• Squirting

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    Ultrabeat [sign in to see picture]
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    download that thing and watch it, its more a porno than anything but has useful tips

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    i have never managed to open the flood gates by masturbation, but my OH is very good at makin it happen durin sex, i find for me, it usually happens when hes on top holdin me down, skin to skin, and by how i can only describe as grindin, rather than endlessly pumpin away lol, althou it can get quite rough at times....just wanted to say that, that wantin to pee sensation u get is so true lol, u just gotta learn to relax an go with it, my flood gates open almost everytime we have sex now and its great.....apart from the bed soakin we get from it lol....thank goodness for hairdryers lmao :D

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    it's only happened twice for me - with my last boyfriend around easter last year

    anyway - i'd woken around 4am (needing to wee - as we girls do lol) and i came back to bed to find him awake, and full of morning glory. Needless to say - I didn't need an invitation.

    He quickly kissed me and in one swift motion, was on top of me, his cock had guided itself to where it should go and he was pumping me - I am generally naturally wet, never any need for lube, even with toys.

    Now I have to say, it was very rare for him to be on top of me, you could probably count on 1 hand the number of times he was on top of me - but anyway. it was very primal how he made love with me that morning. it was almost like he was grinding into me and it was like every stroke said "you're mine, you're mine" while he was eating my neck.

    Anyway - I could feel the orgasm building and it was so intense, with a pressure that I hadn't felt before. And I just remember thinking - wtf - what is happening? what the fuck is going on ... I thought I was weeing ..... and he didn't correct me at the time cos he obviously knew what had happened, but I didn't.

    I didn't know what squirting was at the time, and he was obviously quite proud of himself. It wasn't until he came home that day and asked me how my day was that I told him I booked an appointment with my GP cos I was embarrassed about my strange wee during sex that morning.

    He was in fits of laughter and explained it to me - I think i checked the sheets about 10 times to see if it smelled of wee - obviously it didn't but I was kinda freaked cos I wasn't sure what had happened.

    Then we spent some time googling it to put my mind at rest.

    The point is - I was really relaxed and comfortable and happy in a loving relationship.

    It happened once again after that (about a week later, under very similar circumstances - and again with him on top) except it was at my place - not his where it had happened the first time.

    Very satisfying - and I hope that it will happen again :D

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    The first time it happened for me I had orgasmed once during sex (we had tried to make me squirt but gave up as it was taking so long), again later with my rabbit and then about half an hour later I was still horney so decided to use my clitoral vibrator not actually thinking I would orgasm again! Anyway about 20mins later I suddenly started 'gushing' (had to sleep on the otherside of the bed as I hadnt prepared a towel!)

    A few days later my whilst having some fun with my OH and a glass dildo I felt the orgasm building so I got him to take over with his fingers and according to him I properly squirted up his arm. As he was drunk he found highly amusing!

    I havent squirted since just the odd 'dribble' as it takes long constant stimulation, but its nice to know I can :-)

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    I didn't read through every single post on this thread as there are so many, so please excuse me if this has already been raised.

    I fully believe that I have now become capable of squirting following one particularly hot and heavy fingering session. Since then when I've masturbated I've deliberately gone for g spot stimulation and find myself seemingly squirting. I've tried it after having a wee first to try to be sure it's not just me peeing.

    I know you can't exactly trust what you see on porn, but mine doesn't seem to literally squirt the way I see in clips, it seems to gush rather than squirt. And naturally I'm kinda getting paranoid thinking is gushing rather than squirting actually peeing rather than ejaculation?!?!?

    Help!!!

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    KinkieMinksie wrote:

    I didn't read through every single post on this thread as there are so many, so please excuse me if this has already been raised.

    I fully believe that I have now become capable of squirting following one particularly hot and heavy fingering session. Since then when I've masturbated I've deliberately gone for g spot stimulation and find myself seemingly squirting. I've tried it after having a wee first to try to be sure it's not just me peeing.

    I know you can't exactly trust what you see on porn, but mine doesn't seem to literally squirt the way I see in clips, it seems to gush rather than squirt. And naturally I'm kinda getting paranoid thinking is gushing rather than squirting actually peeing rather than ejaculation?!?!?

    Help!!!

    Hi, there is nothing to worry about. If you have gone to the toilet before hand and your bladder is empty you will find that it is female ejaculate. When I squirt I can have anything from a dribble to a squirt to a full on gush! Hope this helps. x

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    KinkieMinksie [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Minx. Porn really does make one paranoid!

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    KinkieMinksie wrote:

    Thanks Minx. Porn really does make one paranoid!

    Your welcome. I'm sure other members would tell you the same thing and I wouldn't take the way they squirt in porn too seriously. x

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    sexy little minx wrote:

    KinkieMinksie wrote:

    Thanks Minx. Porn really does make one paranoid!

    Your welcome. I'm sure other members would tell you the same thing and I wouldn't take the way they squirt in porn too seriously. x

    I've started to get really wet lately, and rather than the fountain effect it's more of a gush, both in feel and effect. So don't let the porn squirt scare you, it's probably not a proper ejaculate in some cases and those that are real will have practiced for hours as it's their job. It's probably quite rare to find someone who's actually like the Trevi Fountain.

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    I've often wondered about this . I never got an orgasm from penetration - only if he 'played ' with my clit. I got the 'need to pee' feeling and very gradually learnt to relax a little through that and eventually got this incredible release from the tension - I was very very wet afterwards .

    I was always afraid I would pee so I didn't enjoy it as much as I would have done if I'd known about squirting . I would often try and stop him bringing me to this point because of fear - not always successful in that though

    Now - can't really seem to get to orgasm on my own , and I could really do with that . I get so far but no further and my 'bits' really ache afterwards - the ache of an unfulfilled orgasm

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    silveroldie wrote:

    I've often wondered about this . I never got an orgasm from penetration - only if he 'played ' with my clit. I got the 'need to pee' feeling and very gradually learnt to relax a little through that and eventually got this incredible release from the tension - I was very very wet afterwards .

    I was always afraid I would pee so I didn't enjoy it as much as I would have done if I'd known about squirting . I would often try and stop him bringing me to this point because of fear - not always successful in that though

    Now - can't really seem to get to orgasm on my own , and I could really do with that . I get so far but no further and my 'bits' really ache afterwards - the ache of an unfulfilled orgasm

    As loads have said, just make sure you go to the loo beforehand and you will be okay

    Don't stop yourself as you could end up training yourself not to orgasm, maybe this is part of your problem? A bit of self conditioning.

    I think everyone goes through stages in their life, hell week for me! I sometimes find it much more difficult to orgasm than others, you've just got to accept it and forget about it. I think as you get older (in my early 40's) you find things take a while longer anyway. Don't worry and just enjoy what you do, both together and alone.

    What toys have you tried? Maybe the ones you're trying aren't for you. I usually need clit and penetration if I'm 'working' alone.

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    I'm using an egg [ Basic Love egg ] and the big pink banana :) Can't use a rabbit as I can't reach the controls . I'm debating getting a Wireless egg - the wires from this one are a bit of a pain and can be uncomfortable after a while.

    Snag is I'm only getting 'so far ' - I've tried penetration using the banana - that works to a certain point , but it is really needed for clitoral stimulation. I can take that to the stage when my clit is really aroused and it's almost to the point of equisite pain - which is what I need [ from memory - 4+ years ago and from there I would suddenly be almost begging my husband to stop but he knew he needed to continue, and did even more energetically and then I would just let go and feel that I was just incredibly wet and getting much wetter and it felt absolutely wonderful ] , but I can get no further - I'm not sure what the problem is - all I know is that my bits are calling out for more but I can't take it that stage further on so that I orgasm .

    I'm still waking some nights - very very wet and aroused sexually but I can't take it to fulfillment and I'm not kidding when I say that my labia , clit and my pelvic floor seem to want more - I'm very conscious of a good throbbing and contractions of the muscles , and this is not comfortable.

    I'm just so happy that I can actually open up here and talk about it. What I could do with is a MAN but that ain't likely to happen - so I need to find a solution for me . After all what man would want to be used just for this - I'm in age old , obese not attractive but why the heck do I have to give up my sexlife ?

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    silveroldie wrote:

    I'm using an egg [ Basic Love egg ] and the big pink banana :) Can't use a rabbit as I can't reach the controls . I'm debating getting a Wireless egg - the wires from this one are a bit of a pain and can be uncomfortable after a while.

    Snag is I'm only getting 'so far ' - I've tried penetration using the banana - that works to a certain point , but it is really needed for clitoral stimulation. I can take that to the stage when my clit is really aroused and it's almost to the point of equisite pain - which is what I need [ from memory - 4+ years ago and from there I would suddenly be almost begging my husband to stop but he knew he needed to continue, and did even more energetically and then I would just let go and feel that I was just incredibly wet and getting much wetter and it felt absolutely wonderful ] , but I can get no further - I'm not sure what the problem is - all I know is that my bits are calling out for more but I can't take it that stage further on so that I orgasm .

    I'm still waking some nights - very very wet and aroused sexually but I can't take it to fulfillment and I'm not kidding when I say that my labia , clit and my pelvic floor seem to want more - I'm very conscious of a good throbbing and contractions of the muscles , and this is not comfortable.

    I'm just so happy that I can actually open up here and talk about it. What I could do with is a MAN but that ain't likely to happen - so I need to find a solution for me . After all what man would want to be used just for this - I'm in age old , obese not attractive but why the heck do I have to give up my sexlife ?

    Did you give the Rock Chic a try? It sounds like you might need stronger vibrations.

    Can anyone recommend a stronger vibe (that's easy to reach/use) than the ones Silveroldie has?

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    sharry wrote:

    silveroldie wrote:

    I'm using an egg [ Basic Love egg ] and the big pink banana :) Can't use a rabbit as I can't reach the controls . I'm debating getting a Wireless egg - the wires from this one are a bit of a pain and can be uncomfortable after a while.

    Snag is I'm only getting 'so far ' - I've tried penetration using the banana - that works to a certain point , but it is really needed for clitoral stimulation. I can take that to the stage when my clit is really aroused and it's almost to the point of equisite pain - which is what I need [ from memory - 4+ years ago and from there I would suddenly be almost begging my husband to stop but he knew he needed to continue, and did even more energetically and then I would just let go and feel that I was just incredibly wet and getting much wetter and it felt absolutely wonderful ] , but I can get no further - I'm not sure what the problem is - all I know is that my bits are calling out for more but I can't take it that stage further on so that I orgasm .

    I'm still waking some nights - very very wet and aroused sexually but I can't take it to fulfillment and I'm not kidding when I say that my labia , clit and my pelvic floor seem to want more - I'm very conscious of a good throbbing and contractions of the muscles , and this is not comfortable.

    I'm just so happy that I can actually open up here and talk about it. What I could do with is a MAN but that ain't likely to happen - so I need to find a solution for me . After all what man would want to be used just for this - I'm in age old , obese not attractive but why the heck do I have to give up my sexlife ?

    Did you give the Rock Chic a try? It sounds like you might need stronger vibrations.

    Can anyone recommend a stronger vibe (that's easy to reach/use) than the ones Silveroldie has?

    I dont know how strong those she has are... As I dont own them. Dont know how strong is Silencer and the video is not working. Its also big so should be decently easy to hold in her hand

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16603#videos

    The Bodywand is supposed to be extremely strong, but it is pricey

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21234

    I generally have more success with power with plastic vibes compared to silicone, as they feel different in the silicone.

    But how about some orgasm boosters? The Bombshell balm does sometimes wonders to me or the Durex O has good reviews and LH has great return policy in case they dont work for her?

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    Here's a rechargable wand with a bent handle that might work with your arm difficulties, silveroldie. I got it on the £20 sale and to be honest, I had no idea anything could be this strong. It's too much for me, so I can't recommend it enthusiastically, but maybe it will work better for you?

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9748

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    Wow! It still doesn't cease to amaze me that there are women out htere who really enjoy sex as much as you lot do and that you are all open enough to openly discuss your sexual aspirations, trails and tribulations!

    ...

    Also as a male, this is quite an arousing thread to read! I think it might be time for me to take some "personal time"!!

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    First (and only ) time I've squirted was when I was on top and the guy leant forward and sucked/licked/kissed/nibbled my boobs. Oh. My. God. I didn't even realise what had happened until I got up and he was covered in my juices and the bed was wet! Best orgasm ever!

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    After hours of dedication to the cause, my amazing OH made me squirt this evening WOO HOO ;) was totally amazing, and to be honest he was not expecting it (it kinda caught him by surprise, full on the face).

    Thanks for all the tips and tricks guys :) xx

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    my hubby has tried only once since i suggested this idea ... about 2 months ago.. :-(. I have a vibe but its not happening. I dont think my hubby has the patience to wait for me to squirt. I am just going to have to keep trying myself. Perhaps I might invest in a gspot toy although my new vibe is pretty good.

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    good luck with it Dee

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