Boyfriend is into peeing!??

I'd happily pee for someone, or on them, in the bath but wouldn't want them to return the favour!  It's a very common male kink.

my husband likes me peeing on him in the bath, he also like to watch me pee too

hotmum xx

ive never had a partner that was wanted or asked me to do it he was the 1st but dont want him doing it to me lol anything to keep him happy...

always happy to help xx

As you said, you would never do It, thats probably why he has not told you. Not my type of thing either like!

It might not be that simple either. He might like the submissive element alot more than the peeing! I love watching oral sex on women but its not as easy to find online as other types of porn. Femdom porn naturally has more pussy licking, so although its not completly my cup of tea I'll watch it for the bits I like! Don't try and get hung up on it, everyone has some kinks!

its an odd one. seems a bit wrong cos its body waste. but, to be fair, your bum is full of bady waste too and how many people love anal???

nothing wrong with it, but not for everyone (like anal!)

i think everyone should try it and report back on it!! x

Piss is virtually sterile so there's very little health implications, unlike rimming and ATM.

its still not good for you

but apparently other peoples piss IS good for you! x

Hell I doubt spunk is actually all that good for you, but still...!  And no I don't believe that it gives you vitamins and all those types of rumours!

A very good question!  An old boyfriend of mine certainly had a thing for it.

No we were only 17 so didn't get to that stage but he used to watch me pee.

I've never quite understood such fetishes. But maybe I'm very norrow-minded. 

TLA wrote:

I've never quite understood such fetishes. But maybe I'm very norrow-minded. 

I think the problem with that is assuming that there is anything to be understood.  I mean, if anybody asked a straight man why he is attracted to women and not men, I don't think he'd be able to answer that with anything sensible.

I think it's similar for anything a person is attracted to.  If you don't know why you like what you like, how can anybody else reasonably be expected to know more?

Lubyanka wrote:

 

TLA wrote:

I've never quite understood such fetishes. But maybe I'm very norrow-minded. 

I think the problem with that is assuming that there is anything to be understood.  I mean, if anybody asked a straight man why he is attracted to women and not men, I don't think he'd be able to answer that with anything sensible.

I think it's similar for anything a person is attracted to.  If you don't know why you like what you like, how can anybody else reasonably be expected to know more?

You might not be able to answer it sensibly but we could understand the biological urges behind it, the chemical responses etc...  You could effectively say 'because I'm supposed to for the survival of the human race!'

Personally I could not come up with a sensible answer for peeing on people nor could I come up with a biological reason unless I took a stab in the dark about it being some form of powerplay. I'm not making any judgement on the act, each to their own, but I just think its a very different argument. Maybe I've gone too Freudian or Darwinian on the issue but I just disagree that there might not be something to understand. I think any of our impulses/urges have reasons.

Nexas wrote:

Psychologically I think it's about marking territory mixed with the submission of the one being peed on.

Well put dude! I agree.

SG69

Yeah, Nexas, i think you've defo hit the nail on the head there :) x x x x

Thats not very efficient is it? I recommend a more modern approach, spray paint your lover if you wish to claim ownership. "WandA Wuz Eree". Although pee is free.... Hmmmm... This topic requires more thought than I'd anticipated!

I liked the idea of a little pee play, but my other half's pee, not my own. She was embaresed at first but grew to like it a little more and open up to the idea. I'd say give it at least a shot somewhere where you can get clean fast if you don't like it, like a shower or bath and have a try =]

WandA wrote:

Lubyanka wrote:

 

TLA wrote:

I've never quite understood such fetishes. But maybe I'm very norrow-minded. 

I think the problem with that is assuming that there is anything to be understood.  I mean, if anybody asked a straight man why he is attracted to women and not men, I don't think he'd be able to answer that with anything sensible.

I think it's similar for anything a person is attracted to.  If you don't know why you like what you like, how can anybody else reasonably be expected to know more?

You might not be able to answer it sensibly but we could understand the biological urges behind it, the chemical responses etc...  You could effectively say 'because I'm supposed to for the survival of the human race!' [...] I just disagree that there might not be something to understand. I think any of our impulses/urges have reasons.

Sure, you can say biological urges, chemical responses, and survival of the human race, but that only covers penis-in-vagina sex.  Those reasons exclude desire for anal or oral regardless of gender.  Those reasons also exclude preferences for specific body shapes, genital types, certain clothing, outfits, body parts, hair colour, and so on.  Those reasons also exclude all non-hetero desires and all non-reproductive erotic desires.  So for me, those reasons don't cover very much.

In my experience, a person's desires seem so natural and normal to them that trying to explain them becomes problematic, because it's difficult to explain something so primally felt to somebody who doesn't share the same desires.

I acknowledge that there could well be reasons for our desires, I am simply saying that I think that the reasons I've come across don't really effectively address those questions.