• Double Pen for her Pegging for me

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    Tr1cky D1cky [sign in to see picture]
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    I love making loce to my wife but compared to the start its a bit same old - Don't get me wrong I love making her orgasm and I love to orgasm too but I would like to try and have a little more fun with it?

    3sums are out the question for us as a couple but I would like her to enjoy double penetration but I've considered her maybe enjoying doing to me as I do to her so to speak? how do I break it to her that I have thought about it?

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    CheekyGirl18 [sign in to see picture]
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    Just tell her or talk about experimenting new things. If she's open to it result if not then I guess you could try some solo play in that region x

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    kc. [sign in to see picture]
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    I have had that dilemma so to speak. We have lots of toys and have indulged a lot in anal with my wife, including DP but with toys. A couple of years ago she then went for me with finger penetration which has led onto fisting as well. It just seemed to be an unwritten exploration really but I then really fancied her pegging me. As we are quite open with each other one morning whilst browsing the LH site I took my heart in hand and just showed her and said do you fancy pegging me? She said yes. She may have said yes just because it was something I fancied exploring more than her. I got a peg, we tried it but she wasn't keen so we only did it once more. A few months ago she read an article on line about pegging, how it had even featured in an American TV show. She asked if I still had the peg, which I did so we tried it again and this time she was much more comfortable with it to the extent that it is a regular feature now and as she knows I like stretching had led her to comment that she is surprised I've not bought a bigger one. I think her reluctance to start was that she needed to feel more comfortable about it. I think you have to be bold and just take your heart in hand. It will certainly help if you are already both into anal with each other. It's not just the penetration thing though it's that my wife is actually f*****g me and 'abusing' me. It really is quite awesome. Good luck.

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    john69 [sign in to see picture]
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    kc's story is very similar to mine. The only difference is that I showed my wife a porn about rimming I'd found on internet. I was quite nervous about her reaction (she at that time just occassionally fingered my anus), she looked at it and asked if I fancied the idea. So, to make it short, nowadays we regularly rim each other, she is either fisting or pegging me after I'd made her cum.

    As kc writes, you just have to open your heart to her and tell about your wishes. She might say no and then you continue with what you're doing now, but she might also say yes and even tell about her fantasies.

    Good luck!

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    You could use the forum as a good starting point to the conversation. Tell her how you've read a lot of things about prostate play, that it's a really popular thing with the LH crowd and you've been looking at the toys involved out of interest. You don't have to get her from zero to pegging, you could show her prostate massagers/butt plugs and see how she'd feel about you wearing one while doing your regular sexual activities. Then lead into how you've seen so many women on here who love wearing a plug during sex to get the DP feel and how would she feel about wearing one too. Introducing bum play slowly rather than going straight to full on pegging or DP can make it seem a lot less intimidating if she is unsure. Just bring the topic up and roll with it, express your interest, show her some fun things and see how she reacts :)

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    mrd138 [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH surprised me with a peg, we've only used it twice so far but would definately not stop her doing it again. We also enjoy playing with plugs or fingers and I love rimming her!!!!

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    kc. [sign in to see picture]
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    I love rimming my wife as well. It really is very sexy. My wife loves it as well. As John says if your into watching porn, especially porn involving anal and are into anal play then it all helps to potentially get a positive.

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    strapon_banana [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my husband do pegging all the time, he loves it we started slow...

    fingers with a blowjob developed to blowjob and a buttplug to buying a strapon harness this led to more anal stretching and fisting, now we dont hold back on hardly anything strapon related i even make him suck it sometimes when im feeling realy horney.

    rimming however im not keep on happy to recive but not so keen to give out.

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    Tr1cky D1cky [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you people, food for thought.... I'll maybe report back on how it's gone or if I need any more tips....

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    Tr1cky D1cky [sign in to see picture]
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    Well I sneakily managed to find a video of DP with aid of toy on a sex site and whatapp'd her the link, she seems a little bit interested in the idea.... now I'll have to purchase the best item which will also suit the other bit too :-)

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    kc. [sign in to see picture]
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    Keep us updated on the success.

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