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    Hot & Spicy [sign in to see picture]
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    Does anyone Sex text their OH? Do they sex text you?

    Does it turn them & you on?

    i would love to do it to my OH but I am not sure he would get it. What do you think? Should I just do it anyway?

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    pinkanimal [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah he's better than me lol
    Sometimes I shock him by being more ruder than I normally would. Best one was "get some wet dog food, oh and I want a good f**$$$g later too" pmsl

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    kc. [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes we do send sex texts between each other andd yes you should try. Perhaps if you are unsure how he may react start low key and suggest that you are feeling rather horny and looking forward to seeing him. You can the gauge his reaction and willingness based upon the type of reply you get.

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    magicnumber69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Being in a long-distance relationship, it's the only way we can express ourselves. However, due to the expense of texting overseas, we use Skype instead and we do get off on each other's messages sometimes. Just saying that we've been thinking of one another and we started thinking naughty thoughts is enough to get us aroused sometimes. Then we start to push each other's buttons, saying what we'd like to do to each other.

    As others have said, ease into it with your OH; send a relatively innocuous text and end it by saying something like you really miss them and wish they were with you right NOW (writing NOW in uppercase, to stress the urgency) and see where it leads.

    Until I met my current gf, I never really considered sexting as a particularly loving thing, but it just maintains that bond of love and intimacy and let's them know that, even when you're apart, you want them and you want them to feel good.

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    magicnumber69 wrote:

    Being in a long-distance relationship, it's the only way we can express ourselves. However, due to the expense of texting overseas, we use Skype instead and we do get off on each other's messages sometimes. Just saying that we've been thinking of one another and we started thinking naughty thoughts is enough to get us aroused sometimes. Then we start to push each other's buttons, saying what we'd like to do to each other.

    As others have said, ease into it with your OH; send a relatively innocuous text and end it by saying something like you really miss them and wish they were with you right NOW (writing NOW in uppercase, to stress the urgency) and see where it leads.

    Until I met my current gf, I never really considered sexting as a particularly loving thing, but it just maintains that bond of love and intimacy and let's them know that, even when you're apart, you want them and you want them to feel good.

    Have you considered getting What's App? (If your phone will allow it) It's a free text, picture, audio and video messaging service (Depends on the OS) I think on Iphones you pay a price to download it, it's free for the first year on Andriod and then 60p thereabouts for the next year, if uses the internet - so either your wifi or 3g.

    I'm in a LDR too and I couldn't be without that for texting my OH.

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    snapper [sign in to see picture]
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    Always texting my little lady with what I'd like to do too and with her unfortunately life gets in the way and we very rarely get to for fill the promises . And while my better half is more than willing to partake in the action she very rarely replies in the same vein . But I still enjoy it even after over 11 years

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    Lauren95 [sign in to see picture]
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    As I'm in a long distance relationship, it really spices things up!

    Usually I'd shock him, especially if I've gone to work for the day and he's over visiting, I'll send him a naughty text basically telling him he better be prepared for me when I get home. :) I'll use uppercase when I'm really in the mood, defnitely shocks him. ;)

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    LittleSwitchBitch [sign in to see picture]
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    Yup we do all the time... Esp when I'm at work and I pounce in him when I get home... :) we send pics and all lol... X

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    Kittyondrugz [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes,all the time,I think it's a lot of fun and it turns us both on.

    I think that you should go with something light and sexy to see how he takes it and then go for the hotter stuff.

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    butterflybee [sign in to see picture]
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    I've done this with previous partners and found it really good for building the mood. I'd text something relatively tame shortly before he'd finish work and then build it up from there as he was on his way home etc. Then we would both be in the perfect mood and very turned on when he arrived.
    It's great fun and as others have said, it really builds the bond between you both.

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    magicnumber69 [sign in to see picture]
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    FrozenAngel wrote:

    magicnumber69 wrote:

    Have you considered getting What's App? (If your phone will allow it) It's a free text, picture, audio and video messaging service (Depends on the OS) I think on Iphones you pay a price to download it, it's free for the first year on Andriod and then 60p thereabouts for the next year, if uses the internet - so either your wifi or 3g.

    I'm in a LDR too and I couldn't be without that for texting my OH.

    Don't know if you were specifically directing that at me, FrozenAngel, but yes, I tried What's App on my previous phone and it practically ate all my internal storage! I may consider it as another option, now I have a new phone with a greater capacity, but Skype is serving us well, by and large and we can still use it on our mobiles.

    As much as I hate tech sometimes, I know I'd be a lot lonelier without it. And I think my gf would say the same.

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    Monkeysnacks [sign in to see picture]
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    I find it easier to text naughty things than to actually say them out loud so it's a good way of expressing your kinkier side without blushing. As others have said, start out with something just a little bit suggestive and see if he "bites" as it were. ;)

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    Use kik..you can send pics and.bids free via that..
    I found that sexting quite liberating.... Especially after a 20 yr relationship with my ex..and mobile phone were not really around in those days.
    Now single....sexting has been a revelation....enjoy

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    Use kik..you can send pics and.bids free via that..
    I found that sexting quite liberating.... Especially after a 20 yr relationship with my ex..and mobile phone were not really around in those days.
    Now single....sexting has been a revelation....enjoy

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    LuvToysnGals [sign in to see picture]
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    I've been on the receiving end of sexting. Guy at work started sending many texts to me. Texts he meant to send to his OH. Was very embarassed when I asked him to stop sending them to me.

    Moral of this story: make sure you don't send sexts to the wrong person

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    M-J [sign in to see picture]
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    We sex text all the time. It fun & can definitely help to build the mood. Also, having kids running around the house it means that we can say some very naughty thing without little ears hearing.
    If you're not sure how your oh will react I would start off with something like "feeling horny, wish you were here....." And wait for the response ;-)

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    I may have sent him a suggestive photo or two in the past, but it's not something we really do. If he wanted to do it, I wouldn't be adverse though.

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    jayandrach [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my OH do it even though we are always together (Joys of running a business from home) but find it a turn on and have been doing it for years.

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    We never really do it, the extent is about "babe I'm horny I need sex!!" I think I tried it once and OH didn't like it so I just left it

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    Petrichor [sign in to see picture]
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    I find the easiest way to introduce it is to send texts that are just about sex, rather than texts that are trying to be sexy. I don't think you can go wrong with compliments like how amazing last night was, or how much you liked that thing they did. I've also sent fake-complaining ones, like about how I can't sleep for thinking about how sexy they are. Depending on feedback, I see where it goes from there. Because they're fairly tame, you don't run the risk of your partner really NOT being in to it the same as something more explicit.

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