• have a good sex life, but....

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    jambo [sign in to see picture]
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    I have a good sex life with my partner, the only bother that she works a lot of nights. So in a week we might only have 2/3 chances to have sex. So most nights I like to wank. Just wondering of any other ways to enjoy wanking. Most times its just watching porn Any ideas / tips would be appreciated

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    LoverOfDeep [sign in to see picture]
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    I bought a fat boy slim penis extender but its not that good for her .... amazingly though its incredible as a sleve to wank in! So maybe get a few strokers and lube for solo play?

    Can she access her phone at work? Maybe she could take pictures of herself during the day, then when shes at work and your home maybe she could just quickly send you a naughty picture to wank to so at least she is still involved in some way...

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    sassykitten;) [sign in to see picture]
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    I would say a stroker :) n if she can be involved like LOD said would be good

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    I'm not bug into porn but music can really set a mood for solo play. Make a masturbating Playlist on your ipod.

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    Have you tried the Tenga Eggs? They're fairly inexpensive and so many to choose from!

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    I purchased a style of durex vibrating ring that worked a real treat apparently so maybe even something like that may be of some help... they dont stock it on here but they do stock some similar on here that i would reccomend trying as they hadused different ones before and there was never any complaints either.. I suppose it depends on the person as to what is enjoyable and what works best for yourself

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    sassykitten;) wrote:

    I would say a stroker :) n if she can be involved like LOD said would be good

    +1 as SassyKitten says you can also use it as a couples toy as well. Partner + Stroker = Heaven .

    There are relatively inexpensive compare to other toys and quite a few to choose from. Make sure you use water based lubes and plenty of it as well .The ones made by Tenga tend to be the more expensive types but are quality .

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    My oh has a couple of strokers that he enjoys, particularly if used with a vibrating prostate massager. Ohs panties (think we've been there) lol and pearls are good too !

    and there's always the 'vacuum cleaner' !! seriously, dont go there, you'll end up in hospital...lol

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    Terri JJ wrote:

    and there's always the 'vacuum cleaner' !! seriously, dont go there, you'll end up in hospital...lol

    That is so funny . Does it need to be a Dyson ?

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    jambo wrote:

    I have a good sex life with my partner, the only bother that she works a lot of nights. So in a week we might only have 2/3 chances to have sex. So most nights I like to wank. Just wondering of any other ways to enjoy wanking. Most times its just watching porn Any ideas / tips would be appreciated

    A storker is good idea as mentioned or even other male masturbation toys like the lovehoney realistic ones if that's your thing (I have a LH Monica which is great). Strokers and masturbation toys can be as inexpensive as you want, plus there is many different kinds to suit your individual preference

    One idea I like: When i'm horny or in the mood to have a solo session i'll try to do things like browse adult images and such online inbetween doing other stuff i.e. checking emails, watching TV...etc, and during these times I start rubbing/tough myself and such. I'll do this for as much of the evening as I can without actually wanking then later on when I feel ready I'll be soo worked up that I go for it and have a great masturbation session.

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    mysteron wrote:

    Terri JJ wrote:

    and there's always the 'vacuum cleaner' !! seriously, dont go there, you'll end up in hospital...lol

    That is so funny . Does it need to be a Dyson ?

    Possibly ...never loses suction, or so I'm told ! lol

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    Terri JJ wrote:

    My oh has a couple of strokers that he enjoys, particularly if used with a vibrating prostate massager. Ohs panties (think we've been there) lol and pearls are good too !

    and there's always the 'vacuum cleaner' !! seriously, dont go there, you'll end up in hospital...lol

    Sadly I've been the vacum route a good while back ( A new unused vacum it was)and it's good to a degree, but also not good at the same time. Luckily no hospital appointment were needed but if I remember correctly the 2nd and last time I tried it result in a bit of blood hence why it was the last

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    darklightq wrote:

    Terri JJ wrote:

    My oh has a couple of strokers that he enjoys, particularly if used with a vibrating prostate massager. Ohs panties (think we've been there) lol and pearls are good too !

    and there's always the 'vacuum cleaner' !! seriously, dont go there, you'll end up in hospital...lol

    Sadly I've been the vacum route a good while back ( A new unused vacum it was)and it's good to a degree, but also not good at the same time. Luckily no hospital appointment were needed but if I remember correctly the 2nd and last time I tried it result in a bit of blood hence why it was the last

    You actually tried it with a vacuum cleaner ?

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    mysteron wrote:

    darklightq wrote:

    Sadly I've been the vacum route a good while back ( A new unused vacum it was)and it's good to a degree, but also not good at the same time. Luckily no hospital appointment were needed but if I remember correctly the 2nd and last time I tried it result in a bit of blood hence why it was the last

    You actually tried it with a vacuum cleaner ?

    Yes. I was a lot younger and less wiser I might add

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