• How did you meet your Partner ?

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    Mine and OH's meeting werent all tht fantastic. haha.

    I knew his ex girlfriend but i somehow met him before her about 4 years ago, and all I can say is that after 2 years of friendship, I realised that I was in love with him. we had always fancied each other he knew that much but he didnt know i loved him. I helped him in and out of relationships, I was there for him through so much, and i eventually became content with been in the friend zone :') until he told me that he wanted more than sex from me. and to me that was awesome as i used to just be used for sex :( even though i was in love with him, i was in a sticky situation as i was in a relationship ( of a month) with quite an abusive partner. I eventually escaped him, and I ran straight into the arms of my OH. We started seeing each other November time and went to the christmas/german market and then eventually. we got together. and now i couldn't imagine life without him, He's honestly so perfect for me, we both have mental issues, but we wouldn't change each other for the world (minus the arguing) I love him, I always have been, and I honestly think, i always will be. he's mine, and i will do anything for him.

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    I was 16 and out with my frinds, we were at a shopping centre and decided to get the bus home as it was closing. We checked the bus timetable and there wasn't another bus for over an hour.
    My friend said he knew someone who lived nearby and we could go and hang out with him.
    After a half an hour walk (clearly not as nearby as he made out) we finally stopped and I noticed a mini, old style. My favourite thing in the world. With a pair of legs poking out the bottom.
    He came out from underneath and I thought he was the gorgeous man id ever seen. Being a 16 year old girl I didn't really know how to get his attention.
    A few weeks later I was having a sleepover at the same friends house and he invited the "mini" guy over. We spent all night talking and flirting. Then we all went out. We spent the next few weeks constantly talking and seeing each other.
    I had to move 50 miles away to be with the rest of my family and I promised him I'd save up the money and come back.
    I came back when I was 19 and have never looked back.

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    At work, classic!

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    I met my partner through a girl in a science class that I became friends with. I was 12, he was 13, and I'd had a horrible falling out with the bitchy group of girls I used to hang around with so was really grateful when this girl introduced me to her friends. My now partner made up a nickname for me the first time he met me which really annoyed me because I thought he was making fun of me, but eventually I started to fit in with their group and he was one of my best friends all the way through secondary school. At the time, he was hopelessly smitten with my best friend who introduced us and didn't ever look at me in a way other than friendly, but we were always close as friends.

    I didn't see him for about a year, and then we ended up spending time with each other because of a mutual friend (who was also his ex), and when we met again it was just different. We eventually kissed at a party, and then made it official that we were together when I was 18. Pretty much all of our friends, except his ex who did her best to set us up together, abandoned us and were really mean about us being together, saying that he'd just settled for me and that really he wanted to be with my friend who'd originally introduced us. But we just ignored them, moved in together after about 8 months of dating, and now we've been together just over 7 years.

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    Being that I'm from the younger generation, I met my partner on MSN messenger!

    *I'll change the names to protect anonymity, so these aren't actually what the people are called!*

    When I was about 12/13 I was 'dating' a boy in my year at school, we'll call him Bob, and back in those days everyone used to chat on MSN after school. It was pretty common for people to give out the email addresses of their friends (or 'addys' as we called them - oh lord!), so Bob told me to add his friend from a different school, who we'll call Toby, so we could all get to know each other. I dated Bob on and off throughout high school, all the while chatting to Toby on MSN, but just as friends.

    I stayed pretty good friends with Bob after we broke up, but started to get closer to Toby as well. He asked me out on a date, and actually we'd never met in person up to this point! I asked for Bobs blessing out of respect to him (as they were still friends), and he said he was really happy for us and that Toby is a lovely guy for me to be with.

    So that's how it happened :) we went out on a date, and straight away i just felt this connection with him that I hadn't felt before. That was 5 years ago now and I'm still as in love as I was then, probably a lot more actually!

    I'm still kinda embarrassed about the fact that we met on MSN, and through my ex boyfriend, but really glad we did! :)

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    Boogaloo wrote:

    Being that I'm from the younger generation, I met my partner on MSN messenger!

    *I'll change the names to protect anonymity, so these aren't actually what the people are called!*

    When I was about 12/13 I was 'dating' a boy in my year at school, we'll call him Bob, and back in those days everyone used to chat on MSN after school. It was pretty common for people to give out the email addresses of their friends (or 'addys' as we called them - oh lord!), so Bob told me to add his friend from a different school, who we'll call Toby, so we could all get to know each other. I dated Bob on and off throughout high school, all the while chatting to Toby on MSN, but just as friends.

    I stayed pretty good friends with Bob after we broke up, but started to get closer to Toby as well. He asked me out on a date, and actually we'd never met in person up to this point! I asked for Bobs blessing out of respect to him (as they were still friends), and he said he was really happy for us and that Toby is a lovely guy for me to be with.

    So that's how it happened :) we went out on a date, and straight away i just felt this connection with him that I hadn't felt before. That was 5 years ago now and I'm still as in love as I was then, probably a lot more actually!

    I'm still kinda embarrassed about the fact that we met on MSN, and through my ex boyfriend, but really glad we did! :)

    I miss MSN/Windows Live Messenger so so badly, all my emoticons were awesome xD

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    Me too Tigris! I had soooo many custom emoticons all with their own shortcuts etc, it was like my hobby trawling the net for more!

    All good things must come to an end though, and to be honest after I met up with my OH neither of us ever used MSN again.

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    Boogaloo wrote:

    Me too Tigris! I had soooo many custom emoticons all with their own shortcuts etc, it was like my hobby trawling the net for more!

    All good things must come to an end though, and to be honest after I met up with my OH neither of us ever used MSN again.

    Aww, I used to use it a lot cause I've friends all over the world, but now we just use facebook chat because WLM became Skype which is just plain rubbish. I had the sticky out tongue one but had ones with it changed to a blue tongue, a green tongue, a black tongue, I had a black heart, and various others.

    Ah and when you had to send someone a nudge to make them notice you :P

    When I used to have to talk to my partner when we didn't live together I would come home from school and go straight online and spend almost all evening talking to them on WLM.

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    Through a friend!

    We met on a night out with university friends, he was my mates flatmate, he was a gentleman that night, bought me a drink, had a chat, put his number on my phone then walked me back to my friends flat where I stayed that night, we started talking, then hanging out and that was it ^_^

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    Plain and simple, we both went to the same church.
    The vicar wife match us. She made me help this woman to move a bed
    And over time we came close.
    Now happily married.

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    Tigris wrote:

    Boogaloo wrote:

    Me too Tigris! I had soooo many custom emoticons all with their own shortcuts etc, it was like my hobby trawling the net for more!

    All good things must come to an end though, and to be honest after I met up with my OH neither of us ever used MSN again.

    Aww, I used to use it a lot cause I've friends all over the world, but now we just use facebook chat because WLM became Skype which is just plain rubbish. I had the sticky out tongue one but had ones with it changed to a blue tongue, a green tongue, a black tongue, I had a black heart, and various others.

    Ah and when you had to send someone a nudge to make them notice you :P

    When I used to have to talk to my partner when we didn't live together I would come home from school and go straight online and spend almost all evening talking to them on WLM.

    I still have all my emoticons and still have it installed on my old laptop because it all just reminds me of how we started out together and I can't bear to delete it! *is a sad git* haha XD

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    mysteron wrote:

    Like many of you , I have been following Naughty Mum's thead on her new relationship and like many of you find it an intersting read . I am therefore wondering how many of you have interesting stories on how you met your current partner . Was it love at first site?

    Well here is mine and I hope you find it interesting . All is 100% true apart from I have fictionalised the names to protect the other parties identity. If you believe in fate then read on if you don't this may change your mind as the odds were heavily stacked against me meeting my partner who is now my Mrs.

    It was Thursday March 27th 1989 and I had agreed to act as an escort ( not sexual type) for my mate and work colleagues fiance Julie . My mate Roger had been sent on a bank course at Knebworth and would be away for 2 weeks and he asked me if I would take Julie out as she was a bit of a party animal and hated stopping in. How could I turn down a request like this ? Whilst she wasn't my type she was very attractive none the less .

    My own situation was still a bit complicated . Just around 6 months previous I split up from my fiance as I felt the relationship wasn't going anywhere and I was at the time still on the rebound and was not looking for a gf at this time .

    As well as Julie I agreed to meet up with 2 of my regular drinking buddies Andy and Jim and we all met up in the town centre with the intention of going to the bright lights of Manchester were there are zillions of exciting nightclubs .

    However as we all met up the heavens above us opened up and we got showered. Women be women they never seem to be prepared for the weather. Julie was no exception. All she was wearing was a short white cocktail type dress which contrasted well with her deeply tanned legs . Me being a gentleman surrended my jacket to her and she tried to keep us both dry as well as she could under her women's ( small ) umbrella . With the 2 lads in tow as well we decided to go to a local night club in town as we all aniticipated looking like drowned rats if we went to our intended destination .

    When we got into the local night club me and Julie settled for a couple of brandys and cuddled together to get warm. Andy and Jim were OK as they were better prepared and they bought there usual bottle beers but served in a plastic glass for nightclub safety reasons.

    Not knowing to me I was already spotted by my now partner and wife but she was put off a little by the fact that I appeared to have a girlfiriend in tow . She was with a party of girls , all child minders at a nursery school and they had apparently decided to go out as a one off as well . They normally go to a nightclub in an other nearby town of Oldham called Butterflies .

    Julie asked me if I fancied getting up for a dance so I obliged. It was at this point I noticed an attractive blond girl looking at me but it was well over 100m away so I presumed she was looking at someone else. I did notice ehen I looked in her direction she looked sharply away so I guessed something was going on. But boy did I like the look of her .

    Later on I felt a tap on my shoulder and it was one of my rock chick friends Mandy who like me had ditched the rockers uniform for a more conventional style of dress . After exchanging pleasentries she enquired on who Julie was. I expalined she wasn't my girlfriend but my mates fiance. She then advised me that a friend she was with quite fancied me and wanted to know if I was single. Mandy then dragged me over after palming Julie onto Jim .

    Mandy then introduced me to this girl and it was the very girl that had been looking at me from a distance and I felt my heart pounding with fluttering butterflies a sensation I havn't felt before. Before I could say anything we both just went for a snog and cuddle as we both felt it was just right. After coming up for air I explained the situation with Julie and we just laughed about it because she thought Julie was my GF which had put her off . At end of the night we exchanged phone numbers and then we started dating and as they say the rest is history . We got married some 5 years later and have a son who is now a teenager. As well as the wedding anniversry we also celebrate this anniversry .

    I still think fate sealed us that night because the odds of meeting were stacked against us and yes I do believe in fate and also love at first site. And this, my story is the proof.

    So to paraphrase you met a girl in a nightclub. Very outre.
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    Oo! I have inspired a new thread😁😊
    I approve...as you were😅

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    I was living by myself for many years and had saved up a bit of cash. Quit my job that I was no longer satisfied in and decided that instead of blowing it all on rent, I would have to enter a share house, to split costs and have some much needed time off. It was refreshing to think about how wonderful it would be to make new friends and live in a house full of people again!

    I searched for houseshare available online. Saw some photos online with dark wooden floors, and decided that this house looked nice. Sent the landlord a message, and introduced myself, as I was aware that I would need to know that we would all get along if we were going to share space with each other. He responded telling me that I was welcome to inspect, and later on that week I did.

    I'll never forget landing on his doorstep, him opening the door, and the absolute look of suprise on his face when I extended my hand to introduce myself. The house was warm and inviting, and the bedroom I was after was absolutely perfect-I was getting the masterbedroom!! (He was living downstairs in his own containable quaters, and had room for two renters living upstairs.)

    The house was beautiful, and I felt like I was at home. I knew the room was mine after I had left and it was offered to me straight away.

    After moving in, I decided one morning that we should all get to know each other, (myself, him, and one other housemate). I offered to make my ultra thick pancakes. He showed up, at 6.30 with the sun rising bright and early, other housemate did not.

    I recall whilst cooking away everything that he said, and I felt compelled to "read into him". He put on a really tough front, but I saw past it straight away and called him out for being a big softy. He later on revealed that this converstaion scared the hell out of him, but he wanted more, as no-one had every seen through him like that.

    We would sit on the balcony and watch the sun setting. He would have a beer, and I would point out the local wildlife. I mentioned that I had always loved chickens, ducks and geese. He said that he always loved the idea of having farm animals. "I'll build you a chook house." He said. I laughed it off thinking he was just being nice.

    The very next day he was building a chicken coup. It became increaasingly obvious to me that in the little things we were saying and doing, our long term goals and interests, that we were incredibly compatible. I dismissed this though as I was more concerned about the whole 'dating your landlord' thing and what a mess that could be!

    We had established a wonderul frienship, with some very light flirting. I was very drawn to him, and I could sense that he felt the same way. I went on a week long cruise with some family members, and I remember hugging him before I left as I had kindly asked to be dropped off at the dock.

    Whilst on the cruise I had made some lovely friends, but my thoughts kept going back to him. I was so excited when I was finally in range enough to receive a message from him-a photo of himself and a stuffed toy of mine enjoying a beer together in my absence. The butterflies in my stomach and smile on my face confirmed what I was deep down very aware of, and finally able to admit.

    When he picked me up from the docks once my holiday had ended we were both super excited and smiley. So happy to see each other. He leaned it when I was showing him photos and I was catching stars in his eyes. We spent the day watching movies together, but the real treat was just being close to each other!

    The sun set on us both that day. Once he had put his arm around me I knew it was safe to snuggle in and wrap my right leg around his left. The warmth was shared, and a year later, we are still very much in love. :')

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    Lovehoney - Jessica wrote:

    I was living by myself for many years and had saved up a bit of cash. Quit my job that I was no longer satisfied in and decided that instead of blowing it all on rent, I would have to enter a share house, to split costs and have some much needed time off. It was refreshing to think about how wonderful it would be to make new friends and live in a house full of people again!

    I searched for houseshare available online. Saw some photos online with dark wooden floors, and decided that this house looked nice. Sent the landlord a message, and introduced myself, as I was aware that I would need to know that we would all get along if we were going to share space with each other. He responded telling me that I was welcome to inspect, and later on that week I did.

    I'll never forget landing on his doorstep, him opening the door, and the absolute look of suprise on his face when I extended my hand to introduce myself. The house was warm and inviting, and the bedroom I was after was absolutely perfect-I was getting the masterbedroom!! (He was living downstairs in his own containable quaters, and had room for two renters living upstairs.)

    The house was beautiful, and I felt like I was at home. I knew the room was mine after I had left and it was offered to me straight away.

    After moving in, I decided one morning that we should all get to know each other, (myself, him, and one other housemate). I offered to make my ultra thick pancakes. He showed up, at 6.30 with the sun rising bright and early, other housemate did not.

    I recall whilst cooking away everything that he said, and I felt compelled to "read into him". He put on a really tough front, but I saw past it straight away and called him out for being a big softy. He later on revealed that this converstaion scared the hell out of him, but he wanted more, as no-one had every seen through him like that.

    We would sit on the balcony and watch the sun setting. He would have a beer, and I would point out the local wildlife. I mentioned that I had always loved chickens, ducks and geese. He said that he always loved the idea of having farm animals. "I'll build you a chook house." He said. I laughed it off thinking he was just being nice.

    The very next day he was building a chicken coup. It became increaasingly obvious to me that in the little things we were saying and doing, our long term goals and interests, that we were incredibly compatible. I dismissed this though as I was more concerned about the whole 'dating your landlord' thing and what a mess that could be!

    We had established a wonderul frienship, with some very light flirting. I was very drawn to him, and I could sense that he felt the same way. I went on a week long cruise with some family members, and I remember hugging him before I left as I had kindly asked to be dropped off at the dock.

    Whilst on the cruise I had made some lovely friends, but my thoughts kept going back to him. I was so excited when I was finally in range enough to receive a message from him-a photo of himself and a stuffed toy of mine enjoying a beer together in my absence. The butterflies in my stomach and smile on my face confirmed what I was deep down very aware of, and finally able to admit.

    When he picked me up from the docks once my holiday had ended we were both super excited and smiley. So happy to see each other. He leaned it when I was showing him photos and I was catching stars in his eyes. We spent the day watching movies together, but the real treat was just being close to each other!

    The sun set on us both that day. Once he had put his arm around me I knew it was safe to snuggle in and wrap my right leg around his left. The warmth was shared, and a year later, we are still very much in love. :')

    Im not romantic in the slightest. ..but that was a stunning story of sensuality xxxx loved it
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    I was waiting for the school bus outside my house and oh (then 17)was waiting out side the house for my dad to go to work everyday and was to shy to say anything went all red and typical 15 yr old girlyness for nearly 2months and it was my stepmoms birthday party and had a few drinks (not that I now agree with underage drinking) and I plucked up the courage to speak we ending up dancing and speakin everyday for 2 months and meeting when ever we could and finally he asks quote 'will you go out with me' with that we've been with each other everday or spoke to each other everyday ever since and we have in together almost 10yrs have 3 Amazing children and we have been married almost a year we have some really rough times but I love him he is my rock and I cant imagine my life without him x

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    In a nightclub when I was 18 and he was 23.

    I worked there and had just split from the guy whose fb I hadn't realised I was. Some guy approached me and started acting like a drunken tosser. We had a row and I was about to have him thrown out when I noticed a fight.

    My ex was working himself and he was being thrown out, lol. I was totally engrossed so when drunk guy asked for my number I gave it to him even though I wasn't attracted to him in the slightest.

    I had no intentions of going out with him but a family member who hated my ex talked me into it. We went out and he told me he'd noticed me months before but he had thought me out of his league and he'd only plucked up the courage to ask for my number because he was drunker than he'd ever been.

    By the end of our first date I was smitten, we moved in together a year to the day later and we married two years after that. 17 years and we're still together and still as volatile as we were the night we met. We have a 13 year old son and I can't imagine what my life would be like without them.

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    On an online dating site. Had never been on one before and was sceptical, particularly as i received some very odd and cheesy messages!

    Anyway he sent me a lovely first message; had obviously bothered to read my profile properly and relate to it. We messaged every day for 2 weeks; every morning he would message me good morning and every night too. After 2 weeks he suggested we meet up for a coffee one Sunday afternoon. I was so nervous. He called me to say he was running late as didn't know where to park in a strange town. I waited outside our meeting place with nervous excitement., looking up and down the street ready to spot him. Then I saw him across the street, he waved and came over. He was completely not what I was expecting; his one profile picture didn't do him justice. He ordered coffee for us both and he was so nervous, shaking bringing the drinks over. We chatted for ages and then decided to go somewhere to eat. We just hit it off, he had a cheeky way about him and made me laugh so much. As we left the restaurant, I really wanted to hook my arm through his but didn't want to appear too keen. He walked me back to my car, kissed me on the cheek and left. I really didn't want our date to end, it was so much fun.

    I text him later ot say I really enjoyed our date and wouldlove to see him again. He was really surprised! Anyway we met up a couple of evenings later, after I finished work and he bought me my favourite chocolate (he had noted from my profile) and a beautiful bunch of flowers.

    We've been together 7 months now and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me, he makes me laugh and feel special and loved, he's very thoughtful, I find him incredibly sexy and the sex is mind blowing! Even now he still texts me good morning and good night, without fail.

    I used to turn my nose up at online dating but I can honestly say, it's the best thing I ever did joining that site

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    lustyjoy wrote:

    Lovehoney - Jessica wrote:

    I was living by myself for many years and had saved up a bit of cash. Quit my job that I was no longer satisfied in and decided that instead of blowing it all on rent, I would have to enter a share house, to split costs and have some much needed time off. It was refreshing to think about how wonderful it would be to make new friends and live in a house full of people again!

    I searched for houseshare available online. Saw some photos online with dark wooden floors, and decided that this house looked nice. Sent the landlord a message, and introduced myself, as I was aware that I would need to know that we would all get along if we were going to share space with each other. He responded telling me that I was welcome to inspect, and later on that week I did.

    I'll never forget landing on his doorstep, him opening the door, and the absolute look of suprise on his face when I extended my hand to introduce myself. The house was warm and inviting, and the bedroom I was after was absolutely perfect-I was getting the masterbedroom!! (He was living downstairs in his own containable quaters, and had room for two renters living upstairs.)

    The house was beautiful, and I felt like I was at home. I knew the room was mine after I had left and it was offered to me straight away.

    After moving in, I decided one morning that we should all get to know each other, (myself, him, and one other housemate). I offered to make my ultra thick pancakes. He showed up, at 6.30 with the sun rising bright and early, other housemate did not.

    I recall whilst cooking away everything that he said, and I felt compelled to "read into him". He put on a really tough front, but I saw past it straight away and called him out for being a big softy. He later on revealed that this converstaion scared the hell out of him, but he wanted more, as no-one had every seen through him like that.

    We would sit on the balcony and watch the sun setting. He would have a beer, and I would point out the local wildlife. I mentioned that I had always loved chickens, ducks and geese. He said that he always loved the idea of having farm animals. "I'll build you a chook house." He said. I laughed it off thinking he was just being nice.

    The very next day he was building a chicken coup. It became increaasingly obvious to me that in the little things we were saying and doing, our long term goals and interests, that we were incredibly compatible. I dismissed this though as I was more concerned about the whole 'dating your landlord' thing and what a mess that could be!

    We had established a wonderul frienship, with some very light flirting. I was very drawn to him, and I could sense that he felt the same way. I went on a week long cruise with some family members, and I remember hugging him before I left as I had kindly asked to be dropped off at the dock.

    Whilst on the cruise I had made some lovely friends, but my thoughts kept going back to him. I was so excited when I was finally in range enough to receive a message from him-a photo of himself and a stuffed toy of mine enjoying a beer together in my absence. The butterflies in my stomach and smile on my face confirmed what I was deep down very aware of, and finally able to admit.

    When he picked me up from the docks once my holiday had ended we were both super excited and smiley. So happy to see each other. He leaned it when I was showing him photos and I was catching stars in his eyes. We spent the day watching movies together, but the real treat was just being close to each other!

    The sun set on us both that day. Once he had put his arm around me I knew it was safe to snuggle in and wrap my right leg around his left. The warmth was shared, and a year later, we are still very much in love. :')

    Im not romantic in the slightest. ..but that was a stunning story of sensuality xxxx loved it

    Thank you LJ! :)

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    At the tail end of a relationship that gone sour, I had turned to Twitter to kill time and distract myself when my (now-ex) partner was out of the house. It was always such an open and happy community, no judgement, and I felt that I was closer to the people on there than many people in my real life that I had pushed away out of fear and shame.

    From tweeting under the #F1 hashtag during race season I became friends with a lovely gentleman living in Noosa (about 2 hours away) who was going through a tough time in his relationship too. He and his wife and 3 kids had moved from Brisbane to Noosa following a rough few years, they had split up and then gotten back together and were trying their best to make it work. We mostly talked about silly things. He commented on my blog from time to time, we checked in on eachother if things sounded dark and stormy.

    A few months after that my ex and I split up. I went through a tumultuous and exhilarating nine months rediscovering the joys of being treated well by various lovely gentleman who wined and dined and sixty-nined me, fell in and out of lust with a dear friend, broke a few hearts and basically became confident in myself and my ability to be happy again. Towards the end of this my twitter friend and I reconnected. He and his wife had recently split, and there was a sense of finality for him, of their attempts to reconnect to one another having run dry.

    We would chat almost every day. He had helped me clear my head a lot when I was going through disaster after disaster at home and it felt natural to let him open up to me and vent, after I had done the same. But again, more than anything we just chatted about random silly things.

    I remember asking my girlfriends what it meant when someone texted first thing in the morning to wish me a good day. They said it meant he woke up thinking about me. I swooned. They were gobsmacked that after mowing through all these guys with so little emotional attachment, I was going weak at the knees for someone I couldn't even see or touch. We really only texted, but we spoke on the phone once while I bitched to him about how frustrated I was with a guy I'd been seeing and I remember lying on the couch, closing my eyes and listening to his voice and it felt... safe, somehow. Familiar.

    Texting became sexting. We squirmed. We kept eachother up late at night. The Easter long weekend rolled around, and with 4 nights off and no exciting plans I decided to treat myself to a hotel room for a couple of nights. During a heated late-night session I thought, hell, why not invite him and just meet the guy, get this sexual tension out of my system? I wasn't clicking with anyone and every sexual encounter, while physically satisfying, was boring the hell out of me.

    We met at a hotel called the Rendezvous, appropriately enough. After a bit of shy blushing, a little peck and stiff hug, he dropped his bags in the room and gawked at the comically oversized spa bath in the room, and we sat in the hotel bar and shared some drinks and chatted. Thanks to a little social lubrication in the form of red wine, when we went back upstairs we were far more relaxed and enjoyed the river view before some good old fashioned necking, grinding like a couple of horny teenagers. We almost missed our dinner reservations and I had butterflies in my stomach for the first time in many years.

    Dinner was perfect, we held hands for much of the evening and I became lost in his gorgeous blue eyes time and time again. It felt surreal to finally be in his presence. Needless to say the rest of the night was a very steamy success... and we didn't even use the spa bath.

    As if that wasn't magical enough, we woke up sans hangovers and wandered over the road to the Pancake Manor, had pancakes for breakfast, and then back to the hotel for a lovely cuddly nap. I felt so relaxed with him in my arms, and I felt like his body was so at peace as we drifted in and out of sleep.

    We checked out, drove up the coast to stay another night at his place. We went for beers at the local Surf Lifesaving Club and sat side by side, hardly speaking. It wasn't awkward - it just felt like we'd known eachother forever and didn't need to speak to enjoy eachother's company. Back at home we sat on the couch and he opened up to me about all sorts of things that had happened in his life, and I in mine. We cried together and held eachother. That night and the following day were full of pizza, sunbathing, and smiling so much our faces hurt. Something just felt right.

    When it was time for me to go home the third night, we avoided it as long as possible, instead lying sideways in bed listening to the rain and laughing hysterically at all the dumb jokes we could think of. We used the rain as an excuse for delaying my departure, until he rolled over at 9pm and said "Please don't go home tonight. I'll drive you to work in the morning." I fell asleep knowing I felt differently about him than anyone I'd ever met before.

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