an awesome achievement, but if not, then it doesn't matter x

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    This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!

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    NatandTom wrote:

    This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!

    Haha, you still crack me up!

    Could have done with some sqirting last night, but he's not very well and is exhausted!!

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    HoneyBear7 wrote:

    I've wanted to try squirting too, but I always feel like I have to pee, it makes me tense and I can't let go. My ooh is very nice about it though, he wants me to let go and he says if i pee, then i pee, but it makes me self concious Any ideas?

    OH experiences the same thiing....feels like she needs to pee, then this distracts her too much to sometimes even cum. Total mood killer. This sensation is apparently normal, on the way to squirting, but never going to be able to get through the phase if it kills the mood.

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    Ozz wrote:

    NatandTom wrote:

    This thread is great. Still haven't managed it, I'm getting closer but I don't mind continuing to practice as it's all part of the fun!

    Haha, you still crack me up!

    Could have done with some sqirting last night, but he's not very well and is exhausted!!

    Same for you!

    In the meantime can you not do it yourself with a wand? I'd of thought that kind of power might be able to make it happen!

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    I started reading this thread this morning as I'm on my day off from work.

    Honestly, I just had to share with you. Have not squirted like this before. A little before, but I GUSHED today. I read around on the internet too, make sure your bladder is completley empty before, and drink lots of water to keep hydrated. I started by fingering myself a little, (put some fingers inside and you'll feel there are some spongey feeling ridges, slightly up from that there's a slight dip, press HARD on this with your fingers making a "come hither" motion) I kept doing this but with us women it's as much physical as it is mental. Make yourself completley comfortable and just let go and don't over think it. When you feel like you're going to pee, KEEP GOING. At this point, I finished mysel off by rubbing my clit.. just as you are about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD.

    This is exactly what I did. I decided to get my wand out and a bit of porn and BAM.

    My OH gets home in 1 1/2 hours, I've already sent him a few pics of me and the sheets, I can't wait for him to get home.

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    sugarboobies2232 wrote:

    I started reading this thread this morning as I'm on my day off from work.

    Honestly, I just had to share with you. Have not squirted like this before. A little before, but I GUSHED today. I read around on the internet too, make sure your bladder is completley empty before, and drink lots of water to keep hydrated. I started by fingering myself a little, (put some fingers inside and you'll feel there are some spongey feeling ridges, slightly up from that there's a slight dip, press HARD on this with your fingers making a "come hither" motion) I kept doing this but with us women it's as much physical as it is mental. Make yourself completley comfortable and just let go and don't over think it. When you feel like you're going to pee, KEEP GOING. At this point, I finished mysel off by rubbing my clit.. just as you are about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD.

    This is exactly what I did. I decided to get my wand out and a bit of porn and BAM.

    My OH gets home in 1 1/2 hours, I've already sent him a few pics of me and the sheets, I can't wait for him to get home.

    Sounds incredible! Your OH is in for a treat tonight!

    When you say when you're about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD, what are you pushing down on, your clit?

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    Hot Dog wrote:

    sugarboobies2232 wrote:

    I started reading this thread this morning as I'm on my day off from work.

    Honestly, I just had to share with you. Have not squirted like this before. A little before, but I GUSHED today. I read around on the internet too, make sure your bladder is completley empty before, and drink lots of water to keep hydrated. I started by fingering myself a little, (put some fingers inside and you'll feel there are some spongey feeling ridges, slightly up from that there's a slight dip, press HARD on this with your fingers making a "come hither" motion) I kept doing this but with us women it's as much physical as it is mental. Make yourself completley comfortable and just let go and don't over think it. When you feel like you're going to pee, KEEP GOING. At this point, I finished mysel off by rubbing my clit.. just as you are about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD.

    This is exactly what I did. I decided to get my wand out and a bit of porn and BAM.

    My OH gets home in 1 1/2 hours, I've already sent him a few pics of me and the sheets, I can't wait for him to get home.

    Sounds incredible! Your OH is in for a treat tonight!

    When you say when you're about to cum, PUSH DOWN HARD, what are you pushing down on, your clit?

    It sure was Hot Dog! Ah well, we will see if he is too tired after work, lol.

    It's difficult to explain, but imagine if you're bursting for a pee and you clench to hold it in? You want to do the opposite and really push down on your pelvic floor, like you are trying to push every last drop of pee out (does that make ANY sense?!) I've read somewhere it can help if someone pushes down gently on your abdomen.

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