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    Panel 1 row 3 , 4th from the right maybe?

    I hope in some small way this has helped, your OH is a very lucky man and I am sure he knows it. Isn't it so silly that one small throw away comment at a moment of great emotion can have such a effect on us. Let it go FLF as a negative and see it as a huge positive. If as a midwife she will of seen a lot and yours is so wonderfully unique and you have an OH who loves it and you and I am another man telling you it is very erotic.

    As far as protruding and worrying about it . I have to use a little reverse psychology. Men who think they are small are always looking down at it and thinking it's to small but they are constantly worried. You are doing the same because it's rubbing you are getting turned on , you are thinking everyone else can see it and you aroused.

    I am very pleased for you it's large and sensitive OH loves it plus it gives you such pleasure. All big big plus's don't try and find a negative there just arn't any.

    Don't know whether you have ever tried this. My wife has a very sensitive clit and on a very few highly aroused occasions we have managed to both orgasm just by clit to penis tip. My wife has even been able to orgasm from me coming on her clit.

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    You found it ! Tho I think mine is slightly larger but does look like a penis . Yes we have done that penis to clit is lovely. As for me over thinking it I do I suppose but it is clearly visible when scantily dressed . In daily life I must carry spare panties because I get wet with the rubbing when I walk . But you're right there probably are more positives than negatives . I'm not going to let it hold me back anymore ! Once in Holland we were going to try a sex club and I wouldn't do it because I was frightened of exposing my clit ! My OH is in the army and away a lot so we have to make the most of the times we are together. When we Skype the first thing he always says is get your clit out for me . So if he's happy I'll be happy ! Lol you have been so kind and helpful . Your wife is a lucky woman to have such a considerate man.

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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28563
    There was another lady with an OH in the army and they like to skype. I suggested this spreader above she was very taken with the idea.
    If you don't mind me suggesting it for you it would really show you off even more. We have one , I really wanted to use a speculum on my wife but she didn't like the idea but she loves this. I work away some times and we have skyped when she uses it and just a bullet vibe it is wonderful . Even on a camera you can see much more and watch your woman orgasm on the inside.

    Once again I hope you share with your OH about your wet pants and having to change them. I guarantee he will find it a huge turn on and for you to give or send him a well soaked pair. Very few men would not be massively turned on by their woman giving them something with their scent on.

    Part of my enjoyment of posting here is helping others. I am not always right and I have raised some very difficult subjects. If in any way this has made you more confident and happier with your body image then I am very pleased.
    I have spent 25 years unrepressing my wife from an awful upbringing. Her mum's idea of sex was Victorian. It's dirty , don't touch yourself you dirty girl, and whatch out for men they only want one thing..
    So I know only to well how this can effect a woman and have years of knowledge about it and it's amazing to help others.
    You should have ago at some erotic writting , some of your writting is very hot. Their are a few that do it on here. Check out MrsS she has a blog site linked from her profile she's good.

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    My writing is hot ? Really ?? I'm just saying what I think . I'm glad I gave something back to you because you have helped me so much : ) I'm not used to discussing these things so freely tho in comfortable with my OH . Actually discussing them is a big turn on . I must confess to being aroused . Clit is in full heat ! Lol . Please continue to give me advice it's very welcome . The spreader sounds wonderful . I love my OH exploring me inside with his fingers and other objects . Love the thought of him seeing it all ! Lol . This site is changing my life ! Thank U again : )

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    This is exactly what LH is all about. Communication is the key to sexual happiness. If you find it arousing here posting anonymously then if you could build up the courage to discuss it openly with you oh. Then the arousal would be huge, this is something we have done for a while. It's strange the Times we discuss our love lives. It's taken me a long time to get my Wife to enjoy talking about it and getting it to be a turn on greater than the embarrassment. You didn't make a mention of the wet pants idea I hope I didn't offend you with this suggestion. .
    The greatest thing about LH forums everyone is treated impartially and not judged. Well done for posting. Have you ordered the clit clamp?

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    Oh no you didn't embarrass me with that suggestion . I'm going to send some over after soaking them completely . He will love that ! Ordering the clit and nipple clamps . And the spreader . It will be wonderful for our Skype calls and I read about it and love the idea of wearing it all day lol . I'm turning into a bit of a minx I think . We love sex anyway but this will give me the courage to try new things . I guess I'll just have to keep plenty of underwear on standby as I'm just wet all the time now ! I'm glad you and your wife have found that sexual freedom . I'm going to show my OH these posts and feel free to give me your advice and recommendations . I've loved it ! Thank you

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    I hope in showing your OH this thread it starts you down the road of 1 on 1 discussions. So you can use all this new found confidence and sexuality. I am more than happy to advice and recommend. What sort of things would you like to try?

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    I wish my man would suck my clit........ sigh, :(

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    Ah crazy horse it's gorgeous cant u discuss it ? GG u seem like a man with a lot of experience so feel free to make suggestions . We both love sex and want to give each other as much pleasure as possible . Openminded and horny . I've never managed anal as I'm so tight but I think I tense up . We used loads of lube but so far not much success ! OH pushes his finger in when we're having sex and it feels sooo good so would like to try more

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    Anal is something you will need to built up to slowly is best started yourself with small butt plugs get one put it in when your OH is away and where it for as long as you can around the house. When you are comfortable with that one go up a size. We started our anal love making in a quite special way. I am well endowed and my Wife is petite she was desperate to give her anal virginity to me. So she came up with this and it was very erotic and worked.
    She knelt doggystyle on the the edge of the bed I stood on the floor behind her having lubed just her bum and on the inside . I lubed myself well too, she had told me all I was aloud to do was line my self up to her butt then I had to stand perfectly still. If I moved I wouldn't get what I wanted. Then she grabbed her cheeks with her hands and pulled them wide apart. She was able to do this because she hadn't touched the lube. She then backed onto me slowly taking her time , she was able to control the speed and depth not having to worry about whether I was going to thrust.
    Having an orgasm or two your self first will help relax you and turn him on as well because it actually helps if he is very hard.
    I will post a couple of things that may help on my next post.
    I am glad you are still posting , I was a little concerned you had shown this to your OH and he taken it the wrong way.

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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27275
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11538
    Here are a couple of suggestions for you to help. The gel I have just sex toy tested you can either go to the product or my profile to read my review on it.

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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27275
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11538
    Here are a couple of suggestions for you to help. The gel I have just sex toy tested you can either go to the product or my profile to read my review on it.

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    Thanks GG . Very erotic sounding experience ! Can't wait to try . No OH hasn't taken it the wrong way . He can't wait to try everything too . We have always been very loving but for some reason our sex life is really taking off right now . Only trouble is I'm always aroused so nothing for it but solo play . He can't even Skype at the minute . I'm on holiday with 2 of my daughters and the protruding clit is a problem lol . Mind you I'm getting so liberated the bikini top hasn't been on ! Enjoying the admiring looks . Looks of young German lads offering to help me with sun cream . Aren't they kind ?? Lol anal is one of the first we will try when we have the opportunity . Again thank you ! You are out mentor !

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    Sorry our mentor

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    Mentor um wow ok. Your to kind. Just like helping.
    I have to say I was so intreaged by the big clit thing that I had to look it up a little more. Their several much larger than the one on the great wall of vagina. Xhamster is the porn site then type in big clit. Wow some very big clits . Hopefully they will make you feel less concerned and more confident and sexy.
    They look amazing. Sounds like your having a good time on your hols, I'm glad you are feeling much more liberated.

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    Would your OH be in to you being more dominant is this something you do already? Have you done anal play on him?
    I have another thought for you. It has taken a lot to post this. Having read the forum rules again. I think you would be ok to post a picture of your bikini bottoms in your profile not your as your avatar ,so we could see if your concerns are as bad as you think they are. I would understand if this is not something you are comfortable with.
    If you continue to let us know what things you would like to explore we can help find old threads and advice. I hope you are enjoying your holiday and watch out for them little German fellas. If you keep having so much Sun tan lotion reapplied you won't get a tan.lol.
    Arn't these forums amazing how totaly anonymously you can converse with total strangers about the most intimate things and feel unjudged . It is how you put it so liberating to be able to ask all the thinks you have thought about sexually for years, and get amazing answers.

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    We'r kinda curious as to how much yours protrudes now?

    some people may consider this a bit to personal, but would you care to share which one is similar from the wall?

    Mr Ted loves going down on me, and can suck mine which drives me wild, but I wouldn't say it protrudes though.....

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    Sorry, just seen you'v already said.
    (iPad's cracking up)

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    Mine is actually bigger than the one mentioned above on the Great Wall of Vagina . I can only describe it as a mini penis . It pops out between my lips and there's also a hood that can be pulled back . My OH can get his mouth fully around it and suck . He teases it with his tongue and teeth . I cum quickly and easily many times . Mind u I also cum when he sucks my nipples . GG not sure about the pic ! I'll see what OH thinks . I'm not entirely confident about it yet . It's causing probs over here ! My boobs are out on show big nipples and all but I have to wear a sarong around the offending clit ! OH is dying to try a nudist beach is he kidding me ?? Lol . I've a crowd of wee German lads around me getting my drinks lol and you're right GG it's great getting the advice of others on such intimate matters . I'm loving it ! Not sure how to post a pic just to profile . When I do it turns into my avatar . Any help ?

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    I think you'd probably get told off for that!
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