• Cumming on my Oh

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    againstleon [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my gf have been together 4+ years. I've never cum on her and really want to. she can be shy about kinky things and I try to talk to her but she tries to shy away from talking about things she wants to do.

    I feel like I've left it too long now, what you think?

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    SR36 [sign in to see picture]
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    Nah, I think it's never too late. If anything, you guys should be pretty close and it's important to discuss things you like to do to each other to keep the sex exciting and new.

    Is there really no way she'll discuss it? What if you have a conversation where you both say something you'd like, maybe if you go first and start small, she'll gain a bit more confidence...

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    Ray-Belle [sign in to see picture]
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    Seems there has been a few posts about partners who are to shy to try something and even shy away from even talking about it. But one thing to remember is... it's never to late to try something!

    Communication is a huge part of a relationship as well as a huge part of sex. The best thing I can do is encourage you to talk to her. Maybe a casual conversation that doesn't start out with " Hey, I want to cum on you. " But talk about your sex life in general. Maybe ask her things that she wants to try.

    A lot of people blush and shy away from their desires because they think it's embarrassing. Reassuring her that you are okay hearing what she has to say with an open mind is really important.

    If you can get her to open up and say things she wants to try have a switch off. Where you take turns trying each others fantasies!

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    LittleSwitchBitch [sign in to see picture]
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    Could use a game where talk bout fantasies and bring it up that way :) that's how I brought mine...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29534

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    Ray-Belle [sign in to see picture]
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    it posted twice... sorry

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    We was In the same boat. As above said games are a brill way to get it all out. Just like your partner I was very shy once, we got the monogamy game after a year together and our sex life's have gone to a whole new level ever since. It turns out we was into the exactly same thing and just didn't know it. If you like a drink and naughty yummy nibbles it's perfect. A right laugh too. Let us know how u get it.

    Like they say better late than never :) good luck x

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    Fitnessfreak [sign in to see picture]
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    just talk dirty to her during sex and say you want to cum all over her boobs see her reaction if it turns her on you will know then go for it :)

    Face etc is something a lot of women wont like and your see in porn a lot, normally boobs and lower belly are fine :)

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