• Married couples...ways to spice up the wedding night

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    Hitherist [sign in to see picture]
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    Any recommendations for a kinky wedding night/honeymoon?

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    Our wedding night wasn't full of steamy sex we were both exhausted from all the day's events to get hot and heavy. Our honeymoon wasn't kinky instead we enjoyed sensual play, massages, essentially passisonate lovemaking.

    If you think your both ready for kinky antics, then I'd suggest a blindfold, simple restraints, and maybe a soft flogger x

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    I'm not married but, if I were to get married, I'd be tempted to go full Mills and Boon. A corset (like this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26239 ), silky restraints ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18421 ) and either massage candles or bondage candles ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/search/?q=Bondage+candles ). I'm one of the least romantic people in the world but I'd be tempted to throw petals all over the bed, drink champagne and feed my partner chocolate covered strawberries. If there was ever a day to really go all out cliche romantic, it's your wedding day.

    (You know you're a deviant when the idea of romantic sex and strawberries is kinky 😝 )

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    Our own wedding night was a bit of a disaster as regards sex. I ended up spending most of the night hunting down and deactivating alarm clocks that had been pre set at different times and hidden in the room . There must have been around a dozen of the bloomin things.

    I have to admit it was a laugh though although we were I think to exhausted anyway to do nothing more than perhaps sensual play.

    If you were thinking of doing anything slightly kinky make sure you arn't going to get any intrusions from potential jokers in your party .

    I would leave it for the honeymoon as we did .

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    Oh, the optimism :)! We had an awesome wedding day, really had enjoyed it, by the time we went to our suite and got out of my corset style gown (with his help), jumped in the shower, and then looked at each other with the look in our eyes that said "do we have to?" I then decided that yes, we do, as it is our wedding night and if we don't consumate the marriage, in the morning we might have grounds for annulment if we change our minds (just kidding, obviously!), so had a quickie and were more than happy to go to sleep cuddled up! LOL.

    It is nice you want to make the night special, but trust me, it is way better to remember the entire day as unique and make good sex for the rest of your lives, instead of pretending too much from that one night between the sheets when you might not be up for it! Either way, I do wish you both a happy life!!!

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    Friday13 wrote:

    I'm not married but, if I were to get married, I'd be tempted to go full Mills and Boon. A corset (like this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26239 ), silky restraints ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18421 ) and either massage candles or bondage candles ( http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/search/?q=Bondage+candles ). I'm one of the least romantic people in the world but I'd be tempted to throw petals all over the bed, drink champagne and feed my partner chocolate covered strawberries. If there was ever a day to really go all out cliche romantic, it's your wedding day.

    (You know you're a deviant when the idea of romantic sex and strawberries is kinky 😝 )

    I giggled so much at this! "Full Mills and Boon". I agree completely.

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    We took our glass dildos and lube with us to the hotel our wedding was at. So had a fun little session that night!

    Pack a few little surprises for that evening to take with you, but we only just managed it, it's a tiring day andbi know majority of our friends didn't have sex on their wedding night as they were either too tired or drunk

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    Well from the above and our night, I would say don't over expect things it may be "magic" yes, it might be, but its a stressfull tiring day, go with open expectations ?

    We had our son(3) with us on our wedding night even though there were others at the hotel, we'd been up 18 hours by the time we got to the room?

    One last tip get married abroad, best thing you can do to make it stress free!

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    Of course you could try drinking Red Bull all day . I heard it gives you wings

    It just may give you the staying power that you will need after an exhausting but nice memorable day .

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    we have our wedding booked for next summer and iaften wondered how the night will go will i need sex toys ect but i figure if its one night to go all natural it is your wedding night no doubt we will be exhausted so just some passionate love making will do obiously we have a couple of days on our honey moon to get out the lengerie etc.

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    Hitherist [sign in to see picture]
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    Some great ideas, loving the mills and boon idea minus the corset tho...with wearing a tight wedding dress all day id need room to breathe 😀

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    Our wedding night was incredible. It was me n my man as, we wanted it 2 be about us not pleasing everyone else!
    The day was incredible, when we arrived back 2 the hotel there was rose petals laid out all over the bed, 2 beautiful bouquets of flowers, massage candles burning, champagne on ice, and these gorgeous chocolates mmm. It was the most gorgeous site I've ever laid eyes on.
    I opted for a stunning satin white babydoll to slip into.
    We used the massage candles, and had the most romantic night of passion. It's the most important day of your lives so it'll always be special.
    If you wanted to kink it up you could always take a restraints set, blindfolded, tickler and anything else you desire.

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    We got married in the Caribbean so it was a bit less formal and a more relaxed atmosphere. We had already decided we wanted to do something a little kinky for the actual wedding and the setting definately made us super horny all the time I think. As we were staying in the hotel for a few days before the wedding we decided that we would both try not to masturbate until the wedding night!

    I had got a full waxing before we went so was super smooth so I asked my hubby if he would shave all his pubes as it was something I wanted him to do. He did this and we also agreed to choose each others underwear, so I wore a tiny g-string and he wore a mens thong that I bought him. We also took a few of our toys along and I slipped my love eggs in for the wedding day which sent my hubby crazy when he found them later in the evening!

    Hope that gives you a few ideas, we definately had fun and nobody knew all our kinky goings on!

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    As some above, we were both so knackered from the day, that is was more of a case of "We better had get it done so we can go to sleep".

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    We're tiring the knot tomorrow and having a very low key day as we've both done it before nonetheless it doesn't make the day any less special ...... in fact totally the opposite. So with a basic ceremony and a meal for 6 adults and 2 kids afterwards we hope not to be exhausted as some of you understandably were. What we're really looking forward to is the late afternoon to next morning check out at an Edwardian mansion which she knows anything about only that we're going away for 18 hours or so.
    With that we've been making horny remarks regarding our intentions the week leading up to it.
    In essence it would be lovely to make passionate love (ala M&B - that was funny) have a dirty time too fuelled by champers which I know we're both hoping for....I just hope my LH package comes in time tomorrow.
    Has been interesting reading the experiences of others.

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    Intenselovers44 [sign in to see picture]
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    We're tieing the knot tomorrow and having a very low key day as we've both done it before nonetheless it doesn't make the day any less special ...... in fact totally the opposite. So with a basic ceremony and a meal for 6 adults and 2 kids afterwards we hope not to be exhausted as some of you understandably were. What we're really looking forward to is the late afternoon to next morning check out at an Edwardian mansion which she knows anything about only that we're going away for 18 hours or so.
    With that we've been making horny remarks regarding our intentions the week leading up to it.
    In essence it would be lovely to make passionate love (ala M&B - that was funny) have a dirty time too fuelled by champers which I know we're both hoping for....I just hope my LH package comes in time tomorrow.
    Has been interesting reading the experiences of others.

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    We took a bottle of champagne back to the room with us, had a glass or two as I got her out of her dress and the clips out of her hair, then we finished off the bottle in bed, her taking some in her mouth and giving me a blow job (oh wow is that amazing) and me letting some fizz on her clit and drinking it.

    Next morning had a lovely long bath together in the big tub and had a great honeymoon.

    No toys but then we didn't use them much back then and were too scared of a vibe turning on in the luggage at the airport.

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    Why not wear matching silky pyjamas to bed?

    if plain pyjamas are not kinky enough, you could go for a more feminine stye, or even matching nighties!

    Good luck :-)

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    I was hammered on my wedding day when we eventually got back to the room at two in the morning. We had sex but I can't remember it, my wife was sober, and she said I was all over the place. No regrets though as I had a good time.
    Personally i would fit an hour of sex into the afternoon, after the meal before the evening party. That way you can have a good time not too tired and you are relaxed for the evening.

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    Sir Psycho Sexy wrote:

    I was hammered on my wedding day when we eventually got back to the room at two in the morning. We had sex but I can't remember it, my wife was sober, and she said I was all over the place. No regrets though as I had a good time.
    Personally i would fit an hour of sex into the afternoon, after the meal before the evening party. That way you can have a good time not too tired and you are relaxed for the evening.

    I was steaming also but had a fantastic night

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