• Hope it's allowed (I'm not sure) but anyone got any tips?

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    Kirsty92 [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't have a shower yet (my brother needs one for his curved spine so we are getting one soon)

    I don't really have money to go anywhere and when I do go out I can't just walk over to a guy and chat him up.

    I do know what to do was just looking for tips and tricks and yeah I know gym makes it worse but need to lose weight.

    Plus cam guy never makes me do anything I don't want to but he happily shows me everything. He will hint though and just say wish you'd take your top off but if I don't want to he won't push it.

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    Have you thought of adding a bit of temperature play. If you take an ice cube run it under the tap then insert it you will get a very different sensation.

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    I have thought about it a little not sure if we have ice cubes ready though it that's definitely worth a go. Have tried it on my nipples felt quite nice

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    Is there a way I could maybe go on cam and be safer? I'm talking to my cam guy and well we haven't said we'll do a video later (I was out with family he's at work) but I was wondering for tips of we do and if I get in the mood to join in. I'm thinking nothing below waist especially due to well being on so that's definitely out but maybe give him a boob tease? If I do it on my phone I'm not sure if I'll be able to type messages to him without him seeing my face (he's already seen it but for the purpose of video safety) hopefully having a good time with him will cool me for a bit. His phone is all fixed now so if it goes off again I'll know to be wary and get rid.

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    Not sure if there is such a thing as safe camming to be honest Kirsty. It's a trust issue and some decent guys would never show stuff to anyone and other dodgy guys would have their mates flocking round their phone and boasting about it. That's the problem with strangers you really don't know if you can trust them and if they are really who they say they are. This type of activity is much safer with someone you genuinely know.

    If you do decide to do it anyway you could try disguising your face with a hat or wig to hide your real hair and wear sunglasses to hide your eyes or a masquerade style mask to disguise your face a bit.

    Or you could just watch him. Send a few boob shots with no face pics and just let him hear you having fun but not see you.

    Also make sure there is nothing distinguishable in the background of your room. Make it look as bare as possible no pictures, posters, ornaments, clothes, jewellery, soft toys Tec so if it falls into the wrong hands nobody can tell for sure it's you.

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    I won't show anything in the background and yeah might just tease him tell him he can hear me and I'll leave the rest to his imagination and send him the odd photo. I don't think he'd have people there because he stands there totally starkers and shows me everything but he knows I'm nervous about it and doesn't push me he just says he wishes I would show him a bit of boob but if I don't want to that's fine but I kinda want to show him something so maybe as you said odd boob photo and let him hear me if he says anything which I'm sure he won't I'll just say well it's hard to hold the phone and show you everything lol just wondering about watching because he'll see my face so when I go to take boob photos he'll see. I don't think he would do anything especially as it's him showing so much but it's just a precautionary.

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    Maybe take the photos before you link up ready to send so you don't have to let him see you live taking them at all.

    You could try draping the sheet over yourself to uncover one boob to tease or show both with your head thrown back so your neck is stretched and your face is hidden from view.

    I saw a lovely pic where the woman was lying on her side with one knee bent and under the other leg which was bent just a little and the sheet was covering most of her but their was like a slice of bare skin on show from shoulder to toe with the outer portion of her breast visible. It looked really good in black and white. There was also one of her on her knees with the sheet draped beside her bum and her hands clasped behind her head and her body turned slightly to the left side so you could see the outline of her left breast. Maybe try doing it in the mirror.

    Another good one is a double boob shot with a string of knotted pearls or necklace between.

    You could also try a silk scarf to hide your face from view or to give a sheer style photo shot over your breasts.

    Have fun practicing your pics even if just to keep for yourself to keep x

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    Thank you and I will give these a go I don't have pearls but I do have some necklaces I could use. If I take the photos beforehand can I send them whilst watching on cam? If I have it on computer and phone will I be able to maybe flash him my boobs and look at a screen without face being shown? Not sure if it works like that

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    Out of all of the photos I liked I kept one lol my boobs with a bit of bondage tape across them. Sent it to him as a teaser

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    So we went on cam I just did it so he couldn't see my face and yes it kept disconnecting and I found out why (it actually wasn't him) I get ba signal in my bed my phone kept disconnecting from the broadband so it took several videos and a lot of patience he didn't mind though and it was worth it.

    Over an hour and 15 minutes now I'm thirsty and shaking probably dehydrated from the amount I gushed but I feel too weak to go downstairs and get a drink (first world problems) was quite fun not much face shown just the accidental blip from us both mostly hen trying to reconnect. Not actual sex but it'll do. Better than porn 😉 Unfortunately I went through all my protective folded up clothing (including a floor length dress) and now I have a slight wet patch to sleep in.

    Not a bad way to start my birthday eh?

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    happy birthday kirsty from the pair of us x

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    Thank you both Cardiff couple xx

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    Kirsty92 wrote:

    So we went on cam I just did it so he couldn't see my face and yes it kept disconnecting and I found out why (it actually wasn't him) I get ba signal in my bed my phone kept disconnecting from the broadband so it took several videos and a lot of patience he didn't mind though and it was worth it.

    Over an hour and 15 minutes now I'm thirsty and shaking probably dehydrated from the amount I gushed but I feel too weak to go downstairs and get a drink (first world problems) was quite fun not much face shown just the accidental blip from us both mostly hen trying to reconnect. Not actual sex but it'll do. Better than porn 😉 Unfortunately I went through all my protective folded up clothing (including a floor length dress) and now I have a slight wet patch to sleep in.

    Not a bad way to start my birthday eh?

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    Out of all of the photos I liked I kept one lol my boobs with a bit of bondage tape across them. Sent it to him as a teaser

    Happy Birthday Kirsty x

    The bondage tape photo sounds great. Bet he enjoyed it!

    Might be worth getting yourself a waterproof undersheet for your mattress or a pack of the Pampers disposable bed mats to make it easier to clean up and not worry about the mess so you can really let yourself go.

    I had a laugh with my OH when we spotted puppy piddle pads in the local pet store the other day;)

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    Thank you and haha I think I need something that's for sure its not bad a first but then it kinda... Doesn't stop for long I had another on and off one for ten minutes last night.

    With cam guy I know I have to be careful but it's just a bit of fun.

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    Forgot to say I noticed your post about someone from your family being in your room and taking batteries from beside your toy and lube stash. Would it be worth getting a lockable case for your stuff so you can keep the key with you and know that no-one else will find them when you are out of your room?

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    Yeah probably I'm pretty sure I love only used two out of a big pack and I left them in the box so I went in to get them and the box was empty and there was only 3 batteries left loose in my bag. So I'm sure someone's been in and taken them

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    Love the new profile pic Kirsty x

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    Wish my sex drive was so high, its been annoyingly low lately.

    Theres lots of sites with erotic stories if you havent tried that already.

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    Thank you imh95 took it last night. 🙂

    Ooh will have to look into that Dali256 I have written the odd fanfic and read some (think my favourite one was about a fictional couple from a tv show I like and it was two hot men and the Dom got his sub to wear a vibrating butt plug everywhere he went and he kept setting it off during the day and at one point a character from the show who kept butting in and was a general pain, caught the sub doubled over in orgasm but faked it to be some pain he was in whilst the Dom just slowly sipped his coffee with a grin as the sub came hard in his pants with the other guy/ex watching... Was so hot! Lol)

    Read most of the first 50 shades book but personally found most of it boring because the fanfic I've read and written have been harder going and sexier (so I've been told about my writing) lol

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