• Should I tell her

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    CutieCurious [sign in to see picture]
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    Is oral the only thing she seems to avoid doing, or are you also asking for other types of foreplay and being rejected?

    If it's just going down on you that she is avoiding, it may just be that one specific thing she doesn't want to do, and is making excuses rather than just communicate about it.

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    Badcc67 [sign in to see picture]
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    Maybe she is not getting enough out of it. If she was she would perhaps be more keen to give more. Maybe she is shy or embarrased. Tell her intimately that your aim is to enhance your relationship. Do not make it about you as that can cause resentment.

    Have you tried a penis pump? It will help you last longer and also let her know that you are concerned about her own needs. Also get a magic wand for her and use liberally. Hopefully she will be more eenthusiastic after a few successful sessions.

    Good luck.

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