• Am I really the minority?

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    Iwish [sign in to see picture]
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    She knows about the nurse outfit I showed her it and she laughed which is a good sign normally when I buy her things she says no straightaway and I have to send them back she has recently gone on here and bought a mini rabbit which we have used once which she enjoyed and we have used a cock ring as well.i have ordered some champers and flowers in the room on arrival so hopefully after a few glasses the fun can begin.

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    DreamOfTheEndless [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah, my missus really likes some of the things I've bought on here and been a bit indifferent to others but I really wish she'd tell me what she actually would like instead of the hit and miss approach. She's just shy about it and if I try to encourage her otherwise, she withdraws that wee bit more.

    Ach well. What are you going to do. Enjoy Saturday.

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    Iwish [sign in to see picture]
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    That's the same as me I just wish she would tell me what she enjoys and likes for all I know she could like real kinky stuff but she is very shy about things like that and I get embarrassed to ask her.hopefully Saturday will be fun but I have my doubts.

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    Guys guys lol it's not that easy to talk about sex.
    I can because I'm on here but I find it hard to talk about it face to face.

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    I've started trying to get her out of her shell a little by writing erotic stories that I think she might like.

    One of the very few things she's been able to tell me is that she sometimes has fantasies about women so I started there. Bit by bit, they've become a little more and more steamy and as this has gone on, we've started dipping our toes into porn. We definitely have a niche that she likes - amateur lesbian - and the right film or story will certainly put her in the mood.

    So she is able to become aroused quite normally. My only sadness is that she won't take the initiative for herself. I'm always bringing it to her, so to speak.

    Anyway. Have you tried stories? I find they work well and if you read it to her rather than her rading it for herself, it adds an extra little frisson of eroticism.

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    DreamOfTheEndless [sign in to see picture]
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    pinkanimal, forgive me if this is a personal question and please feel free not to answer it, but is your partner also on this site?

    I'm wondering if it might be worthwhile nudging the missus towards it.

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    pinkanimal [sign in to see picture]
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    No as far as I know he isn't. Unless he secretly spy's on me lol!!
    He does know I am. And he supports it. And is happy to help me test products x

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    Iwish [sign in to see picture]
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    We'll I did buy her fifty shades of grey book but she didn't like it,we have watched porn but only a DVD she bought from another sex toy retailer but it was rubbish and it felt quite awkward watching it together.she isn't on here and I don't think she knows I am on here she knows I have bought stuff from here.

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    Why don't you start going for bike rides with the kid? Exercise secretes serotonin (the happy hormone) which helps with depression and increases metabolism, and obviously excersise helps lose weight which will boost her self confidence and energy. It's a non suggestive was of helping her and you and the kid

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