• 3sum's where do you stand on them

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    Logan123 [sign in to see picture]
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    I have had them in the past and enjoyed same as my partner we discussed it the over day joking but sort of got me thinking can you do it and still gave a long term relation ship ???

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    Kimberleyking [sign in to see picture]
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    I've always wanted one but I would never want anyone to interfere with mine and fiancé's sex life

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    aanda [sign in to see picture]
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    weve had them,with both sexes, they are great,but youboth must begine with the right frame of mind, its not love just sex, if you can do that then have fun, if you cant then walk away

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Had them before I met hubby and enjoyed the experience but I was not in a relationship and it was just a but of no stings fun. Haven't even considered since being with hubby and wouldn't want to do anything with anyone but him. Not saying it wouldn't work for some people but definitely not for us.

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Right in the middle ;) its the best spot! Lol .

    On a serious note, it's no big deal as long as both people in the relationship agree and are comfortable with it.

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    Dick Dastardly [sign in to see picture]
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    Great Fantasy but in reality it could all get a bit messy! :)

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    Skitty [sign in to see picture]
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    Would love to have a threesome with another girl, but in reality pretty much impossible to find a nice single lady who wants to have fun with a couple when you're someone who doesn't know anyone. Considering hiring an escort for this purpose but that's slightly terrifying.

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    FantasyX [sign in to see picture]
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    Done a few, mainly playing around, but never full on sex. and the easiest way to put it is, if you or your partner honestly can't handle it.....don't do it. I done with both sexes, and the when it's for me (mff), i make sure my patner knows, she isn't overlooked by the other woman.At the same time, if I think my OH feels intimidated by the other woman, nothing happens and i call it off.

    When it was for her (MMF), i let her do what the hell she wanted, partly as a way of thanking her what she has done for me, but also because she wanted to be overwhelmed with attention from 2 men. So if you think of it like that, i suppose its a lot like role play?

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    VirginAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    For me personally it's a major no no. I see sex as something you only do with someone you are in love with and want to spend the rest of your life with, as a form of intimacy only they get. (i've kept my virginity for the man i wnt to marry and be with forever for this reason as i only ever want to even kiss one person).

    I couldn't share someone i love with someone else and couldn't stand someone else touching me, but i appreciate other people have different views and feelings, even if i can't personally understand it.

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    Josephine2112 [sign in to see picture]
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    Would love a threesome with a couple, or maybe a sexy single lady who would join me and my partner. Its definitely a fantasy i would like to explore in future.....

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    xluvnyax [sign in to see picture]
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    We had one about eight years ago (two years into the relationship) and it was great... except the other girl got a bit clingy after, which was unfortunate, as it would have made for a nice regular occurance we're still going strong, I think it was just important that we had a chat about it in advance, and as aanda said, remembering that it's just sex

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    Would love a mmf ,having the complete attention of two men is a favourite fantasy of mine . Don't think I could have a mff because I'd feel jealous and insecure .
    Basically threesomes will remain a fav fantasy .

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    Not for me.

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    Briona87 [sign in to see picture]
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    Not my cup of tea. If I ever have a partner, I am definitely not going to share. The more people in one bed, the more potential problems...

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    Miss'G-x [sign in to see picture]
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    FantasyX wrote:

    Done a few, mainly playing around, but never full on sex. and the easiest way to put it is, if you or your partner honestly can't handle it.....don't do it. I done with both sexes, and the when it's for me (mff), i make sure my patner knows, she isn't overlooked by the other woman.At the same time, if I think my OH feels intimidated by the other woman, nothing happens and i call it off.

    When it was for her (MMF), i let her do what the hell she wanted, partly as a way of thanking her what she has done for me, but also because she wanted to be overwhelmed with attention from 2 men. So if you think of it like that, i suppose its a lot like role play?

    Good answer, hope my hubby sees it like that.

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    Kitty_Blossom [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner and i have been swingers for 4 years and had the pleasure of threesomes. It was not out of the NEED for others but for the desire to share our intimacy with others. It is nothing to do with love and is purely for pleasure and friendship. We have never looked back and we still love and adore one another.

    You need to have the strength to overcome the possibility or jealousy or the possibility that it just isn't for you. It does not make your relationship weak.

    Hope you find as much pleasure as we have xx

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    lustyjoy [sign in to see picture]
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    Always taken my fancy as long as me and OH stick to dp.. im sure he would love mff as long he does not shag her and I would love mmf as often wish I had a cock in my mouth when oh fucking me. But certainly no fucking additional partners I think it would cause huge jealously issues.... rules would need to laid down and a far bit of alcohol to lol xx

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    mr sp [sign in to see picture]
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    Skitty wrote:

    Would love to have a threesome with another girl, but in reality pretty much impossible to find a nice single lady who wants to have fun with a couple when you're someone who doesn't know anyone. Considering hiring an escort for this purpose but that's slightly terrifying.

    Terrifying or extremely exiting. Seize the moment.

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    mr sp [sign in to see picture]
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    I had one years ago before i got married. It was myself my oh and her female friend. Basically the conversation turned to inuendos, i called their bluff then they called mine. Mutual consent all round and some good memories of that day too.

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    LilHorror [sign in to see picture]
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    I have had 2 threesomes before, one was a MMF and the other FFF. They were both a lot of fun and have not affected our friendship. If anything it has brought us closer together. I enjoy them. If everyone is happy and sure that they want to take part then why not? :)

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