• Female ejaculation

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    Shybunnyrawr [sign in to see picture]
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    So it's the ultimate question I'm sure that has arisin many times...

    Female ejaculation vs. peeing yourself:

    Okay so I'm 23 years old, I've never had an orgasm (it's a sad life) I've never got there during sex or foreplay or been able to make myself get there masterbating...hands...toys, men I've tried everything haha.

    So tonight I thought I'd have another 'serious' go. I got out one of my toys and was trying for a good two hours, prepared myself...the important pee before you get started!

    I've always heard before you cum it feels like the same sensation as you're about to pee...with this sensation I've stopped myself but this time I let everything go...I'm on my own the embarrassment is all mine if anything happens!

    First gush...I got so panicked I stopped straight away...liquid is clear and doesn't smell of urine but I didn't have the 'europhoric' or tingly amazing feeling you get when you orgamsm...so I try again, I thought maybe I didn't let it go on long enough...try again and ALOT more liquid it still didn't smell but I still didn't get that feeling that if had my first orgasm.

    Ladies and gents, hats off to me as I'm pretty sure I've just peed myself twice...at least I can laugh about it eh!

    What are your 'thoughts' on this.

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    tryeverythingonce69 [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't think you peed on yourself, it could genuinely have been squirting - when I recently squirted for the first time, I didn't orgasm at the same time, so it is possible to squirt without orgasming :)

    And I usually get the 'wanting to pee' feeling before squirting, not before an orgasm so maybe when you pushed through that feeling it led to squirting instead of the orgasm you expected..

    Also, most women don't orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, maybe try using a bullet on your clit whilst being vaginally penetrated with either a toy or man and see how that works out? Usually I do that whilst my OH is either playing with boobs or something else and that tips me over the edge, I need stimulation all over ha!

    Another thing I'd say is keep relaxed and don't think too much about the orgasm as an 'end goal', sometimes putting too much pressure on yourself to get there and have an orgasm can have the reverse effect - just relax, enjoy the pleasure from your toys/hands etc and it'll happen ;) happy playing!

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    There's a lot of debate about 'squirting', but I believe, and recent research shows, that it is involuntary urination. Not everybody believes this, but to be honest if it is true then I don't think it's anything to be ashamed about, as long as it feels good! :)

    Female ejaculation on the other hand is more of a white milky fluid that comes from the vagina during a climax, but the two terms are often interchanged and people can get mixed up.

    If you were experiencing the urge to urinate right before climaxing, then it's very possible that you've squirted. Whether it's pee or not, it's still a natural thing to happen so I wouldn't get too hung up on that. Just lay down some towels and enjoy yourself ;)

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    Whatever you did, it sounds like you were having a good time.

    if you enjoyed it, keep doing it. And get your other half involved too. I'm sure he'll love it.

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    Shylad2552 wrote:

    Whatever you did, it sounds like you were having a good time.

    if you enjoyed it, keep doing it. And get your other half involved too. I'm sure he'll love it.

    This!

    I squirt often, it smells and tastes sweet. But if it is wee then I don't care because it feels so good, I'm going to keep doing it :)

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    It doesn't sound like urine to me, urine usually has a faint colour and a smell to it. It does sound like you squirted/gushed.
    You said you didnt orgasm from it though? I think that is quite normal and I am the same. I usually squirt a couple of seconds/minutes before I climax and a lot.
    Don't worry if you didn't orgasm yet, it will happen :) just enjoy yourself in the meantime and don't put much pressure on yourself either :)

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    Hi, I really don't think you peed yourself, I think it was a bit of female squirting, some women can squirt loads!

    A very close female friend was until recently in the same situation as you but at the age of 42! So after a long shat 2 Glasses of wine and a bit of coaching she is now a happy orgasm bunny. She too worried about peeing, and was alarmed at the squirted liquid the first time. My best description is its like the precum you get when your giving a man head just before he orgasms. When it happens try not to panic but carry on with the fun.

    My friend had her first orgasm with the Tracey Cox supersex Rechargable bullet (a gift from me) as she is a real clit girl. She described it as shortly after the slightly worrying squinting thing she began to get a really deep tingling sensation a bit like a whole body shiver and shortly after this she had her very first orgasm.

    once you have had one orgasm they come thick and fast if you continue to play (in my experience). You might find that what you thought you enjoyed isn't what gets you to orgasm. I'm a penetration girl but I love a bullet on my clit and these too together get me there every time.

    Do you have a set of jiggle balls? These get me really wet and in the mood, I usually wear them while in doing the housework on my day off, with the occasional break from the vacuuming for a quick wank when it all gets too much.

    If you are worried about the squirting thing try playing in the bath with a waterproof toy, this Amy alleviate your worries . Good luck with tracking down your first orgasm, don't worrie it will happen just enjoy the path to finding it.

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    As a guy I've noticed, if I go to the loo then have a play for a while, as the heart is pumping much more than normal, if I stop, then the urge to go to the loo soon appears and the pee is very clear/water, maybe this is the same for you girls and yes maybe it is pee but basically its water, either way if you're not bothered then why not.

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    My OH and I did a little experiment recently after all the "notpee" hoohah that rippled through the world of social media.

    One morning I had my first pee of the day which was deeply coloured as usual, then we played. I squirted all over the joint and the fluid was pretty much colourless. Once we were done I peed again and it was yellowy.

    That puts me firmly in the female ejaculate is not pee camp, though if we'd discovered otherwise I'd happily pee on anyway cos it feels too good not to.

    Just relax and when you get the urge embrace it. Don't try fo fight it or force it, just let it be whatever it's going to be. There's a good chance that you'll either squirt, which while not particularly orgasmic on its own is still a special feeling, or you will orgasm. If both happen together you're in for a real treat 😉

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    With regards to the pee thing, the recent study I was talking about used ultrasound scans and chemical analysis to determine that it is urine that comes out when you squirt, as during sexual arousal the bladder of all the women began to fill again but with very very diluted urine, which was squirted out. I do have an issue with this study as the sample size was quite small, but it still had some good results :)

    The way I see it, it doesn't matter whether it's pee or not, as long as it feels good! ;)

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    I have never felt a "need to pee" feeling before an orgasm, but then i dont do G spot play, which is almost exclusively referred to as the type needed to "squirt" which puts pressure on the bladder. Pressure on the bladder, or bladder muscle spasms, can cause you to urinate involuntarily, or desperately need to urinate, just like with pregnancy or urge incontinence. Me personally, I'm convinced that yes, squirting/gushing is pee. The study i have the most faith in used ultrasound to view the bladders of women who claimed to be squirters before masturbation, at the point just before orgasm, and after orgasm. All the women peed before starting, and showed empty starting bladders. At the just before orgasm scans, even those who had only taken 20 minutes to get to that point, they all showed significantly full bladders, and after orgasm/ "squirting" all had empty bladders. The fluid was tested, and was found to be almost 100% urine, just very dilute, although one or two had a small amount of milky fluid mixed in, true female "ejaculate" similar in volume and appearance to male ejaculate. It would suggest sexual arousal and stimulation puts the kidneys into overdrive, very quickly filling the bladder. (I have noticed i pee 2-3 times sooner after masturbation than days i don't, and i have a pretty strict fluid intake and bathroom schedule due to illness, so it's easy for me to track with accuracy) This would make it much more dilute, and have much lower levels of the chemicals that give urine the typical colour and smell we are used to. As it would be less filtered, it may contain sugars, which would also account for the sweet taste many claim it has, as their arguement that it isn't urine. Most scientific studies that don't outright say it is urine, simply quote the much lower chemical levels of things like urea, but that doesn't mean it isn't urine, especially if it is just very dilute from rapid over production.

    I mean, if the testicles can only hold the ammount they hold, where on earth could there possibly be some hidden gland etc that suddenly produces cupfuls of fluid from a female? It would also be counter productive for reproduction to have a flood of fluid, especially as it is debated if it comes from the actual vagina like natural lubrication, or the urethra.

    Did you pee? I'm saying yes, but the majority here will disagree with me. If this is a good or bad thing, is up to you. If you find the feeling pleasureable, are ok with cleaning up after, or taking precautions before it happens to contain it, then it doesn't really matter what the fluid is, pee or not.

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    I was under the impression that the Skene's gland (or female prostate as they're calling it now) was largely responsible for the production of female ejaculate.😕

    It stands to reason that there will be urine in the fluid as the gland drains into the urethra and the best way to stimulate the gland is to put pressure on the bladder which is then forced to leak a bit. The info I read during the recent debate claimed that the fluid was very similar to the precum males produce during prostate stimulation.

    In a study of women who squirted and some who couldn't, the latter were found not to have this gland at all while all the former did.

    I just wonder if there was ever anything like 'male ejaculation, pee or not pee' back in the day. I bet there wasn't, lol.

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    VA that's the study I meant, but you explained it much better!

    And yeah I 100% believe that, especially as after I orgasm I desperately need to pee and it's usually more diluted, and during sexual arousal I feel the urge, but never am able to squirt. All of this even if I've just peed 10 mins before orgasm!

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    Ouch perhaps that study was about female ejaculation rather than squirting? The two terms are interchanged but they actually mean totally different things, as female ejaculate is a white fluid like you described but it comes from the vagina.

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    Boogaloo wrote:

    Ouch perhaps that study was about female ejaculation rather than squirting? The two terms are interchanged but they actually mean totally different things, as female ejaculate is a white fluid like you described but it comes from the vagina.

    Nah, it was a squirting thing. Did you not see the big argy bargy about it on Twitter and FB around the time of the changes in porn laws? I think banning squirting scenes in porn sparked it and bloggers were all over it. As far as I remember the jury was still out on whatever the hell it is, though I appreciate that studies like the one you and VA mentioned have probably happened since. Tbh, I could be spraying my walls with unicorn sweat and narwhal tears for all I care. Imma keep in doing it cos I likes it 😁😁
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    Diffently not pee neutral smell and taste as OH loves it all over his face and certainly not a golden shower
    . Not our thing lol xx... usually squirt up to 11 times in a session then its gone but after sex I always need a pee afterwards so kinda indicates not pee.. lots of stuff on google but we woman still remain an enigma in that area xx
    If its good go with it xx

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    OUCH! Thank you ;) wrote:

    Boogaloo wrote:

    OUCH! Thank you ;) wrote:

    Nah, it was a squirting thing. Did you not see the big argy bargy about it on Twitter and FB around the time of the changes in porn laws? I think banning squirting scenes in porn sparked it and bloggers were all over it. As f remember the jury was still out on whatever the hell it is, though I appreciate that studies like the one you and VA mentioned have probably happened since. Tbh, I could be spraying my walls with unicorn sweat and narwhal tears for all I care. Imma keep in doing it cos I likes it 😁😁

    That last paragraph made me lol! As a male who loves to see a woman squirting or gush, I'm not in the manner of caring what it is. Science will eventually have its day, but since the phenomena is brought about by pleasure and stimulation, it should matter not a jot about what it is or where it comes from.

    I don't know if I'm over-simplifying this, but imho, it's a very visual way of knowing that a woman - or YOUR woman - is having an amazing time, either with or without your assistance. That said, there does seem to be a bit of a fixation with squirting/gushing; yes, it's hot as hell, but I'm pretty sure a woman can live a happy and satisfying sexual life without it, that it's about the pleasure she feels in the moment.

    And what's not to love about that?!

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    The first time my wife squirted, she was on top and was mortified by the thought that she had peed on me. It took a fair amount of persuasion to convince her that she hadn't, and even if she had, I didn't mind as it was so amazingly sexy anyway.

    She still refuses to let me bring her to orgasm orally in case she squirts in my face, but we have got a long weekend coming up in a few weeks without the kids at home and that is most definitely one on my agenda to get her to try!

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    For some people it is creamy white, other times though clear it has a thick syrupy consistency. Pretty sure there isn't that kind of mucus secretion in the bladder, I don't understand how the debate is still out about if pee or not.

    Also, good one Shybunny hope you have fun with it.

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