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    CheekyGirl18 [sign in to see picture]
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    Really want to try pegging with my dear husband but any advice on how to work him upto it, he has had surgery in past for bowel cancer so tenses up most of the time during finger play there. But recently I managed my thumb without any pain or discomfort. He very much loves his bum being played with.

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    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
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    Look at the LH beginners harness. The dildo is soft and unthreatening.

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    Lovehoney - Cazz [sign in to see picture]
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    This one here> http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28425 and some Anal lube is the best place to start and take it slow.

    smiley

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    CheekyGirl18 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks is there any better positions I.e doggy or on back? I much prefer anal on my back x

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    Tussilago [sign in to see picture]
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    I have no experience with pegging so you probably know as much as me but I think it might work better if he's on his back? I tjink you're more likely to stimulate his prostate since it's in the direction if the bellybutton and maybe the more intimate position and eye contact would help him ease into it. Plus if that's the position you prefer it could be easier for you to know what feels good for the reciever.

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    naughty-natalie7 [sign in to see picture]
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    my partner has recently decided he loves it. The first time i used a vibrator (not a strap on of any sort), he just lay on his side. didnt seem to case him pain of any sort, infact he didnt want me to stop! just remember plany of lube!!

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    john69 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm most of the time on my back when my wife is pegging me. As Tussilago writes, it's much more intimate. We look into each others eyes, she can easily play with my balls, perineum and penis and she sees when I'm close to coming which means she can push harder and faster or withdraw depending on her/our mood. She can also spank me while I'm keeping my legs up in the air.

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    john69 [sign in to see picture]
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    welcome to the forum Natalie7!

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    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
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    All the usual positions are possible. Just see which suits you both best.

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    naughty-natalie7 [sign in to see picture]
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    AsYouWish! wrote:

    All the usual positions are possible. Just see which suits you both best.

    Thankyou ! :)

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    mrs.hiskett [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh we just started to. Lots of lube and try doggy style but with him pressing his anal back on to what your using . This way he has control lessen some pain anxiety

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    CheekyGirl18 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for replies I guess I need to order some new toys to play with and try out on him hehe.

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    Sexkitten86 [sign in to see picture]
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    I really fancy this - but I'm not sure he is quite ready yet. He is an anal play novice. I think we will just try bigger and more advanced butt plus and toys until he is comfortable with them before we try this out.

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    BrumGuy [sign in to see picture]
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    Sexkitten86 The next time you embrace him from the rear, hold him tight and nibble his neck whilst slowly humping him. Then whisper that you've got the urge to do him like he does you.

    That's how it started with us.

    Good luck.

    Enjoy. x

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    Sexkitten86 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks BrumGuy. He is really enjoying butt plugs just now. So hopefully we can work up to this.

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    BrumGuy [sign in to see picture]
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    CheekkyGirl18 & Sexkitten86

    I find that a beaded probe or beaded dildo will relax my sphincter, just a few slow insertions will relax me and I'm ready for more.

    A must for every toy box.

    Enjoy. x

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    MrandMrsTush [sign in to see picture]
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    Have a look at http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=809 - it is very comfortable. TheGrittyWoman published a great review of it a year or so ago, worth reading!

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    CheekyGirl18 [sign in to see picture]
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    BrumGuy wrote:

    CheekkyGirl18 & Sexkitten86

    I find that a beaded probe or beaded dildo will relax my sphincter, just a few slow insertions will relax me and I'm ready for more.

    A must for every toy box.

    Enjoy. x

    Thanks hun. I will get a few small anal toys as well to work him up as he really enjiys me playing there so I know if he stops worrying about pain and lets go I will get my wicked way hehe x

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    Would try more fingers and toys before full on pegging, but if he likes the feel generally it won't take long for other things.

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    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
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    The LH beginners harness is probably the easiest toy to take anyway as it is smooth and the silicone is really soft. If he can take a finger and enjoy it the dildo is perfect.

    The difficulty will be trying to stop yourself pounding away like a porn star!

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