• penis size dissapointment

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    curiousme [sign in to see picture]
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    I have a recent urge lately to try what I can to increase penis size permanently, I was looking at penis enlargers today, the ones the you wear and the stretch it, if they even work. I am only 5 inch or so and I am her disappointed with it. Especially after been on nude beaches where all the other guys seem to hang so much bigger! I feel like my gf is missing out!

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    Hi :)

    Not familiar stretching items but... What I do know is.. One thing women love in a man is confidence and not all bout size (not all women will prob agree : /). It's how u use it :) honestly it is :) I've not sd if ur gf has sd anything to u bout it but in my experience, size does not matter!!


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    curiousme [sign in to see picture]
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    She is doesn't think I'm small but she has only slept with me, and it doesn't seem phase her at all seeing others on a nude beach bigger than me, but then she probably wouldn't say to be nice

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    Size really does not matter - my DH doesnt have much but its what he does that counts as woman two spots of excitement are her clit abd g.spot are not deep inside !!!

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    Size really doesn't matter, especially if she's only had you, if she's satisfied trying to be bigger may not be neccesary,

    I struggled for a while with my OHs size and to me he's massive, to him he's small. That's because the angle you look at yourself and the same reason women feel inadequate about their boobs. You look down at yours but straight at someone else's so even if it's the same size his will seem bigger.

    Every woman has different sized boobs, and every man likes different size boobs, there's no one size that's better, it's the same with penises. I've known women refuse to sleep with men because they're too large and other women consider the same man average.

    You've found a woman perfectly compatible, she likes what you've got, what if you were bigger and she didn't like it?

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    Could I ask what makes you feel inadequate? As I said before you're perfectly average for the UK, if you're African then I can see your point about nude beaches. But 50% of the UK is smaller than you. I don't know any women who've ever complained of a small penis, we complain when someone can't use it.

    There are many that come one here for the same reason. I thought my OH was like it because he'd had some bad relationships and it's something nasty women are nasty about, he has low self esteem. But I'm starting to think most men have this issue

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    Knowing what to do with it is the trick - both for yourself and for her. If she's only ever slept with you I expect there'll be lots of stuff you can explore together to improve your sex lives. A lot of women (though probably not many of the ones on this forum) have a poor understanding of their own sexuality, let alone their partner's.

    Mrs P. is uncomfortable with anything much longer than my 5 1/2 inches because it bottoms out inside her and makes deep penetration a lottery for her. Even with my modest resources I can get far enough in to make it uncomfortable for, given the right position. As has been pointed out above, all the business goes on much nearer the outside world, so to speak.

    Girth is nice to have, but again, play the cards you have and don't fret about those extra inches. Invest the time you would spend worrying about that in learning about women's minds and bodies and you'll be a much better lover for it.

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    MrPink wrote:

    Knowing what to do with it is the trick - both for yourself and for her. If she's only ever slept with you I expect there'll be lots of stuff you can explore together to improve your sex lives. A lot of women (though probably not many of the ones on this forum) have a poor understanding of their own sexuality, let alone their partner's.

    Mrs P. is uncomfortable with anything much longer than my 5 1/2 inches because it bottoms out inside her and makes deep penetration a lottery for her. Even with my modest resources I can get far enough in to make it uncomfortable for, given the right position. As has been pointed out above, all the business goes on much nearer the outside world, so to speak.

    Girth is nice to have, but again, play the cards you have and don't fret about those extra inches. Invest the time you would spend worrying about that in learning about women's minds and bodies and you'll be a much better lover for it.

    +1

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    MrPink wrote:

    Knowing what to do with it is the trick - both for yourself and for her. If she's only ever slept with you I expect there'll be lots of stuff you can explore together to improve your sex lives. A lot of women (though probably not many of the ones on this forum) have a poor understanding of their own sexuality, let alone their partner's.

    Mrs P. is uncomfortable with anything much longer than my 5 1/2 inches because it bottoms out inside her and makes deep penetration a lottery for her. Even with my modest resources I can get far enough in to make it uncomfortable for, given the right position. As has been pointed out above, all the business goes on much nearer the outside world, so to speak.

    Girth is nice to have, but again, play the cards you have and don't fret about those extra inches. Invest the time you would spend worrying about that in learning about women's minds and bodies and you'll be a much better lover for it.

    Of course you can ask, the main thing I guess is I have seen others in changing rooms etc and nude beaches, they always seem to hang much lower and look bigger. Mine doesn't have much of a hang unless it's very warm, its not big enough and therefore heavy enough to hang when flaccid, if that makes sense and as embarrassing as it is to say.
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    Young and fun95 wrote:

    Could I ask what makes you feel inadequate? As I said before you're perfectly average for the UK, if you're African then I can see your point about nude beaches. But 50% of the UK is smaller than you. I don't know any women who've ever complained of a small penis, we complain when someone can't use it.

    There are many that come one here for the same reason. I thought my OH was like it because he'd had some bad relationships and it's something nasty women are nasty about, he has low self esteem. But I'm starting to think most men have this issue

    Quoted the wrong post before oops... Of course you can ask, the main thing I guess is I have seen others in changing rooms etc and nude beaches, they always seem to hang much lower and look bigger. Mine doesn't have much of a hang unless it's very warm, its not big enough and therefore heavy enough to hang when flaccid, if that makes sense and as embarrassing as it is to say.
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    I totally understand, most men are small when it's cold, OH is maybe 2 inch but when it's warm 4inch. Again, because you're looking down on yourself and towards other men you will appear smaller, but they'll be thinking the same thing.

    something interesting I read: average and slightly above average men are the most likely group to feel inadequate, men that are below average are more comfortable with their size.

    question: do you ever look at another man in the changing rooms and think "ha! Look at his tiny willy"? Because most women don't, we really don't care at all, in fact men with large penises are worrying as they're so cocky that they're big they don't learn any skill and are more painful than pleasurable.

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    Bigger isn't better

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    The simple truth is that you cannot increase the size of your penis without dangerous surgery and even that is limited. Pumps, jelking, etc simply do not work long term. Whatever size youd like your penis to be, your stuck with what you have so you need to learn to make the best of it.

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    While it would be nice to believe that "size doesn't matter" the fact is it definitely can make a difference! If a man has a long penis, and the woman he's having sex with has a low cervix it can cause all kinds of discomfort or pain - and I speak from experience here. I've had one boyfriend who was big, and another not so much - and while I did enjoy the girth of the bigger guy, I actually prefer sex with a smaller penis, it can be much more enthusiastic without fear of being hurt, there's less chafing and need for protracted foreplay (which is great, but sometimes you just want to get down to it!) and I'm excited rather than intimidated by the idea of exploring anal in the future - and definitely for using a buttplug during sex, which I might otherwise have struggled with.

    There also the fact that you're most likely comparing flaccid length, not length when errect, and there tends to be much more variability in that, despite the fact that someone with a bigger flaccid penis might not increase as much as a smaller one with an errection. Personally, I'd say 5in is plenty, and there are always different positions to try for deeper penetration. It's much easier to compensate for a penis that is too small, than try to manage with one that's too big! And there's always kegels to change things her end for a better fit - if it even is a problem, which it most likely isn't :)

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    I've never considered penis size to have any lasting impact on satisfaction. I've had bad sex with guys with massive penises and good sex with guys with smaller ones, it's definitely a technique thing! Especially since the clit is outside and the g-spot is only a few inches in :)

    That said, I do want bigger boobs... but you learn to live with what you've been given!

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    try the largo cream good reviews done a rewiew myself

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    Dali256 wrote:

    The simple truth is that you cannot increase the size of your penis without dangerous surgery and even that is limited. Pumps, jelking, etc simply do not work long term. Whatever size youd like your penis to be, your stuck with what you have so you need to learn to make the best of it.

    +1

    It's really better not to fixate on your penis size as it really is all about how you use it. Nothing wrong with a small penis, nothing wrong with an average penis, nothing wrong with a large penis. They all work! And you always have to remember, those guys that hang lower? They might be a 'shower not a grower', that is to say they are the same size flacid as they are hard.

    We all have things on our body we would like to change, but ultimately penis size is something you just have to get to terms with. Your penis is yours and it is good! Making it bigger will not make it better.

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    Now see, size matters to me but the other way around. A penis that hits my cervix is painful. A shorter penis is, for me, more comfortable for anal and also for oral, since I like being able to fit all of him in my mouth without it making me gag too much.

    That said, beyond those things, which are purely about practicality rather than anything else, penis size really isn't that important. Hell, the size of the thing is the least significant part of how good sex is. It's way more important if someone is open and eager for lots of foreplay, has fun, is willing to experiment and listens to you and your body to see what you're enjoying. The love of my life has a three inch penis and, honestly, beyond the fact that some positions don't work for penetration for us, he's the best lover I've ever had and I adore his penis. And we still do those positions, we just do them humpy! Because sometimes rubbing against each other is just lovely.

    Keep in mind as well, that the size of a flaccid penis really doesn't indicate erect size. I've known guys who had 4 inch flaccid penises that, when erect, grey maybe an inch in length. And I've known guys with adorable chubby stump penises that ballooned into monsters. Porn also depicts a really distorted image of what penises are or should be, so don't worry about that unless you also feel hard done by because your other half doesn't look like those women!

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    Now i get that the view of a virgin may be irrelevant here, but to someone who is going off the pure fatasy and envisionment of sex, i have never wanted a "big" guy. Granted, I've only been masturbating since the beginning of march, but i have tried out some varying sizes, and i find that i physically cannot go deeper than 6 inches, and thats with discomfort at that depth. Infact as the girth goes up, the length i can take goes down, and i find it much, much harder to orgasm from clitoral stimulation when i have deep penetration. I'm much more satisfied with something a nice girth/shape just in the first 3 inches or so to givbe a nice full feeling which certainly aids in better/faster orgasms. My first relationship was online, and honestly, i never once desired sex with my previous partner, as having seen his equipment all i could think was that it would hurt and provide no pleasure at all, his larger size was a major turn off. But my current partner, has always assured me that he would be gentle, and i remember one specific quote that "It doesn't all have to go in" and that reassured me, as i can tell him when enough is enough, and it certainly won't be the whole thing.

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