• Slave and Humiliation Fetish Help.

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    PinkLucy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi

    I am new to this and didn't know where to begin finding out how to continue as a Mistress to a guy who is begging to be my slave. A Google search didn't help me at all so I thought maybe someone on this forum could assist me.

    I have never done anything like this before.

    We will not meet up or exchange explicit photos - it is as simple as: he wants to buy me stuff in return for verbal abuse.

    I don't know what things you are supposed to say, what do they like/not like and what do they want to hear?

    I feel silly repeating the same things again and again over message.

    Without breaking the rules here at Love Honey can someone give me ideas of what I can say.

    Thanks

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    Never know [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi, sorry I have no experience in this field but I'm sure someone here can help. I just wanted to say hi and welcome to the forums!

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes welcome to the forums. I think this is in the realms of specialist advanced stuff .

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    edwalu2 [sign in to see picture]
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    Read SM101: Second Edition by Jay Wiseman, that would be a good place to start.

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    PinkLucy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks so far, I'll look in to buying that book but I just wanted a few more words I coudl use on him.

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    LadyS [sign in to see picture]
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    Is he partial to being humliated about particular things? Like sexual performance etc or does any humiliation do the job?

    What sort of things are you already saying? If you think you can say on here.

    Is is general chat over time that involves this or is a specific time set aside? Just wondering if he could be set tasks ready for the next time you chat, so you could talk about how he didn;t do them properly or very well etc. Gives you a focus rather than just randomly telling him he's a no good, useless so and so

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    PinkLucy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi LadyS

    He just likes to be told he is ugly and worthless and alwasy wants me to comment on the way he looks as I do know what he looks like. We have never met and never will so I don't know about sexual performance humiliation I have never asked him sexual questions

    I just say he is worhtless, unimportant, ugly, pathetic but I wanted to use other words or expressions not repeat the same each time.

    It is general message chat when I want to, when I don't want to speak to him I tell him he will speak to me when he is spoken to.

    We have not spoken too much and I have not set him tasks as such. It has been more general chat how he wants to serve me and in return I can verbally abuse him as that is what he asks.

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    LadyS [sign in to see picture]
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    How about chucking in some of these words maybe:

    chickensh*t, pointless, insignificant, vile, depraved, repellent, loathsome, obscene, repulsive, repugnant - all mean the same as what you already say, but just different ways to say it.

    Maybe tell him some things he would never get to do because he'd be so rubbish at it. Maybe you have a pair of really dirty boots that need cleaning, but you need to find a better slave to do it, because he isn't worthy of cleaning your boots. I know it's all hypothetical, but might still work for him x

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    PinkLucy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for your help LadyS this is great help to me. Any more then please do send them my way but thank you thank you thank you for so far!

    :D

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    LadyS [sign in to see picture]
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    Aw you're most welcome, glad to be of service :) x

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    ScarletRose [sign in to see picture]
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    Welcome to the forums, and I second Lady S's advice... the thesaurus is a friend in these situations!

    You might also wanna research financial domination, which is sort of what you're doing, and I've also done something similar. Some Findoms do it on a much larger scale, but it might help you get into character to check out some profiles. There are quite a few twitter profiles of findoms, which would be a good place to start. If you search for godess or princess in twitter you should find a few.

    If you aren't very familiar with the fetish world in general, it may also help to check out Fetlfe, which is a social media site for kinky people of all types, you can definitely find some research material there.

    Hope that helps :)

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    PinkLucy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you also ScarletRose this is helpful too. I will have a search on Twitter now

    :) Thanks for all making me feel so welcome with such a random question.

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    ScarletRose [sign in to see picture]
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    We are all newbies once!

    :)

    Let us know how it's going :)

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