• What is this urge?

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    Housewife182 [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry I'm late to this post.
    But I'm a straight female happily in a relationship for five years and I have a beautiful son.
    Even tho I would class myself as 'straight' the only porn I watch is lesbian. It's more exciting for me. I know exactly what they are both feeling.
    Plus it's different to the sex I have with my OH.
    And as for the dreams ect if my sex dreams ain't about my OH they will be lesbian ones.

    Just from a woman's point of view I'd discuss it with her. Maybe get a few anal toys for you or a strap on may try some gender reversal? See if that scratches your itch? You might just be craving abit of a spice up.

    If not then it's your life and you need to live it.
    Good luck in your sexual journey.

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    Tr1cky D1cky [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks HW182, this unfortunately is not a discussion that can be had with my OH.

    My friend and I are still chatting but not about meeting up but about other things...

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    aaroncoughlin [sign in to see picture]
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    Glad to hear you're okay dude was bit worried :) x

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    aaroncoughlin wrote:

    Glad to hear you're okay dude was bit worried :) x

    Hey you..have missed seeing you posting. Are you okay? x

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    Tr1cky D1cky [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks guys... love chatting but a little restrictive on here at times...lol

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    Tr1cky D1cky [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi guys been quite but so has everything else in my life at the moment....

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    MysticalMayhem [sign in to see picture]
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    Just because you are having fantasies doesn't make you gay. My partner of 15 years is 100% straight (well, probably 98% as there's a little curiousness in all of us!) but we have a strap-on and a few things for him.

    Have you spoken to your partner about your feelings?

    I have had strong feelings in the past, to the point where I arranged to meet a woman for a night. In the end I called it off as I realised it was just a fantasy and I don't think I could do it in real life. I'm glad I left it that way :)

    But if you are feeling strongly about other men the. Maybe tell your partner?

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    Ampeli [sign in to see picture]
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    MysticalMayhem wrote:

    Just because you are having fantasies doesn't make you gay. My partner of 15 years is 100% straight (well, probably 98% as there's a little curiousness in all of us!) but we have a strap-on and a few things for him.

    Have you spoken to your partner about your feelings?

    I have had strong feelings in the past, to the point where I arranged to meet a woman for a night. In the end I called it off as I realised it was just a fantasy and I don't think I could do it in real life. I'm glad I left it that way :)

    But if you are feeling strongly about other men the. Maybe tell your partner?

    I am with you. I have had curious urges for a couple of years now, Mrs A knows that, and we too have a strapon. I am not gay and I don't fancy men persay but do have fantasies about giving oral and taking anal from a guy. I don't believe anyone male or female is 100% straight, so don't feel guilty!

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