• Lights on or off?

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    xM&Mx [sign in to see picture]
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    Which do you prefer?

    Sometimes I want nothing more than to see my man. Other times I want a complete blackout, to feel more and hear more in the darkness that is oh so sexy. It seems to heighten everything. Thoughts?

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    on

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    LilHorror [sign in to see picture]
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    I prefer the light off. I get self consious when I know my OH can see me enjoying myself! Haha.

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    JuicyJ89 [sign in to see picture]
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    either, but I like to have the lights off and he curtains open at night so you can half see what is happening... it really turns me on!

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    On if I'm feeling good or we're having extended play. Off if I'm in any way down, as my self image plummets too and I can't bear my OH to see me.

    Agree that the sensory play is fun too, though usually we'd do that with a blindfold so someone can see what is happening to avoid accidents haha (way too many trip hazards in our house!) :)

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    GlamRockChick [sign in to see picture]
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    On usually but off during a full moon or thunder storm with the curtains open!

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    Grace1ess [sign in to see picture]
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    GlamRockChick wrote:

    On usually but off during a full moon or thunder storm with the curtains open!

    +1

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    GodsInAnAlcove [sign in to see picture]
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    We prefer on, but not the main light, an abajur it's enough to see each other. And you can close your eyes at any time if you wanna feel yourself.

    :)

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    Hopelessly Horny [sign in to see picture]
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    xM&Mx wrote:

    Which do you prefer?

    Sometimes I want nothing more than to see my man. Other times I want a complete blackout, to feel more and hear more in the darkness that is oh so sexy. It seems to heighten everything. Thoughts?

    +1 Sometimes the dark increases everything but dark with the curtains open is also a turn on

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    LittleSwitchBitch [sign in to see picture]
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    Grace1ess wrote:

    GlamRockChick wrote:

    On usually but off during a full moon or thunder storm with the curtains open!

    +1

    +2 :)
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    Mr_J [sign in to see picture]
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    On (unless al fresco, lit by candle light, or howling at the moon as above).

    Mind you, if I've already seen you ten thousand times and you still think a paleo diet means gorging yourself on cake... :p

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    I prefer the light to be dimmed if possible, or just a small side lamp on. Don't wanna do it in the dark, but too much bright light gives me headache

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    johnandkatie [sign in to see picture]
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    either deponds on the mood

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    By flickering candle light is good too

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    Love candlelight, its very flattering! I also like dark because it makes any sounds more sexy :)

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    Jrok [sign in to see picture]
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    Of course the mood dictates but most times we have a small dim lamp on. It casts light shadows and creates a feel of being sneaky. We use candle light every once in a while, which is perfectly sensual especially when a little wax fun is in order. Only time the lights are all off is when things start in the dark spontaneously and we can't pull ourselves apart.

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    Jrok [sign in to see picture]
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    Of course the mood dictates but most times we have a small dim lamp on. It casts light shadows and creates a feel of being sneaky. We use candle light every once in a while, which is perfectly sensual especially when a little wax fun is in order. Only time the lights are all off is when things start in the dark spontaneously and we can't pull ourselves apart.

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    Jrok [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry for the double post, accidental and don't know how to remove.

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    WillC [sign in to see picture]
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    I have installed a remote control dimmer switch in our bedroom,so we can take the lights down to a nice warm glow,with just enough light so i can see my wife`s great body(as a typical woman she has body issues,so the dimmed light keeps us both happy),we also light candles.The switch can also use an unused button on any tv/dvd remote to learn the dimmer operations,and can be manually operated from the actual wall switch.

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Dimmed, I like to see him and we look into each others eyes a lot but bright light is distracting and off putting, I do close my eyes a lot too

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