• Naughty Pictures. Yay or Nay?

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    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
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    Hellooo ^_^

    As the title says, do you guys think sending naughty pictures is a good or bad idea? My boyfriend has hinted that he'd like some of me but I'm simply not comfortable with the idea, even if it didn't include my face. I think that it seems a ood idea at the time but I'm worried I'd regret it some time down the line.

    Which made me think, have any of you sent/received a naughty picture, have you regretted it or is it something you do reguarly? I'm curious. Xx

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    MrsMcX [sign in to see picture]
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    I have with my husband, but we've been together for a long time, and I trust him totally, I inow that those pictures are for his eyes only.

    Just because you have posted this post, I wouldn't do it. If you have any doubts at all just don't do it. I would only send them if you didn't have a single doubt in your mind xx

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    pinkanimal [sign in to see picture]
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    Agree with mrs. I send my oh them all the time. But I trust him.

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    Kelly 32 [sign in to see picture]
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    We send pics sometimes, it turns us on, x

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    RubyDarling [sign in to see picture]
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    MrsMcX wrote:

    If you have any doubts at all just don't do it. I would only send them if you didn't have a single doubt in your mind xx

    I totally agree with this.

    I have also sent pics to my man but I trust him 100%. If I didn't i would never have done it.

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    SR36 [sign in to see picture]
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    I know what you mean. (Sorry to everyone that already knows this) I'm doing the long distance thing, not only that but the time gap is huge- it will be more than a year between us seeing eachother, which is very very hard (but we're nearly nearly half way- yay!).

    I wanted to send him pictures to give him something to look forward to coming home to, but at first I was really really nervous (what if we don't survive the time gap? etc etc). So to start with I only sent him partial photos- like my legs and feet in heels etc etc. I've come to realise that we need this as part of our "thing" so I've become more bold and have started buying outfits with the sole intention of taking photos of myself in them and sending them to him (and obviously hopefully wearing them for him when he's back). I actually find taking the photos and knowing he's going to be looking at them a real turn on- and getting dressed up/putting make up on for them is a lot of fun!

    I guess it depends on the nature of your relationship. I told my guy that I wouldn't show him mine if he didn't show me his- and I've got some pretty hot pictures in return (which I LOVE)!! I guess I trust that even if it does all go pear-shaped, that he wouldn't show the pictures to anyone else (and like I said- I also have some of him). That being said- I haven't sent him anything too graphic (yet). I might wait until we've only got a few months to go before sending stuff like that!!!

    But I feel this is important for us, and wouldn't do it if I wasn't comfortable with it. Trouble is, I can't stop looking at the ones he's sent me... ;-)

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    We haven't got into the the habit of sending naughty pictures, but if I want to entice him away from work, then a suggestive snap usually works. But it really comes down to trust and maturity.

    I trust my OH explicitly, and would never expect him to do anything untoward with those pictures and vice versa.

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    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks guys, don't get me wrong, I trust him 100%, but there's something in me saying 'no no no, it's not right'. We have fun & I'm always up for dressing up for him but just not taking the photos, in general I'm not a photo person either, I think he wants me to be more confident, which I agree I should be but it's taking time to be.

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    butterflybee [sign in to see picture]
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    I have sent a partner pictures in the past, unfortunately it didn't go well and all of his friends ended up seeing them :-/
    I don't think I'd do it again unless I was in a totally committed relationship with someone who I trust implicitly.

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    SR36 [sign in to see picture]
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    It does take some confidence, it's true. But I think it also helps to build it. I took a couple of selfies in the mirror to start but now I have a tripod and a remote control, and get into position and just take loads, changing my angle and pose and just snap away.

    Don't get me wrong- I have some confidence issues and I've never really enjoyed having my photo taken (I'm not one of those pouty girls on FB!), but I have to say, although the vast majority of them don't make it through the first edit, I'm actually quite surprised by how good some of them are (and these are obviously the only ones he gets to see). It's all worth it for the reaction I get every time!!!

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    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Tbh....it is liberating if you do it right.... Don't take a pic that can identify you in a compromising pose... Ie
    face shots.
    Tattoos
    Distinctive rings.
    If you do send a picture with your face in it.... Make sure it is one that is totally tame.
    I think a bit of harmless tastefully posed shots that tease as much ad give away are better...
    It boosts your self confidence too.

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    dragoon [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi if your up for it i think iys great fun but you need to be sure he'd keep them private if you do x

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    Andreas [sign in to see picture]
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    dragoon wrote:

    Hi if your up for it i think iys great fun but you need to be sure he'd keep them private if you do x

    +1

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    Andreas [sign in to see picture]
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    dragoon wrote:

    Hi if your up for it i think iys great fun but you need to be sure he'd keep them private if you do x

    PS hey dragoon great pic - you say such things on the avatar rating, so I thought I should compliment you back - cant do it on avatar rating for obvious reasons

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    dragoon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks

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    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
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    I wouldn't have my face in it, if I did go ahead with it but thinking about what naughty mum said there, I have a tattoo on one wrist and another in my left arm, which may stand out.

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    Monkeysnacks [sign in to see picture]
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    I think sending each other kinky snaps can be a good thing for a relationship, but as others before me have said it comes down to whether or not you trust your partner to do the honourable thing should you ever part ways. I think you could get away with having your tattoo in the shot without it being too identifiable (how many people have Ankh / infinity / stars on their wrists?), just so long as you didn't have a clear shot of your face.

    I know some people would argue that there's no point in sending pictures when there is just so much porn available at the click of a mouse button, but it really does make all the difference to know that the pictures were taken specifically for you. It's a little bit of a risk, which you seem to be very aware of, so it comes down to trust. I personally would say to go for it, nothing ventured nothing gained and all that. Just make sure you'd be getting ones of him in return. Maybe even suggest he go first to give you an idea of the kind of thing he wants? ;)

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    Shadow Collector [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with what's already been said. If you trust the person you'll send them to, why not? So long as you're sure and comfortable with the idea. I personally would end up being way too self concious to do it, but in theory I'm all for it.

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    Kinkykt34 [sign in to see picture]
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    If you trust the person then maybe it's something you should think about. I had an issue with an X. He videoed me performing a sex act on him and when we split he uploaded to a porn site. Someone at my work commented on the fact he'd seen this video and the girl in it looked just like me. After half the men in my department had watched it and I had, had enough of being called 'deep throat' I got one of the lads to show me the vid. Turns out it was actually me lol

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    If your not happy dont send it simple I am with Mr C & I send him pics alll the time as I know they are for his eyes only

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