• Hot tubs and Swinging question!

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    PeppaLlewellyn [sign in to see picture]
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    Do you think that having a hot tub is more associated today with swinging than it ever used to be? We have friends that wont get one because they think it's seedy and associated with swinging. How crazy is that?
    This comedy song about hot tubs and swinging is very funny btw! Love his humour.
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=n_Xy7VQxcyA

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    I don't think so and wouldn't care. I would kill to have a hot tub and would never let anyone in it (maybe not even my husband), hahaha!

    The song was funny though. Cheers!

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    Chevysexy77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Never heard of it before, so it cannot be that linked... Yet it does inspires loads of envy, mostly ;)

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm on the swinging scene and they are very popular, a bit like pampas grass in the 70s

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    stephiski [sign in to see picture]
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    Purring pussy..... a question for you... swinging i have been on the scene for a fair few months.
    I have met liars and cheats and i seem to be at the point of walking away from it all.
    Is it a blip or is this all swinging has to offer me if that makes sense.

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    stephiski wrote:

    Purring pussy..... a question for you... swinging i have been on the scene for a fair few months.
    I have met liars and cheats and i seem to be at the point of walking away from it all.
    Is it a blip or is this all swinging has to offer me if that makes sense.

    You're not the only one this happens to, but you need a tighter selection process.

    What works for me, is meeting people in clubs only, especially single men and first meet is usually just social, unless there is an immediate spark.

    I tend to only want to play with couples and ladies, after a chat in the bar area, we move on to a room and i'll usually just soft swap on the first meet. I prefer to get to know people before I go all the way.

    Single men don't get far with me, I prefer just one or two regulars, but I have been lied to after putting my trust in them and I can't abide liars, so it can be hurtful, but you have to be thick skinned.

    Fab is pretty much a waste of time trying to organise meets. I use it to see what events and socials are happening in clubs, keeping in touch with those I've met in clubs and using the forums.

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    Lady Ness [sign in to see picture]
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    Hot tubs are a luxury, and often at swinging events where they can get them (such as weekends away), but they are also used in other adult industry events, including mistress events where mistress=es will relax in them and just be served drinks etc and no sex. They're also used at other grown-up events which aren't sex related at all. I think basically, if someone has heard something and they think that's it, often that's it for them sadly. Never heard the song before though =). In other news, I love hothubs purely as they are so warm and comforting and great for aches and pains in the body and mind =).

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    TB149 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm not a swinger but I'd love a hot tub regardless! Not that I've got the funds!

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