• Omg! I think I screwed up...maybe

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    Corset_is [sign in to see picture]
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    So I met this guy, he's 27 and I'm 40. My ex was 44 and couldn't do it without Viagra so I was hopeful. Tonight it got hot and heavy. Long story short...I went down and he blew it in under 30 seconds. How do I deal with that? Never had a guy go off so fast!!!!!

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    livie [sign in to see picture]
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    Be proud of yourself, its always nice thought that you have skills to make a guy go off so fast

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    Tr1cky D1cky [sign in to see picture]
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    he is obviously not experienced enough and needs a good teacher....

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Maybe he was just excited with it being the first time? What do you think you've actually messed up?

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    Fun Louise [sign in to see picture]
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    I think that his mates didn't tell him to masterbate before going out. He was obviously very excited and I'm sure with a good teacher you could have him wiped into shape in no time.

    If he is over and done really quickly make him play with you getting you really excited untill he is ready to go again.

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    Couple looking to spice things up [sign in to see picture]
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    To be honest i think he'll be the one thinking he's screwed it.

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    Shadow Collector [sign in to see picture]
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    *general sounds of agreement with everyone else here*

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    Poor guy! Is probably wondering if he will hear from you again!

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    JohnA [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with what others have said - he was just over-excited and that's a compliment to you really! You should definitely see him again and if he cums too quickly just carry on with the lovin until he's ready to go again. All the best!

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    etc28 [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with everyone else, perfectly normal to cum quickly, especially if you were getting hot and heavy before hand and he was already near the edge. If it happens again next time, take it as a compliment, and then tell him its your turn to orgasm. Making you orgasm will help bring him back to life for round two :)

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    Elle & em [sign in to see picture]
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    Tr1cky D1cky wrote:

    he is obviously not experienced enough and needs a good teacher....

    2nd this

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    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    Skills 👍🏼

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    Well done you! you should be proud of yourself...He is probaly kicking himself but hoping like hell that he'll be hearing from you. He'll have to learn and that'll be fun won't it?

    He's young and I second what the other guys have said here. Give yourself a pat on the back, that took skill :)

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    if I were you, I would be proud of myself, if I can excite him so much. But he is most likely thinking he screwed up and he is not sue if you will want to see him again. I am sure you do :-)

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    Couple looking to spice things up wrote:

    To be honest i think he'll be the one thinking he's screwed it.

    +1 I feel sorry for the guy.

    I've been in this situation once before. It wasn't a big deal. Just got on with something else for a bit while he reloaded. :) If it happens like that every time, then you might need to review what you're doing to help him go a bit longer!

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    Dali256 [sign in to see picture]
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    Its only once, give the poor guy a chance. Happens to us all sometimes.

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    Cuddlekins [sign in to see picture]
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    Dali256 wrote:

    Its only once, give the poor guy a chance. Happens to us all sometimes.

    +1 Whats one time if it keeps happening then it's time to talk.

    Agree with what others have said and have given as advice too.

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Caliente wrote:

    Couple looking to spice things up wrote:

    To be honest i think he'll be the one thinking he's screwed it.

    +1 I feel sorry for the guy.

    I've been in this situation once before. It wasn't a big deal. Just got on with something else for a bit while he reloaded. :) If it happens like that every time, then you might need to review what you're doing to help him go a bit longer!

    Good point, try slowing up a but, varying your technique, if you've been with a man with ED for so long then you'll be stuck in going all out, take it slow and steady to help him last longer

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    Corset_is [sign in to see picture]
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    Actually, he said he was going out for a smoke but got in his car and vanished. Not heard from him since. I didn't make a big deal of the speed he came at but I did ask him to reciprocate!!

    And, tbh, I wasn't even trying with the BJ!!!

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    I wish I could cum from a blow job, it sounds incredible! Dw it's probably a hell of an experience you have given him and he'll surely do the same for you next time :)

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