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    jaycloth [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.

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    jaycloth wrote:

    I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.

    Whilst it does contain traces of urea and creatinine which are found in urine they are in much much lower concentrations. It also contains chemicals produced by the female prostate. When these chemicals are found in urine it's in much lower quantities than in female ejaculate.

    To quote a fantastic website on the subject

    Female ejaculate and urine contain the same substances found in male ejaculate. These common substances, PSA, PAP, & PSAP, are at a higher concentration in the ejaculate than they are in urine. This demonstrates they are not exactly the same thing. The female prostate contributes more to the ejaculate than it does to the urine.

    You can read more about lady love juices at http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/arouse_indx.htm

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    Lots of people report it's consistency to be close to semen than wee.

    I think a lot of the associations with urine come from porn where they fake ridiculous, metre long ejaculations which are either urination or pyrotechnics. (if you achieve this though, hats off)

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    jaycloth wrote:

    I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.

    Not meaning to offend, but I assume that u have never experianced making a woman ejaculate like this as I can assure u is isnt from a womans ureathra.

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    I used to think it was just pee from seeing porn and when my OH mentioned he'd been with a couple of women who'd done this (and just soaked the mattress) and I was very rude about them and said they'd pissed themselves etc. It's still something we're exploring, but I'm pretty sure now it can't just be 'pee'. I an only speak for my own experience and it appears to be different to his other bed partners - so maybe they did just piss the bed given it soaked sheets etc! lol

    However, the reason I know form my own experience there's a difference between my body doing that and simply urinating is mainly because a small amount of fluid has come out of me when being stimulated, but after we've finished being together and he's held me a while the sensation of 'needing to pee' goes as that area's no longer being stimulated. Some time after we've finished I will go to the loo and quite often (probably TMI!) I will have quite a long wee! So clearly my bladder was fairly full so if it was 'just pee' then I think a huge amount of 'ejaculate/wee' would have come out of me if that's all it was. This is why I have no started to change my opinion about it - and from reading more widely about it/people's experiences. Also, in the past this happened to my partner when he was having intercourse with the women and both parties were surprised when it happened. With me, I suppose the difference has been very actively exploring my g spot with his fingers and - not necessarily trying to get me to squirt - but finding out what it feels like for both of us. When I have ejaculated (which surpised me) he could feel my vagina contracting and could tell something was about to occur beforehand. Also, the last time it happened and there was more ejaculate I didn't actually even feel anything happening! So it certainly wasn't 'just pee' then because I'd have felt it if I was pissing the bed! As others have said, I think it's something you need to experience first hand to see the difference.

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    Malteser81 wrote:

    jaycloth wrote:

    I don't care what anyone says - its just wee.

    Not meaning to offend, but I assume that u have never experianced making a woman ejaculate like this as I can assure u is isnt from a womans ureathra.

    Actually my understanding is that it is ejaculated out of the urethra - which is why you get the 'need to pee' sensation...

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    sexynurse09 wrote:

    I always find it feels better when i'm lying down, Elcano!

    Does anybody know, is it possible to squirt from a clitoral orgasm? Because i'm sure this happened the other night!! But I always thought it had to be from G spot stimulation

    x

    That's very cool. I think all the sweet spots must have some connection and it's possible that a range of stimulation could 'blend' an orgasm. I think that even when primarily focus on one areas the other spots may be working independantly. For example the involuntary movements we get inside and the AMAZING range of things that happen when we become aroused.

    In the initial stages of arousal:

    • Vaginal lubrication begins first, within 10-30 seconds.
    • The inner two thirds of the vagina expands.
    • The uterus and cervix are pulled upwards.
    • The labia majora flatten and spread apart.
    • The labia minora increase in size.
    • The clitoris increases in size.
    • The nipples may become erect as the result of muscle contractions.
    • When highly aroused the breasts may increase in size.

    This diagram of the tilting action amazed me when I saw it! http://www.the-clitoris.com/x/orgasm/respon2.jpg

    So it's not suprising that ejaculation can come along for the ride if we weren't expecting it.

    Anyone else experienced it without G-spot stimulation that they were aware of or performing conciously?

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    Wiki says "Female ejaculation (commonly known as squirting and gushinghttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation#cite_note-0) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene%27s_gland through and around the http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urethra during or before http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm."

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    Tsk, that's not copied very well!

    Female ejaculation (commonly known as squirting and gushing refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before orgasm.

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    This simple diagram is good at showing how G spot stimulation puts pressure on the ureathra to create that 'needing to go' sensation.

    http://practicalsexadvice.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/g-spot.jpg

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    Ooo i gona look into them links in more detail later, I would love to squirt and have come soo close :)

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    When I eventually get there properly I'll be putting up a plaque to commemorate the occasion. You're all invited to the after party.

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    My OH does ejaculate now and then. She takes ages to get her to that stage though at least 30 mins of clit play. We do this with a clit vibe, tounge, finger and hand. Normally she just does just a little dribble or a squirt but a couple of times it has been massive a bit like a tap fully opened.

    When it first happened like that I thought oh my god and was a little bit shocked/scared (stupid I know) but then really enjoyed it. The only problem is that it totally wets the bed and you have to sit there with a hair dryer to dry it out.

    Have to say it is alot of fun though.

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    come on girls have you never talked to your OH about what his ejaculation and orgasm feels like. we are the same species you know even if you're not sure sometimes. to save you time i will tell you. ejaculation and orgasm are independent events, the some men may never realise it as it usually occurs at split second before ejaculation. it is possible and ( i can do this) to orgasm several times before ejaculation, also when i have had sex when i wasn't really in the mood ( i know some of you women i hope not all !! think that you are the only ones to do that) physical stimulation is enough to cause ejaculation but without the usual accompanying orgasm. all i feel is the rapid muscular contraction caused by the ejaculation process; which i don't deny is pleasurable but hardly an orgasm there is also a momentary sensation of weeing, but men accept that sensation as part of the process from a young age, and soon no longer think of it that way. there is also the thrust response, you will have noticed us guys tend to want to climb inside you when we come, that is a semi involantary process put there by evolution to ensure that the male deposits his semen as deep inside the female as possible to maximise the chance of conception. See even our sperm are lazy little sods who will do anything to avoid putting more effort into any job than is absolutely needed. on another related issue when a guy receives a prostrate massage the sensation of wanting to pee is very strong at least in me anyway, the member who wrote that taking a wee first helps is right, its probably more that you feel safe knowing you can't actually wee and can get on with enjoying the sensations. as an aside while most men on here or their OH say their men love them to ejaculate, i seem to remember at least one lady express concern that men would find their woman weeing during sex offensive, and indeed there is one man on here who seems to conceder womens cum as just wee, (does that mean you don't like it ? you didn't say ) personally i believe it is a separate fluid mens ejaculate is mostly produced by the prostrate gland to give the little guys something to swim in while they are fired out of the cannon. at least some of the content of female cum is produced by a gland which if i understand my medical science correctly forms as a baby develops in the womb when the baby begins to show gender the same tissue goes on to form the prostrate gland for a male child or develops into the skien gland if the child becomes female. so to all you women out there who are uncertain why shouldn't you have some form of ejaculation, just because nature doesn't need your prostrate fluid to protect sperm doesn't mean you shouldn't be allowed to ejaculate it and enjoy the same sensation that we men get from ejaculation. it's just that nature starts to build babys from the same basic design and as reproduction is the key to survival it saves time genetic effort to build generic structures that will be used in both sexes, then adapt them to suit the gender of the child as it develops. women don't automatically develop the ejaculation response to sexual stimulation because it is not essential to reproduction but never the less the ability will accidentley occur in some women and be able to be learned by others. its just the way nature is with such things nipples for example men don't need them for any reason what so ever there only function is so a woman can feed her child (despite what some men think) so why are many men able to gain sexual pleasure from having then touched. Hang on a minute a can hear some of you say so why do women get sexual pleasure from it. would like a baby to chew on your nipples guys, sexual feelings are the most intense we can have so nature adapted them to reward the female for feeding her child, but dont think for one momment guys that the wife is getting off on breast feeding i said adapted!! when a baby is clamped on there it stimulates the maternal feelings and can still get things pretty sore after awhile, am i right girls ? so girls if you can do it enjoy it, it's a natural thing to do. to the guys who don't like the idea lets have a little bit more respect for a womans natural bodily functions, or is it jelousy that women are trying to more in on male territory. how would you feel if she said she wasn't having your cum any where near her. God i do go on!!!!!

    Columbus wrote:
    Well, as an update, we ended Valentine's Day with OH touching my g-spot and I squirted about 4 times into his hand. Still not sure how I feel about it though LOL so we'll keep trying and maybe it will get better. As I've said before, although I "came" in terms of squirting, it didn't especially feel like an orgasm to me, but then I only have the clit orgasms which are very intense to compare it to. I think OH was pleased anyway as he was making some "Oh!!" type sounds when it was happening. He wondered whether he'd be better taking his fingers out of me when it happened though to actually get a 'squirt' as he carried on touching me, which meant that it was going over his hands but didn't squirt as such or go on the bed or anything.

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    alone4ever wrote:

    come on girls have you never talked to your OH about what his ejaculation and orgasm feels like.

    Endlessly ;)

    Great to see you posting Alone4ever, I've really enjoyed reading your contributions. One suggestion though, paragraphs are very useful. You're posts are fantastically detailed but a little hard to read in one block.

    Also, we're all women on here, not girls ;)

    The orgasm/ejaculation separation is very cool and explains a lot. Thank you!

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    hi tigerlilies

    sorry i know your'e all women but it was just a eufformism (i can't spell either wish i could figure out spell check on this reply board) "Come on women" sounds a bit naff don't you think. I know women say " come on boy's" i do think "come on men" sounds naff Guys is better, but don't most women hate to be called ladies these days. so give me an alternative please.

    your'e right about paragraphs though, lazy men you know! i just tend to type what i'm thinking: thinking about paragraphs at the same time is muti-tasking isn't it, another male flaw. but i 'm all up for having a WOMAN teach me how to do things properly, i'm not all stereotypically male.

    glad my ramblings have helped, I tend to talk to much; ( a female flaw to most mens minds; but i just think I am showing my feminine side, and i'm not embarrassed to do so. I absolutley hate it that men won't talk to each other especially about things that involve their egos like sex and feelings. And most of the women i know get that "is this guy gay" or "thinks he's clever" look on their face when i start so i don't get talk much. I don't stop women expressing their thoughts on male issues, told you I will learn anything a woman can teach me ESPECIALLY about being a man. how else do we grow to better understand how the other thinks, ands so be both happier people.

    god I sound like I want a sex change op.

    if you want an honest answer to any question about men just ask and i'll answer you, at least from my own perspective which is a bit biased towards the female way of thinking though.

    Do women like men like me? though I struggle getting physically close to women, the ones that don't give me that look treat me like a sister aagh it kinda makes me proud but annoys the hell out of me too. i am what I am. women hate that men won't open up yet when they find one that does they fancy the other one that behaves like a pig. At least so far in my experience.

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    Damn, sounds like you've been through the ringer. Ther'e some issues there I would love to address when I've more time. For now, I would say it's always good to remember that when you're being good at expressing your thoughts and feelings, like you are clearly, it's not 'male' or 'female' it's being a good communicator of your thoughts and feelings. It's hard to keep this in mind with the world we live in though.

    For shortness, for the moment I would really like to recommend some great blogs for you written by articulate, sex loving men who I think you might like

    http://www.realadultsex.com/

    http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com/

    Also there is a rather fabulous woman who runs a blog called Pervocracy, you might find her attitudes refreshing if you don't come across it much in the real word. I love her.

    http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/search/label/cosmocking

    I've linked you to the cosmocking section because that's the most funny and also makes some great points about how men are treated by the media. Hope you like.

    PS 'woman' and 'man' does sound naff. So for the sake of semantics, you can stay on the island. ;)

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    Hi, I am a newly discovered squirter, lol. Im 45 & have known my b/f for about 16 years & always had fantastic sex together, but only this year did we discover that I could squirt (a bit of a shock for me at first!). He used his fingers (hitting/poking the G-spot I believe, lol) to penetrate in a rapid & quite forceful method, which gave rapid resultsLOL . The orgasms (yes, multiple!!!) were absolutely incredible, far more intense than the usual ones & rather exhausting! lol. The downside to the intense (& loud) pleasure was the soggy bed, lol, but this was solved by purchasing a "slippy Play Sheet" from LoveHoney.

    My advice to any women who thinks she's not a squirter (but wants to be...) is to experiment with technique - different speeds & pressure etc.....& to be totally relaxed with your partner.....squirting is a form of absolute surrender.

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    Hey, alone4ever, Belle de jour also just wrote an article on 'nice guys'

    http://belledejour-uk.blogspot.com/

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    belledejour, i deffinatly never said to a potential partner that i was a nice guy, actions show intention not words but as my last post testifies i am guilty of asking the question of why women go for the bad guy, over the one who behaves with respect. does that still make me an arse hole as she puts it. ouch!!!

    surely if i can spot the guy dripping with insencerity then surely a woman can.

    reading further down her blog it seems that i am a nice guy, not a Nice Guy, not sure if that still leaves me with a red hand print on my cheek, or the words go away you pathetic looser still ringing in my ear.

    sure every one takes it as read that a potential other is nice, but they are not always.

    seems that women want a hybrid of the two, i suppose they are out there but that leaves a lot of "nice guys"out in the cold all the time while the "Nice Guys" at least get inside the happy life until they are uncovered as frauds. life's a bitch.

    as for the talking about past relationships part of her blog the few potential OHs i have met put their ex OH first on the list of conversational topics, some did the "this he did , that he did" was wonderful, routine, some the "i hate that he did this or that" version. It came over as if you can't match my ex in this department then you are out, or if you ever do this your'e dead. followed by what happened with your ex, i,e. whats wrong with you that another woman dumped you, or are you over picky.

    I tried being open about my past, up front, disaster, train crash, saves time though; same result. "never tried lying" he says "hand on chin thoughtful look on his face". maybe a coat or two of fresh white gloss paint would work, and that was without saying you should see the several hundred self-harm scars i have.

    tried the you seem interesting would you care to be friends, see what happens, line. !!!!! that one got the best result of all, she and honest i lie not she turned lifted her hands in the air, and ran screaming waving hands. thought i was going to get arrested.

    God im confused, done moaning for now.

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