• What really turns you on?...

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    KarlsGirl78 [sign in to see picture]
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    Have been discussing a wide variety of new things to try out with my fwb, like fisting, dp, sex in places where we can possibly be seen etc. We have also planned out like different scenarios we would both want to happen. I find the whole dp thing a massive turn on just now and the outdoor sex with the chances of being spotted. So I was just wondering what really gets you going and stirs a fire in your belly just thinking of it xCx

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    Definately outdoor sex for me, the idea that someone might be watching is a big turn on. I also thought dp would be good till I tried it with my husband and a toy but found it really uncomfortable, maybe should try it with a smaller toy.
    My main fantasy at the moment is a mmf threesome, if I was unattached I'd definately try it for real but we sort of bring it in to our sex life by using a dildo as a third party and a bit of imagination :)

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    ScarletRose [sign in to see picture]
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    mmmmmmm rough sex. being dominated. public kink. I know they're not specific but tbh I've been in such a vanilla relationship that even the slightly adventurous is entirely erotic for me.

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Sex outdoors for me, I love it, I'm excited about our first holiday all the places I want us to go it's going to be incredible

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Oomph and being choked, but my OH doesn't like doing that

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    ScarletRose [sign in to see picture]
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    oh my god being choked. yes. bring it on.

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    Ikey [sign in to see picture]
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    My main turn on is control and confidence. Nothing gets me going more than when my OH wants it so badly that she takes what she needs from me.

    Her biggest turn on is roughness, the rougher the better in her opinion. She loves being tied up and blindfolded, slapped, scratched, bitten, choked and being forced to do things. Which is always fun, so I'm certainly not complaining. Although she would happily have that every session, whereas sometimes I just want vanilla.

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    rose hip [sign in to see picture]
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    Intimacy, emotional closeness and full body contact.

    In other words, I really don't fit in with the forum anymore.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    Where to start. I think I would start with my wife's mind planning our next session and finding out what she would like to have done to her or would like to do to me.

    Next being a man we are much more turned on visually. Starting with my wife taking care of how she looks dressing sexy and putting on sexy underwear knowing it's for me. Then showing herself of when naked , being confident spreading and sitting on my chest and arms so I can only see but cannot touch.

    Enough for this post.

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    Puddleduck [sign in to see picture]
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    Don't say that rose hip :) you give amazing advice and a perspective people sometimes forget about in all the excitement xx

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    pinkanimal [sign in to see picture]
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    I love watching dp porn.
    We have the special cock ring that has a dildo on it :)
    It's really good! I loved it. Sadly cannot use it ATM but I will again soon.

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    I'm a bit borking because a nice long massage turns me on. =)

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    chunkyg [sign in to see picture]
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    For us it Domination and Submission, Spanking, Bondage and Roleplay that includes those elements.

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey Rose Hip, I agree with Gem x

    Everyone has their own view & perspective - That's the great thing about these forums :) xx

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    DreamOfTheEndless [sign in to see picture]
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    This is a bit boring but the biggest turn on for me is intimacy and my partner's arousal.

    I love it when she shares with me - more so because she often finds it difficult - personal stuff. Her turn-ons and what she's been thinking about when we make love.

    I love when I know she's becoming aroused and particularly when I come in to find her reading something erotic and see her hands have started wandering.

    I know it's a common thing on these forums but I think her enjoyment is more important to me than my own.

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    PetiteJess [sign in to see picture]
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    For me it's also rough sex, role play and some really filthy talking. It works everytime for me.

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    BigBikeGuy [sign in to see picture]
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    A number if things but I love to give my wife a full massage. There is something about feeling her naked body and being able to touch her all over....

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    j&lxxxx [sign in to see picture]
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    Bdsm for us, been put on the lead and being dragged around the house, getting a different treatment/ punishment in every room. Very rare though can only do that when kids guaranteed to be out for hours.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    rose hip wrote:

    Intimacy, emotional closeness and full body contact.

    In other words, I really don't fit in with the forum anymore.

    Rose just like Puddleduck I would say that it's the vary rare mix of ages, experience and variety. That makes this such an amazing place. Everyone's opinion is respected . Your quote made me feel "why didn't I say that".

    We forget in the heat of sexual passion and desire that in the end most of us just want to share with some one. You hit it spot on.

    I have on many occasions picked emotive subjects and hold different opinions to others, but I know I can post them here knowing people will respect me and except my opinion. They may not agree put so long as we respect each other then that's great. I have had a look at a few other forums that are supposed to be similar. Not one is a patch on this.

    Please keep posting you are a valued member of this forum and were posting before me.

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd like to echo those last comments from gg, it's great that we all hold different opinions on here and it would be a very boring world if we all thought the same.
    Carry on posting rose hip :)

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