• Anal beginner moving on

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    Richy [sign in to see picture]
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    So, me and the OH started to indulge in Anal and she is starting to like it, really intensifying her orgasms.

    We started with the slimline butt plug and she took that well, although a new experience she became accustomed to it well after minimal pain (she's pretty tight)

    We've then moved upto the following- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772

    she loves this and it's slightly bigger than the slimline and again persevering she takes this well again with little pain when done slowly. She has to have clit stim though at the same time.

    so I also got the following - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16748 which seems massive in comparison, the other night I moved on to this, well lubbed, but she couldn't take it, causing her pain. I stopped of course and took it out, she'd got about 2/3rds in her. I fingered her and she was definitely looser and more relaxed.

    Anyhow what I'm really asking us there any more tips, we've tried my cock, after the middle vibrating plug and again she screamed it was too painful so I stopped clearly. I'm not massive but I'm not small.

    I'm hoping with the doc Johnson in her mind us going to be blown as she will feel so full with my cock up her pussy as well. Then it will open her up for my cock as well.

    Thoughts and tips welcome!

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    scorpiosami [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm afraid I'm not help for you but this is helpful for me!! Me and the OH have the small bionic t-bar vibrating plug and that was my first. It's amazing and like you say it took time and a couple of attempts to fit. Sounds like we're similar to you two. He's above average and I think my muscles are a bit tight. We've tried anal after using the plug or when I've felt more relaxed to his fingers but with no luck so far. We've bought maximus lube which is the best thing I've ever used!! And obvously taking everything slowly but I wish we could speed it along a bit.

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    Richy [sign in to see picture]
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    Interesting, yeah sounds similar, I'm so pleased my OH loves it now as she was a bit anti before but we do it nearly everytime we have sex although I want her to do it to me but she's not so keen. Think the messy element puts her off. Whereas if she can't see it and I'm dealing she's fine.

    I also bought this- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13333 but it's far to flared yet to try this.

    but she gets on very well with this I bought as well - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=23981

    its just getting to the next step...not sure she's up for wearing a butt plug around the house to loosen her up, she only likes the butt love after a good pussy turn on and workout....

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    The only tip I can give is to be patient and listen to your bodies. Pain is a signal that your body has reached a limit.

    Dont forget the sphincter is a muscle and can be stretched when warmed up and relaxed, just like stretching to touch your toes or do the splits.

    It wont happen over night, but keep at it and respect your body's limits and you will get there.

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    KiwiKeen [sign in to see picture]
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    Agreed with "Just Jenson" pain can be pleasurable but know your limits! You don't want to damage anything! Taking it nice and slow is the best.

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    Richy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks all, we tried again last night and after quite a lot of butt play and various of those toys up there we tried the doc Johnson again which almost went up this time but not quite. We then tried my cock and she did very well taking my head easily in her butt.

    but she again said she wasn't comfortable and just thinks my cock is to big. Hey ho we will keep persevering. Defo felt her ass loosened up more last night for sure!

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Just Jenson wrote:

    The only tip I can give is to be patient and listen to your bodies. Pain is a signal that your body has reached a limit.

    Dont forget the sphincter is a muscle and can be stretched when warmed up and relaxed, just like stretching to touch your toes or do the splits.

    It wont happen over night, but keep at it and respect your body's limits and you will get there.

    +1 totally agree that you really have to take your time and go slowly, any sign of pain stop immediately. Make sure you use plenty of good quality anal lube too.

    I've heard great things about this book, which may also be helpful to you :) x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1554

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    SR36 [sign in to see picture]
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    I've heard great things about this book, which may also be helpful to you :) x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1554

    +1- I have this book, and it's brilliant!

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