• Do women watch porn ?

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all. I watch porn and so does my hubby. Sometimes, if I'm really horny and he's at work I get myself off watching it - he does the same. Occassionally we watch it and masterbate together.

    Somehow this came up in conversation with a group of my girlfriends while we were having lunch, god knows how....lol

    Anyway they were horrified - all agreed that men do 'that' and not women - a couple actually called me disgusting :(

    Why is it socially acceptable and almost expected that men watch and masterbate whilst watching porn but us ladies, no, no, no, we're not allowed to do that ?

    Any other ladies out there gonna admit to this and how do you guys feel about this ?

    xx

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    Anonymous Lady [sign in to see picture]
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    I enjoy watching porn, mostly on my own time, but sometimes with OH. He's fine with it. Also, most of my female friends watch porn. Nothing to be "judgy" about.

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes... Yes... Yes! I'm the same as you :) i watch it alone, he watches it alone, we watch it together! It's no big deal really. It gets you going! Love me some porn! Lol x

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    GeekyEleanor [sign in to see picture]
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    I do. The OH knows, he watches it too. No sweat about it. We live quite far apart and it's not like we have a regular sex life because of distance and we have to deal with our needs by ourselves. Porn, erotic literature, even smutty fanfictions on my part, he's OK with it.

    Most of my female friends watch porn, there's absolutely nothing strange about it. There still a little bit of a stigma about it, but it's gonna wear off, with time. Or at least I think.

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    Grace1ess [sign in to see picture]
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    Sarahgee wrote:

    Yes... Yes... Yes! I'm the same as you :) i watch it alone, he watches it alone, we watch it together! It's no big deal really. It gets you going! Love me some porn! Lol x

    +1 same goes here
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    pinkanimal [sign in to see picture]
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    yes we both do it. Theres nothing wrong with it. I don't understand women who say they hate porn and don't want their partners watching it.

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    MistressItaliana [sign in to see picture]
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    Both me and the OH watch porn separately and together sometimes; we live far apart so we both need to do something to keep our high horny levels under somewhat of a control!

    However, because of my age, I don't know any of my female friends who watch porn or admit to it - so it's never a topic of conversation.

    I don't think it's disgusting for women to watch porn - sex is as much of a turn on for guys as it is for us girls! :) x

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    GeekyEleanor [sign in to see picture]
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    pinkanimal wrote:

    yes we both do it. Theres nothing wrong with it. I don't understand women who say they hate porn and don't want their partners watching it.

    I had a friend that was like this. She practically blackmailed her boyfriend at the time: if he wanted to have sex with her he had to give up porn. It made no sense to me, really. No wonder we lost contact after a while, she was really mean to him. I don't even know if they're still together or what.

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    I put my hands up I have done in the past... But I blame him for not giving me any :p x

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    LadyS [sign in to see picture]
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    I watch porn, all kinds of porn, never had a partner than wanted to do it with me, but I would do it together. My female playmate also watches porn. I don't see why it should be an issue to people x

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    KeptLocked [sign in to see picture]
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    My Oh doesn't. She has seen it once or twice but she says it doesn't do anything for her.

    We've also watched a couple of erotic mainstream films together but they are very hit and miss as far as having any 'turn on' effect on her.

    She's also tried erotic books -but no joy there either!

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    Skitty [sign in to see picture]
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    I watch porn. Mostly with my partner but sometimes alone if I'm ever not with him and the mood takes me.

    I've been told that it's disgusting before, but that was by a man rather than women. I have to say I disagree though. I don't see a problem with porn at all.

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    Minkish Minx [sign in to see picture]
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    Yup, I watch porn! I actually tend to be attracted to the women more than the men in those videos though. Methinks I have some bi tendencies. XD I also love erotic literature, I spend way too much time on literotica. 

    I'm sorry you had such a reaction from your friends! My friends are pretty similar. So far, only one has admitted to watching porn, but still, I can't imagine them being as judgemental. I don't watch stuff with my boyfriend because I have deep seated insecurities and don't want to provoke them, lol. I know, I know, it's silly to get jealous over that porn actress that arouses even me but I always find myself worrying that he'd find parts of me inadequate in comparison.

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    Terraflare [sign in to see picture]
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    i guarentee at least one of your 'friends' you were with wacthes porn too, alot more people do than would ever dare to admit it, good on you for being so open about it and sorry you had a negative experience about it.

    and yes i do watch it myself! :)

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    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
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    I watch porn more than my boyfriend, we've watched it together but he isn't really interested so I watch it on my own a few times a week ^_^ Most of my friends are guys and they were shocked saying I watch it more than they do but they think it's funny, don't listen to your friends, it's most liekly one of them watches it too but seeing how the opthers reacted didn't want to be on the receiving end x

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    Subdom27 [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife watches porn. Nothing to be ashamed of. I bet all of your friends who showed disgust had done it before, but didn't want to admit it!

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    RubyDarling [sign in to see picture]
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    When I met my man, I was 20 and I had never watched any porn, I was not very interested in it. He suggested we could watch some together so I could see what it was, but I found it boring and not exciting at all. Maybe it was the film he chose, maybe it was not the right time, I couldn't say.

    Now I'm older, I enjoy watching a short film from time to time when I'm alone, but my man doesn't know. I'l probably tell him someday but for now, it's my little secret

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Every time I mastubate, can't get off without it. Sometimes watch it with OH not much though, I think he watches it a bit too

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    Binxx [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes!!! Haven't most people?! Even if they seem horrified human nature and curiosity means they would still look. It's nothing to be ashamed of. I used to be but now it's just the norm. Gets your blood going and keeps things interesting.

    I find I prefer watching women, something about watching a woman climax is just a sight to behold! I've also learnt a few things about myself off the bat, so don't be ashamed!!!

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    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    To be honest, I think men who say they don't want to watch porn with their partners just say that because they are afraid they are walking into a TRAP! As if their lady is going to then go off on a rant about how they can't believe they were going to do that! 😂

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