• Poppers for pegging...

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    soulqueen [sign in to see picture]
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    My husband is thinking of using poppers to make me pegging him easier and less painful for him, personally I don't like thought of trying it but he wants too as he found it quite painful last time we tried, is it any good? Or best without thanks 😊

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    No, he'll probably be too preocupied with his headache and feeling sick to want to peg at all. Plus their 'effects' last all of 2-5 minutes.

    Honestly it'd be better to just spend more time on foreplay, lubing up and relaxing (and possibly getting a smaller dildo to peg him with) rather than try look for a quick fix like poppers. They don't work, it's just solvent abuse really. Bad bad idea. 

    If he needs that psycological relaxer, he could have a little glass of wine or whatever alcohol? Don't get drunk, obviously, but it could help him relax?

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    That's why i don't want him to try it! But he said not to sniff just have in the room..can't see how that will work though..

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    Then it'll just be a harmless little air freshener really, if he thinks having one in the room would help then why not I guess. Mind over matter and all that :p

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    Hmm yes that could be it mind over matter, so do you think they have any effect just being in the room? Personally I'd rather us just have a drink and use plenty of lube that's how he's always expected me to have anal haha

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    Physically, no not so much. I think your plan holds more promise! But if it makes him feel better and he's not inhaling it, I don't think it'd do any harm having one.

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    soulqueen wrote:

    Hmm yes that could be it mind over matter, so do you think they have any effect just being in the room? Personally I'd rather us just have a drink and use plenty of lube that's how he's always expected me to have anal haha

    Do as you would be done ;-)

    Maybe relax him with a massage and some oral to start, move on to stroking his ass with a lubed finger that then slips in adding lots of lube. Get him warmed up and relaxed.

    Having read up on Isopropyl nitrate (poppers) out of curiosity I would discourage their use at all. "Eye Maculopathy visual impairment with central scotomata" sounds about as pleasant as a poke in the eye with a sharp stick whether you know what it means or not.

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    If he is finding it painful, you'd be better off doing much more foreplay than using poppers.

    Using loads (cant stress how much, the more the better !) of high quality lub, fingers, small toys (ideally for anal use - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539 is great for the varying sizes) although if you have some skinnier toys then try working up through the sizes - if I recall the first thing I ever tried was a "lady finger" style vibe http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=319 and thanks to the shape made entry quite easy.

    Not knowing what harness you have - You could possibly buy a smaller dong and work your way up again, or get something like this if you dont http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28425

    Obviously the best bet would also be for him to practice alone, work out what positions feel better, get used to the initial insertion, get used to the feeling and then be able to tell you what to do, slow down, gentler, faster or whatever.

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    Thanks all for suggestions, didn't get round to trying it weekend but going to try this weekend..,without the poppers 😊

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