• What helps get you going?

    C6J16 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya, new on here and just bought a couple of basic toys to get me started.
    Seem to have lost my mojo a bit and want to know what gets you all going and mega horny?

    kittencub [sign in to see picture]
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    To be honest my fantasies or stories or watching my crushes.

    welshgooner [sign in to see picture]
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    Role play and dressing up. Being tied up and blindfolded. To name but a few.

    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    Same here, love the above but when I'm on my own I just close my eyes and lose myself in a fantasy while using whatever toy takes my fancy. Also watching porn or reading erotic stories :)

    SR36 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and welcome to the forum. I'm sure being on here and experimenting will help you to rediscover your mojo.

    Lot's of things get me going - trying a new toy that I find interesting-looking on here, watching porn, reading erotica, and sending dirty messages to the man in my life.

    I think the key is to keep it varied- avoid settling into monotonous routines, variety is the spice and all that....best of luck!

    Subdom27 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello and welcome! Mine is definitely reading erotic literature. I get lost in the story, then end up horny as hell!

    Sarahgee [sign in to see picture]
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    Tell me about it love! I thought i was losing my mojo. Had sex twice yesterday, first time i just couldn't cum at all! Second time , still nothing. I thought my vagina was broken lol. So in the end he just spoke dirty to me while I masturbated and that did the trick. I love dirty talk.

    LilHorror [sign in to see picture]
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    I love having some 'Me' time before we begin with any foreplay. Nobody knows your body like you do so it always helps you get the motors running beforehand with a little solo play. :)

    sassykitten;) [sign in to see picture]
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    Erotic books I found out recently. ?. Sexting.... and plain n simplr my bf I don't think the whole time we have been together ive ever been so moist down there, he doesn't even have to do anything ... cant explain why ..

    SexiBexi13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Lesbians do it for me.

    Particularly a very close friend of mine, who is bi and we occasionally get together ;)

    Corset_is [sign in to see picture]
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    Anal and talking dirty to my man, not being a dom or anything but just saying dirty stuff to him while we make love, he loves it too.

    QB [sign in to see picture]
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    Reading erotica does it for me, haven't taken to porn. And putting in Ben wa balls which all though I don't find directly stimulating do make me more aware of my lady bits. And discussing sex with a stranger on Tinder! You'll get your mojo back hanging around this site it's done wonders for me

    Gadget girl [sign in to see picture]
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    I lost my mojo for a long time, didn't have sax for almost two years, during that time I even told my hubby I didn't think if ever want sex again, didn't even play alone!
    Then one day out of the blue it came back, with a vengeance! I just can't get enough. On Saturday we had morning sex, then I gave him a BJ while he had a bath then Saturday night I was waiting for him, sexy undies and butt plug ready for when he got home. I've always liked rough sex but I'm more into it than ever at the moment, being restrained and slapped, his hands around my throat.Anal play is a favourite of mine, like porn sometimes but not the 'porn star' crap with dried up wrinkly pussies that have to be lubed every two minutes because she obviously isn't enjoying it!
    I text my hubby Sunday early evening whilst I was in the bath with a big dildo in my arse and told him I was having a very naughty bath! His reply was 'does that mean I'm going to get a full nights sleep tonight' 😩
    He just keeps saying I've changed, I wish I knew what it was as I'd bottle it incase my mojo starts to slip again. The trouble is women can go without for what ever reason and it all too easily becomes the norm. So please keep trying to find 'what does it for you and don't loose your sex drive. Open your mind and try new things
    The other thing I found really erotic is sex chat, with a stranger, knowing that a bloke is pleasuring himself and you can make him cum with your words is really horny.

    sassykitten;) [sign in to see picture]
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    Glad you got it back gadget girl :) I lost mine but now im getting back to normal hopefully staying this way, specially now me n the bfs getting back after a months break :P x

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