• incorporating porn into play time with OH

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    Hen Night Toad [sign in to see picture]
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    Does anyone enjoy watching porn with their OH and have you incorporated it into your mutual play time? Partner used to hate the idea as she felt the attention was owed to her not on the porn and n. However I have spoken to people who seem to enjoy this wih their OH;s as a couple? Would be interested in other peoples actual experience of this.

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    Occasionally we'll put some porn on to 'get us going'. It's not a major part of our playtime, but sometimes it's nice to just kick back and masturbate together.

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    I'm not a lover of porn. If I'm massively horny I will listen to it while I masturbate but I rarely watch. We don't use it as a couple very often because I've had the OH actually stop what he was doing to me at a crucial moment a few times so that he could watch what was being done to the women on screen.

    As you can imagine, stopping just before I cum and letting it fade away pissed me right off so now it's a birthdays and Christmas thing :)

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    We have done, OH isn't massively keen though

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    duckandbunny79 [sign in to see picture]
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    Watching Porn whilst fucking is not so much about watching porn.

    For us we may use it as a starting point, but equally we may read an adult story from a sex site.

    It's not something we need to have sex, but neither are hot panties or a smart shirt and tie, but sometimes it's nice to vary it up.

    So it could just be something to start us off, or it could be something to have running in the background. It's not like we can go swinging as and when, so porn allows us to have that atmosphere of others having sex around us.

    Also with the Mrs being bi, it's not like she can go playing with other women when she feels like it but she can watch lesbian porn when ever she fancies it. Same goes for 4somes and more somes.

    However, not all people enjoy porn, for me I can switch off and treat it like any other fiction, others see it as debasing or degrading for the actors. I tend to agree with low budget stuff, but amature or high production quality, I can say they are either doing it for the enjoyment or the money in my own mind. Both of which are acceptable. There are plenty of people out there doing jobs they don't like just for the money. But I would be more comfortable with it if there was less drug dependancy in the porn world.

    Sorry to chuck some cold water in there, but for some the fact that there is an element of need for the porn money beyond just making a living will put them off watching someone perform.

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    DreamOfTheEndless [sign in to see picture]
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    As above, we use it a lot as part of our foreplay. It has to be on her terms though: something not too hardcore; usually lesbian; amateur if we can find it; genuine orgasms; nothing with girls who look too young etc

    I think a good rule of thumb is to be careful not to let it become the star of the show and know when to switch it off and focus on each other.

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    Troubled Joe [sign in to see picture]
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    Mrs Mozz and I have certainly used it in the past on occasion. It's useful as a warm-up or if she's giving me a tug when she's "out of action". It's not something we do often, she's not all that bothered with it, but she can't deny it warms her up nicely when we do watch.

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Have tried to use porn as part of sexual encounters with my OH, but I'm a nightmare for saying "oh I like that bedding", or "look at her nails" etc etc. I'd rather read erotica and lose myself in a fantasy.

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