• Ladies only please. Trouble reaching climax?

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    Saphira [sign in to see picture]
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    Heya ladies,

    To cut a long story as short as possible...

    So my partner started having an issue with premature climax a few years back I was understanding for some time but after a while I totally lost all libido. That was about a year back. Latley however it has returned with a vengance!!! He's fine now, We're a VERY open couple and have tried pretty much everything, toys, 3 ways, even slept with other people, ect. The issue I have though is I just can't reach an internal climax, no matter what I do! When I say my libido has returned with a vengance, I'm not joking. I had to stay a little later than the rest of my group today at collage and just watching him work (construction department) I had to stop myself hitting on my tutor! (I'm not jail-bait btw).

    So ladies have you ever had this and what did you do? Is there anything on LH that really works?

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    mrs.hiskett [sign in to see picture]
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    Theres loads on here you can try.but some people cant climax using gspot so its normal that some can only climax using the clit. Some suggesting you can try : durex tingle lube, tracey cox orgasm gel. If you under the "better sex for her" section on lovehoney they have loads u can try

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    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    Funny because last time I checked I was quite good at making the female body tick but I guess being a man and all I wouldn't have any good advice 👎 boo hiss

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    Do you feel any stimulation on your g-spot at all? Can you orgasm ok from clitoral stimulation? It's a good idea to try to reach a blended orgasm, that is to say both g-spot and clitoral stimulation, before trying to have a purely g-spot orgasm.

    If you are looking for toys, something like this is very effective at hitting your g-spot:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14134

    If you're looking for creams etc you can pick up things like this whic can make your g-spot more responsive:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17883

    I'm not really sure exactly what you're asking though? If you're having trouble orgasming from sex, a clitoral toy can help or something like this, if you've got the budget for it:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31770

    Or even cock rings to stimulate you both, if your partner is up for it. This one is a great one:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31172

    Or this is you don't want a ball ring:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18919

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    You may want to consider how much of this is MENTAL vs. Physical issue? Are you in the right fram of mind? Is the lack of ability now freaking you out and preventing the release?

    On the physiical side I would say really work with your gspot (combined with clit stimulation) and keep pushing. Have your partner work you over with the toy because then you can lay back and just enjoy...the toys I like best for this is a girthy rabbit wtih a rotating head or the We Vibe 2... consider combining this experience with some light bondage or blindfolding as that may help you let go mentally and just experience the physical pleasure.

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    have you ever had internal orgasms?

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    Saphira [sign in to see picture]
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    To answer, yes I used to be able to have internal orgasms It's only after a dry spell of almost a year that I no longer can and yes clitoral works.

    Thanks All! Will check out what's been suggested!! :D :D :D

    Stuburns wrote:

    Funny because last time I checked I was quite good at making the female body tick but I guess being a man and all I wouldn't have any good advice 👎 boo hiss

    I wasn't saying guys can't make the female body tick, just asking other women who may have experianced this. :/

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