• Fantasies

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    ChloeW96 [sign in to see picture]
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    My boyfriend and i have been together for quite a while now, and as we have moved out of home and have our own space and no family surrounding us when we sleep, we have started to explore a little bit more, both with sex toys and fantasies.

    Lovehoney has impacted the whole sex toy side of things, however the fantisies have spured out of no where. Up until a couple of months ago, I didn't even know that i found certain fantasies arousing. I am bisexual, so enjoy lesbian porn, however my boyfriend and I have started to enagage in Daddy/Daughter role play. I enjoy it, and would never decide to engage in sexual relations with any of my family members, but I'm concerned that this is strange and 'wrong'.

    If anyone could offer me some help/guidence with my situation as i feel incredibly out of my depth that would be great!

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    Whilst I don't have any experience with that particular fantasty/role play - I am happy to say that you will not be the only couple who enjoys that kind of fantasy/play.

    As long as what you both do is safe and consensual between you both, you carry on with whatever works for you guys. I'm sure someone will be able to offer some specific tips and advice, but I just wanted to let you know that you are not strange - the daddy/daughter is a common trope in pornography and whilst it's not for everyone, there will be plenty of people who enjoy the 'fantasy'.

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    LadyS [sign in to see picture]
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    You are not alone in this type of roleplay. I don't do it myself, so can't offer any personal experiences. But I spend a lot of time on Fetlife and there are so many people enjoying this dynamic. Some just in the bedroom, some 24/7. But if it's safe, sane and consenual then there's no harm in it.

    I say if you like it, roll with it and see where it takes you x

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    It's not something I have an interest in doing, but as long as it's just a fantasy and nothing more I don't really see the harm. :)

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    There's loads of daddy / daughter porn porn out there so you're certainly not alone in this type of role play. As long as you're both happy with it and it turns you on then don't worry about it being wrong, on one's getting hurt and it's not like you're really doing it with a close relative, it's just fantasy.
    Fantasy/role play is great fun and you can indulge in stuff that you wouldn't even consider in real life.
    I would say if you both enjoy it then carry on, you're not strange at all!

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    Raven93 [sign in to see picture]
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    Having been in several Mummy/daughter etc relationships now, I can say there is nothing weird about it at all, it's generally mostly focused on the caring and loving aspect, which is pretty good for any relationship really.

    Just relax and have fun, what you are doing isn't hurting anyone and it certainly has nothing to do with actual incest. It can take a while to get used to it being normal but it's an easy enough mindset to change :)

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    Dunny&Smithy [sign in to see picture]
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    As long as you are both happy with such role play in your own home then you should not be worried, communication is key so if you have worries, talk to one another.

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    kittencub [sign in to see picture]
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    Dunny&Smithy wrote:

    As long as you are both happy with such role play in your own home then you should not be worried, communication is key so if you have worries, talk to one another.

    Agreed not my thing but we are all different on here.

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    DreamOfTheEndless [sign in to see picture]
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    Is the fantasy about an older guy and a younger woman or actual father and daughter?

    If the latter, I personally think it's a bit odd but, and this is important, it's no one else's business and if you're both happy and amenable to it, fill your boots!

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    Lorah13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Not my thing but as long as both parties are happy, and all is safe, sane, consensual and legal then go for it! :)

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    As long as your both happy, both adults and is consensual and legal ,then go for it, There is another more acceptable name for this type of role play but I forgot what it is now Doh!

    Don't forget eveyone is different :)

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    ChloeW96 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks guys! You've all been really helpful and have definitly put my mind at ease! :)

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    mrs.hiskett [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with above posts. As long as its safe, its legal ,consensual and you communicate tben your fine.if your look at underlining basis of the fantasy is about authority,innocence similiar to others like nun ,adult baby etc . Thi iis very common role play so dot feel wrong .the only time its wrong if it real incest but its mot as your pretending .also great way in discovering boundaries

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    I'll come back in on this and give Chloe more support and encouragement

    The rolepaly she refers to is no different than the school girl teacher role play.This is a roleplay scenario that most sex advise columns for both men and women include. In reality its illegal nuff said. In fanasy its perfectly legal because again you are age consenting adults , its consensual , legal by law( because of both parties over 18) and its safe ( as Mrs H includes) .

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    violetcreams [sign in to see picture]
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    First of all may I congratulate you on trying out fantasies and upon discovering something new that you enjoy!

    I have recently been speaking to a male interested in daddy-dom. Now this is something I haven't been asked to do before, I have previously been told to tell a man that he's 'the boss' over and over again but never 'Daddy'.

    After some research I have found in daddydom circles, as such, the word Daddy is viewed to have a different meaning and not Father as we know it to mean. The Daddy role symbolises both domination and a caring side. Your partner is clearly not your actual Father.

    As consentual adults as long as you are not hurting anyone and both feel comfortable, continue doing what makes you happy!

    Best of luck

    xx

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    ChloeW96 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you all so much for the support! It's lovely knowing that you all are so understanding and helpful! xx

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