• Solo bondage

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    Kittycat102 [sign in to see picture]
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    Lately I've been considering experiementing with things I haven't tried before. Like I'm going to buy my first butt plug soon, which will be a first. But I'm also considering things with bondage but I'm curious to know if it works well for solo play?

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    stephiski [sign in to see picture]
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    I have done bondage solo play many a time and it for me heightenes when i do play as bondage is something i throughly enjoy. Just make sure your aware of any risks and keep scissors handy etc

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    Kittycat102 [sign in to see picture]
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    stephiski wrote:

    I have done bondage solo play many a time and it for me heightenes when i do play as bondage is something i throughly enjoy. Just make sure your aware of any risks and keep scissors handy etc

    Can you elaborate on that?

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I tie my legs open sometimes for solo play using our underbed restraint - haven't yet figured out a safe or easy way to tie my arms xx

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    Kittycat102 [sign in to see picture]
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    Terri JJ wrote:

    I tie my legs open sometimes for solo play using our underbed restraint - haven't yet figured out a safe or easy way to tie my arms xx

    Hmm, interesting..

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32679

    I was sent this as a tester. It's inexpensive, easy to use and really holds me in place well - I have reviewed it if you want a read xx works well for solo play xx

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    Terri JJ wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32679

    I was sent this as a tester. It's inexpensive, easy to use and really holds me in place well - I have reviewed it if you want a read xx works well for solo play xx

    We have this as well, would recommend to use it like Terri :D.
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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    There's plenty of safe and easy ways you could get the psychological thrill of bondage.

    You can get some nice shibari rope and tie a body harness that doesn't involve restraining your arms or legs. You can add in a crotch rope for that element of stimulation or you can do a chest harness, rope panties, lots of things. You can wear it under clothing, you can wear it while you play, whatever floats your boat! You can insert a toy into the rope panties or crotch rope for extra fun, especially if you have a remote controlled one. Google image search 'self tie shibari harness' and the first image that shows up is a very easy to do one.

    You can wear a collar, wrist or ankle restraints to have the feeling of being restrained/dominated. You don't have to be physically tied down to get in the mindset. Having nice, heavy leather cuffs is what works well for me because of the physical feeling of my limbs being weighted but obviously you don't have to buy expensive cuffs just for psychological play.

    If you get cuffs like these, http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32675 that have a clip between them you can put them on, lie on the floor/your bed, and clip your hands behind the bed post. Your arms are restrained, but your hand can always reach the clip to unclip yourself (or should I say, make sure you can unclip yourself before doing this!). I know I can do this with these ones http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29687. You can do it more easilly if you get ones that have a chain between them rather than just a clip. You don't even have to use a bedpost really, they can act as esseentially a pair of handcuffs.

    Leg restraining is easilly done with whatever you have.

    Umm...I can't think of anything else but yeah, my point is there's loads of safe ways to play with bondage solo :)

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    This may be a strange item, http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33943 if you use it with a cord/rope etc running up your back tied round your neck whilst standing straight up,, if you then bend forward it will get pulled up as you bend, you could also tie it to any suitable anchor, if you do tie round your neck have some sissors handy just in case. Nipple/labia(inners or outers, outers can handle way more ) clamps then add some weights whilst standing, see how much you can take, weight/pinching effect?

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    Ive found a great way to do this is with a suction cup dildo. You can leave your hands free. Ive worn a ball gag and handcuffs whilst being bent over and suctioning it to the side of the bed. and Ive worn the ball gag and tied my legs to chair legs and basically sat on the chair whilst the dildo is suctioned to it. My partner isnt really into bondage so I sometimes have to have this private time ;)

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    popk1n [sign in to see picture]
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    Or you can just play, but just imagine youve got a dom telling you to do it. and then hold your orgasm back until "he" tells you to etc.

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    kittencub [sign in to see picture]
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    popk1n wrote:

    Or you can just play, but just imagine youve got a dom telling you to do it. and then hold your orgasm back until "he" tells you to etc.

    Great fantasy and really hot,

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    been looking but not got one but would like to no more?

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    charliemichelle [sign in to see picture]
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    cant see the fun in solo bondage

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    charliemichelle wrote:

    cant see the fun in solo bondage

    It's obviously not as much fun as doing it with a partner.

    However.....I love being unable to close my legs against a wand...and believe me, I quite often get to point where I want/need too ! Makes an orgasm so much stronger if I have to lie there and cant move x

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    To me solo play is often enhanced when i can visualize a past sexual experience so I do use my blindfolds solo so I can focus my senses on the feeling.

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Kitty, if you are looking at different categories of toys you may want to check out the nipple rings the Lovehoney ones are inexpensive and can be used solo.

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    Kittycat102 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah I was considering nipple clamps and a clit clamp

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    charliemichelle wrote:

    cant see the fun in solo bondage

    A great imagination and you can have loads of fun. Even the simplest of things like a blindfold, collar and nipple clamps can be exciting.

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