• 5 weeks to learn how to squirt

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    awakenbyguiltypleasures [sign in to see picture]
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    Right, I have a new partner and we talked about squirting last night. I love watching it in porn and really want to try it with him but I just can't seem to let myself go enough to do it. We are planning a romantic weekeend for the end on November so that's my goal to learn and be comfortable doing it. Any tips or help, please?

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Get a good G-Spot toy, there are many on here. You need to relax completely and just let go.

    Have a read of this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2007/09/06/female-ejaculation-how-to-squirt/

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    truegrace [sign in to see picture]
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    Relaxing is the key, I think if your trying too hard there will be too much pressure to actually do it and not happen. Also don't necessarily expect it shooting out in a fountain as you always see in porn as this isn't always the case!

    Just push past the needing to wee urge (and make sure you have been before hand so you know it is just an urge!) and just let yourself go.

    A towel underneath you is always handy as well, as it can end up a bit wet!

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    Lilprincess [sign in to see picture]
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    As truegrace has said you need to be relaxed and don't expect a water fountain straight away. A towel is definitely a good idea too, the first time it happened to me I didn't squirt just gushed but managed to soak half the bed lol
    I didn't need much g-spot stimulation but my OH was flicking my clit really fast while holding me still and I just exploded. Since then I've found that when he ties me up/restrains me it seems to happen more easily, i think the feeling of being helpless and unable to stop him from playing with me makes me even hornier.

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    MattB [sign in to see picture]
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    Go to the toilet first.

    From what I understand of such things, the worry about (a) peeing and (b) making a mess is what contributes to a lot of the failure to relax.

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    Don_Don [sign in to see picture]
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    Read up on it alot, even watch a few videos online, the come hitter technique is the best, and I'd reccomend the nJoy Pure Wand, I learnt how to make my wife squirt with my fingers first... now with the nJoy a couple of minutes and it's flowing.

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    pinkanimal [sign in to see picture]
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    some people can't even manage it after trying for a long time.

    5 weeks is nothing imo.

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    Lupina [sign in to see picture]
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    Having something underneath you to soak up any mess helps relax, also pee before! Then you KNOW you can push past the pee feeling. You know when its squirting cause it literally shoots. If you pee it'll just dribble out and you won't notice unless you're worrying about it but if you're worrying then you need to relax!

    G-spot toys are good but for me its just being able to focus on what feels good and not having any worries. There is research saying that what causes the best orgasms and most pleasure isn't more good stimulation, its taking out the bad stimulation like stress and pain.

    So if you squirt, you squirt. And if you don't, just have fun on your sexy trip! x

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    Fitnessfreak [sign in to see picture]
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    Sounds like a fun 5 weeks enjoy yourself :)

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    Nice hot bath before hand.

    I find it every hard to do myself. But once you manage to do it once you will know how to do it again, almost like riding a bike. I would say try with your oh, he will be able to reach deeper and feel where he needs to go. You will soon get the hang of it :) x

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    Lupina [sign in to see picture]
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    Also I don't know about 'Learning' it cause I never know until seconds before and then I see it shoot up into the air and I'm like 'oops' so its pretty much random not something I can choose! A lucky (Or not if there's no towel beneath me) surprise!

    But anyway - Good Luck <3 x

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    Hun [sign in to see picture]
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    I wanted to try this with my oh and have tried a few times but I have had no success. Do I guess from the previous comments that you need to almost push down during the heightened sensation (hence the need to pee before)?

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    awakenbyguiltypleasures [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi everyone, thanks for the support, a lot of you have hit the nail on the head. I'm going to try and put a towel down to get rid of some of the fear and I think possibly try the bath idea to help me relax.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/members/purring-pussy-2/, thank you for the link, I didn't even know there was such a devise, I am going to road test it for sure :)

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    awakenbyguiltypleasures [sign in to see picture]
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    that was meant to say purring-pussy, not the link again lol

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    #Dana [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi.
    Your not the only one I'm in the same boat and curious.
    My oh and I have tried it with his fingers for the
    First time the other night and I didn't squirt but it
    Was very squelchy and the bed sheet very damp.
    But were in no rush but in five weeks your get there. X

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