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    TaffiInExcile [sign in to see picture]
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    Gentle giant wrote:

    I am sorry all this talk of working people hiring escorts, when I last looked they don't do Escorts any more. It's Focuses or Mondeos if you want a Ford last one I hired was an Insignia but that's a Vauxhall.

    lol...i hired an escort once. Was way past its prime and had plenty of miles on the clock. Took it around the block and gave it a good hammering....really suprised me as for an old one she still had plenty of go and proved to be quite a pleasant ride.

    Anyway back on topic :-)

    Can't say i've ever been tempted...even when working away in teh likes of Amsterday where you dont really have to look very hard for it.


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    MrPink [sign in to see picture]
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    Flaneur, it was a newspaper articale, so I didn't suppose the facts came from anywhere real, and now I've read the article again it was from a survey commissioned by Crown hair transplants in Manchester.

    So they would have a good reason to suggest older men (with less hair) are invisible. I can stop worrying now. Especially as I have more hair than many 30-year-olds, greying though it is.

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    Lady Ness [sign in to see picture]
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    I'll like to remind some members on the forum, that there are many sex workers who use the site and view these threads, so please keep that in mind.

    But for the most part there has been some really good feedback so far =)

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    stesilc [sign in to see picture]
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    i joined the navy at 16 lots of fun night / days where you would only have a few hours shore leave.

    i dont see anythink wrong with people paying for what thay want

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    Ron Burgundy [sign in to see picture]
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    Lady ness, can I ask what made you enter the sex industry? In Ireland at the moment there is a debate around criminalising the client as opposed to the person providing the service. Usually women in the sex industry are portrayed as trafficked or coerced and I'd be interested to hear your perspective?

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    SlinkyRat [sign in to see picture]
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    I have no objection to those who work in the sex industry or the people who visit sex workers. I do believe prostitution should be legal as long as the workers are safe and working of their own free will. However I would never personally pay for companionship/sex. I need to have a connection with my partner, a relationship, otherwise it just doesn't do it for me. I'm an old fashioned girl at heart and I'm just not wired for randoms, fwb's and paid companions.

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    the mechanic [sign in to see picture]
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    i have no bad thoughts about sex industry workers .They are human beings just like us and i expect some do it to support themselves or a family and maybe not enjoy it. At the end of the day we all only want to be loved even if we have to do things we may not want to

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    Lady Ness [sign in to see picture]
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    Ron Burgundy wrote:

    Lady ness, can I ask what made you enter the sex industry? In Ireland at the moment there is a debate around criminalising the client as opposed to the person providing the service. Usually women in the sex industry are portrayed as trafficked or coerced and I'd be interested to hear your perspective?

    Yes that debate is happening here too.

    I actyually was involved in other areas of the sex industry before going into escorting and trained as a sex educator and worked as a copy writer for sex toy retail sites. I went into escorting as I knew I could do it mentally, and actualy knew it would help people.

    Don't get me wrong, I've seen the bad side of the adult industry too, and really actually found that becoming an escort helped me cope with that after being taken advantage of.

    I went into the world of Domming, as one many of my clients were interested in it, but two, it comes so naturally to me. It's far more creative than just standard escorting and those I have met through it I get a long with more.

    I still teach sex education / coaching too, which is nice. Plus still write content for sites and help with designing the odd sex toy.

    There's still a lot of the adult industry I'm yet to explore, so doubt I will ever leave it, even with my one bad experience of basically being 'pimped out'.

    Luckily my partners are very supportive of it, and I own some pretty entertaining and caring submissives too. =)

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    No never. Plenty of toys for that I say x

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    No never. Plenty of toys for that I say x

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    have done and at the time it was out of curiousity and taboo, but we made friends and when i'm not dating i prefer to ring her up instead of a 1 night stand or chasing a physical relationship with someone who wants more.

    She is great and after 4yrs of getting to know each other inbetween girlfriends we have some dam good sex!

    i see her as a person and a friend that i care about, she just also happens to earn money having a great time! I get a bit jealous sometimes lol

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    I was in fact a cam girl for around 2 years and worked in a dungeon as a DM (dungeon monitor) it was a great experience and I'd happily go back into that sort of work. I met a lot of really great people.. and learnt a lot. Of course I met a lot of ass holes. But it was the best time of my life.

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    A tricky one. Its one of those grey areas IMO . If you already have a partner then it could be argued as a form of cheating really, perhaps legal cheating. Not something I would feel comfortable with and I certainly wouldn't be happy if the Mrs hired an Escort ( we have a Fiesta ) .

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    Yeah , if you're in a relationship and you have sex with someone else its cheating even if it is an escort .
    Anything that involves sexual interaction behind a partners back is wrong in my opinion. I'd like to think that me and my husband could ask each for
    anything sexually but if either of us said no to something for whatever reason then we'd just have to accept it.
    But if you're single I don't see a problem with it .

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    I think it very much depends on your situation with your partner. If it's not something you've discussed and got permission for, it's definitely cheating regardless of whether it's the other person's job or not.

    But I think escorts can be great for couples. I certainly hope to have an experience with an escort sometime in the future because I want to express that part of my sexuality, but I'm in a loving committed relationship with my partner so wouldn't want to involve anyone who wasn't a professional, since it could get more complicated that way.

    I don't really understand how escorting works that well so am very nervous about the idea, and it makes it a lot harder to commit to the idea of actually hiring someone. I wish it was something that was a bit more out in the open and not so intimidating because I'm finding it impossible to find someone. Seeing pictures of someone online is so different to meeting someone in person so it's too daunting to phone and commit to paying someone I've never met.

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    Sir Psycho Sexy [sign in to see picture]
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    I have been tempted in the past as I am not very good socially, so going out and meeting girls would have proved difficult.
    But ultimately no I wouldn't, purely because I couldn't be doing with the escort trying too hard to convince you she's having the best time of her life to get you to come back for more, all that ott moaning for starters...

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