• Size of ones manhood.

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    Hezzah [sign in to see picture]
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    Ladies, or men of a certain disposition...

    Does the size of a mans package really mean that much? im just a little over 6 inches, and quite often feel insecure about my size, my OH has told me that this is plenty for her, but personally when i've had toys used on me i've found i allways want bigger!

    I know this probably comes across as a little bit pathetic, but i just want some honest answers about whether or not my paranoia is justified.

    Thanks all, Hen xx

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    I like my men with average length and girth.

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Size barely matters. As long as you're at least 3 inches and not a monster you can please a woman. Anal play is different. There isn't a really sensitive wall 4 inches into your bum, you can go really deep anally, you can't vaginally. 6 inches is just about right, my OH is 6-7inches depending on how he's feeling and I couldn't take another millimeter.

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    Lala23 [sign in to see picture]
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    Young and fun95 wrote:

    Size barely matters. As long as you're at least 3 inches and not a monster you can please a woman. Anal play is different. There isn't a really sensitive wall 4 inches into your bum, you can go really deep anally, you can't vaginally. 6 inches is just about right, my OH is 6-7inches depending on how he's feeling and I couldn't take another millimeter.

    +1

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    LittleSwitchBitch [sign in to see picture]
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    Young and fun95 wrote:

    Size barely matters. As long as you're at least 3 inches and not a monster you can please a woman. Anal play is different. There isn't a really sensitive wall 4 inches into your bum, you can go really deep anally, you can't vaginally. 6 inches is just about right, my OH is 6-7inches depending on how he's feeling and I couldn't take another millimeter.

    +1 I'm the same and I've had 3 kids... My other half would be 6-7 depending as well and anything more just wouldn't be able... Ur perfect, stop stressing :)
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    delilahxx [sign in to see picture]
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    6 inches is good for me, anything more can be painful.

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    Hezzah [sign in to see picture]
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    thank you all! it's such a minor thing i know, but self confidence is a hard thing to achive some times!

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    LittleSwitchBitch [sign in to see picture]
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    Hezzah wrote:

    thank you all! it's such a minor thing i know, but self confidence is a hard thing to achive some times!

    It's not a minor thing, and ur right to ask... :) I think every man, will have to same thing going on, mine always says it and I'm like ya and if you were hung like that I'd have no interest but he doesn't listen lol.
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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Honestly we have so many men ask this question, the strange thing is not one of them has ever been below average!

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    ExciterMode [sign in to see picture]
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    Considering the average penile length of a British male is 5.5", I'd say that your size is perfectly fine. :)

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    Baelish [sign in to see picture]
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    Size really doesn't matter; it's what you do with it that counts! Besides, 6 inches is genereally considered to be the average penis size.

    It's not minor if it's important to you, nor is it pathetic, and you're right, self-confidence is hard to come-by sometimes. If your OH is happy, you're obviously doing something right :)

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    Cocklette [sign in to see picture]
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    I have a slightly shorter than average penis but it is very slim.

    Does it bother me? No. As per my username, I wear it on my sleeve (not literally, duh!)

    When I was younger, it was more of an issue, mainly for me. There were a few girls for whom it mattered, but they were the minority. With long term partners, we always found ways to have fun.

    I'm a confident person and any negativity about my little fella didn't rattle me, but I know this can be a real problem for some guys. I just concentrated on being the best damn lover I could be, irrespective of penetration. From your description, you have a "normal" penis anyway. Relax and enjoy!

    If in doubt, more foreplay!

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    Ame [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner is around 7 inches and honestly I doubt I could take more than that. Even if during sex he gets a bit bigger I always notice and it seems that it will tear me apart. I'm sorry if it is too much information but I think it just goes to show that those really big 8 inch and more cocks aren't always better; however men with them need to be loved as well, I guess. But it would be too big for me!

    I haven't tried anything smaller so I can't really give an opinion but I guess it should be fine.

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    pink69 [sign in to see picture]
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    my hubby is average as well at 6-7 but i had a past partner who was not lacking in that area and it was awful , too big and too uncomfortable .

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    B52 [sign in to see picture]
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    It's fairly common for a man to second guess the adequecy of his manhood. At between 6 and 7 inches long and 5 to 6 inches in girth I'm probably also on the slightly above average scale, however , until I actually measured myself, I always thought that I was only the below average scale since you seldom see average size porn stars and lets face it, what else have we poor fella's got to compare ourselves with! I agree that size is not the main factor and it is more about how you gel with your partner.

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    As a man with an average size penis (and proud of it) - it makes my OH happy and that's all I care about.

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    UkHornycouple69 [sign in to see picture]
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    It is a male obsession. I think we all want to be the best lover and worry that if our cock is smaller than another's, then we are worse than them. I'm sure we all watch a shed load of porn and I'm really hoping that most guys aren't that size, as I'm not built like them. So that can leave is very insecure.

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    Young and fun95 wrote:

    Honestly we have so many men ask this question, the strange thing is not one of them has ever been below average!

    ok i might be the first but i am well below average my oh does not complain she says just right right for anal and also bj so i guess its good. her ex was a lot bigger but she said he only cared about himself

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    Cowboy81 [sign in to see picture]
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    UkHornycouple69 wrote:

    It is a male obsession. I think we all want to be the best lover and worry that if our cock is smaller than another's, then we are worse than them. I'm sure we all watch a shed load of porn and I'm really hoping that most guys aren't that size, as I'm not built like them. So that can leave is very insecure.

    Quite right, that is the source of my insecurity: wanting to provide the best expereince in every way for MRS. She assures me that I do (and I believe her) but if it was logicaly it wouldn't be a shared anxiety. Anyways, as she says we are a perfect fit but I wanted to agree that this is also the root of my insecurities as well.

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