• Sex and alcohol. Nice or a naughty cocktail ?

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    First of all I have to say that I am a light drinker. I don't tend to drink more than 2 pints of beer or perhaps an addtional scotch or G & T . I tend to like keeping in control and certainly don't want brewers droop when it comes to the bedroom .

    My Mrs is totally opposite . The more she drinks on a night out the more naughty and daring she gets and her shyness disappears to the extent that having a fully blown snog in the pub in public can be the norm and then being a dominant cat in the bedroom with almost anything goes .She is normaly a very timid person who lacks confidence but after a few drinks all this changes .

    So I am just wondering therefore does alcohol have an effect on your bedroom performance and I suppose to try things new.

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    Echo32B [sign in to see picture]
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    From what I know when men drink alot they tend to last longer, or... if they're absolutley bladdered lose their ability to get erect, which is probably a good thing at that stage!

    For me personally I do get more horny, more adventurous and more confident after a few drinks, having said that depending on what I drink I may also fall asleep before any fun can happen :L

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    Couple looking to spice things up [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't drink that much to be honest. Only going out every few months, at home I don't usually have more than a couple. I definitely do become more confident in the bedroom when I've had a tipple though.

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    mysteron wrote:

    First of all I have to say that I am a light drinker. I don't tend to drink more than 2 pints of beer or perhaps an addtional scotch or G & T . I tend to like keeping in control and certainly don't want brewers droop when it comes to the bedroom .

    My Mrs is totally opposite . The more she drinks on a night out the more naughty and daring she gets and her shyness disappears to the extent that having a fully blown snog in the pub in public can be the norm and then being a dominant cat in the bedroom with almost anything goes .She is normaly a very timid person who lacks confidence but after a few drinks all this changes .

    So I am just wondering therefore does alcohol have an effect on your bedroom performance and I suppose to try things new.

    My OH is the exact same once she has had a few she changes completely more confident and horny. She becomes the dominant one when we get home to the bedroom.

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    megan86 [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't drink but my partner does, he lasts longer when he's drunk and this weekend his inhibitions went out the window which was great for us both he's usually shy when it comes to doing things in the bedroom but not last weekend x

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    Very naughty for me! I'm much more confident & uninhibited after a few drinks, I find it easier to let go & suggest & try new things, I love a bottle of wine & some sexy time, best nights ever lol! X

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    It`s a fine balance between losing your inhibitions and being so pissed you can`t perform! Personally,i am expert at drinking the right amount of vodka!

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    For me I relax and can let go, im not a drinker.. but when I do it makes me more naughtier x

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    Luv bunny [sign in to see picture]
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    Definitely makes me naughtier! Anything that helps you chill out and relax is going to be beneficial for the bedroom...unless it's illegal of course!

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    We're like you and your mrs., mysteron. ;)

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    Sir Psycho Sexy [sign in to see picture]
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    Absolutely yes yes yes!
    Hell its part of the reason we ended up 'accidentally' trying some anal play.
    Sober sexy is quite the normal predictable sex, kiss, finger, full penetration missionary style with the odd doggy style thrown in there. But when my OH has had a good drink she gets hornier and kinkier. Anything goes basically, and she likes to be the dominant one.
    The only downside to this is she is usually sick after if she has been mixing her drink lol.

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    I find alcohol and sex goes together like lube and sex.

    I little alcohol 'lubes' up the inhibitions to perhaps go a little further, just like a little lube helps you go a long way.

    Too much alcohol or too much lube and things just get on a messy, slippery slope!

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    I'm definitely kinkier when I've had a couple and it's normally super hot, naughty sex ;-) on the rare occasions I'm properly drunk I still get super horny but it's cr*p

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    I don't drink a lot generally but when I do at Christmas and New Year etc I find that I lose my inhibitions very quickly and certainly become a lot more dominant as regards sex. I'm much more likely to take control and try different stuff , I suppose it's because I feel more relaxed with a few drinks but then I pay the price the next day with a crappy hangover !

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    It does give me more confidence after a couple of glasses of wine the other half as well gets more naughty and daring and loses all shyness, She is normaly a very quiet timid person who lacks confidence but after a few drinks all this changes and tends to just go and put some nice lingerie on with some high heels as i always compliment her on date night outs how beautiful her legs look with heels on oh and bum ha. I ordered these a few months ago which dont get used that often but really do spice things up. I did ask her if i was to dress up role play etc what would she like and she said fireman am so struggling to find the right on though so any help or ideas would be great.

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