• Anal stretching

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    CWGarrow92 [sign in to see picture]
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    Is there any way for a good permanent or long lasting stretched anus? I would just like for mine to be wider for easier prostate and butt play, the other day I was using LH realistic 8" dildo, it was long and thick and god it felt good deep in me, but it stretched my anus nicely as I wanted it to, but only for about 12 hours then went back to normal, any ideas?

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    paulsballs [sign in to see picture]
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    i think thats what an anus is ment to do unless you do perment damage which could lead to anal leakage and incontinece

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Your anus isn't meant to have a permanent gape. How about trying these to get a short term larger gape:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32787

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32786

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    Subdom27 [sign in to see picture]
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    Purring-Pussy wrote:

    Your anus isn't meant to have a permanent gape. How about trying these to get a short term larger gape:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32787

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32786

    This! Otherwise your poo would just fall out.
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    haggis 6969 [sign in to see picture]
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    I have this dildo http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31445
    Which i can get balls deep as they say but i also have this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27162

    And i cant seem to get the head in at all. I use the black one first which once it pops by the head is fine but as soon as i take it out and try the big boy it just wont go. Theres not a massive difference but i thought being stretched a bit would allow it in. Any suggestions??

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    jackjohn [sign in to see picture]
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    Lots of play and gradually increasing the size of your toys will allow you to gape and stretch and go back to normal afterwards. Becoming incontinent deliberately is an extreme lifestyle choice that shouldn't be entered into lightly. I've been playing for years with and without Mrs JJ. I now use 10 inch circumference toys and go back to normal afterwards. The best of both. Surely enjoying it without damaging yourself is key x

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    haggis 6969 [sign in to see picture]
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    I dont want to be incontinent. I just want to be able to fit the bigger of the two. I love the bleck one but i love the longer length of the other. I see on ur profile u have a ribbed dildo. Is that just a slow insertion and removal for the pop pleasure or do u slide it in and out like a normal dildo?? Intregued and thinkin about buying one. Bought an inflatable dildo for the gf but its not up for anal it jus inflates inside and out. Can buy an anal one but she doesnt really know i use the toys without her. We have the wee anal starter which is nice but i like it big.

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    Making your anus gape permanently, which can only be done by damaging vital tissue incidentally, is not quite the answer for easier anal play. Anal play involves warm up and stretching as part of play time, it's as simple as that.

    As you become more experienced you'll find yourself able to have a much faster 'warm up' phase, but this is to do with how relaxed you are and well you know your body NOT to do with how your anus gapes between plays. You will feel like you have easier access, so to speak, but not because you've forced your anus to stay open.

    Bottom line, being incontinent is far worse than having to take time to warm up.

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    Subdom27 wrote:

    Purring-Pussy wrote:

    Your anus isn't meant to have a permanent gape. How about trying these to get a short term larger gape:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32787

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32786

    This! Otherwise your poo would just fall out.

    LOLOLOLOL And you dont want that happening!

    Apart from that, just what others have said. The trick is to learn how to relax more quickly. My wife is much better at it then me, but then she has been doing it longer, I'm relatively new to it!

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    jackjohn [sign in to see picture]
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    Just keep persevering with the toys you have. One that's a challenging width and one that's a difficult length sounds fun. Eventually these will get easier and you can reward yourself with new challenges.

    Like others have said - warm up first and don't damage yourself. Blood or pain means stop. Lots of lube. You can't have too much.

    The small ribbed plug on the left (titanmen) used to be a challenge but is now a warm up and an all-day plug. Yes we can both use it like a smooth dildo. The 4 stage rocket is a beast that I might never tame. I use the first two bumps if I want that big stretch. The third is part of my current challenge at 10.5 inches.

    Be patient, be safe, have fun, lube lots.

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