Being told they're masturbating over you...

This is something i have always wondered about and I was originally going to ask it in another thread but really didn't want to derail it.

Ladies: How would you feel if someone you knew told you that he fantasised about you while he masturbated? Or the same question for a stranger you're talking to online?

Guys: Have you ever told a woman this same thing? If so, was she flattered or offended?

I have been told this before and it is flattering so far. I would possibly be disgusted if it was someone way older than me or just vulgar & crude or not a very nice person in general.

Hmm it varies really. Interesting topic!

It's a huge turn-on if it comes from someone I'm involved with! My boy will quite often tell me that something we've done will go in the "wank bank" as food for thought. I love the thought that I could turn him on when I'm not even there!

If it's a friend telling me that I think I'd rather not know. I don't care to think of my friend masturbating over me!

I don't do cyber but I have had someone I met online tell me he intended to do all manner of things to me with no encouragement whatsoever. That was quite unsettling and he got deleted straight away!

This is already making for some interesting reading!

Love it!!!  never used to with the hubby, but the OH also does the "i will re-live that" and it makes me all gooey.  Before I met the OH, had a few online who said they were.....whilst i was talking to them.  At the time it was an ago boost, now I dont talk to them....have no need.....

JJxx

 I don't much like the idea of being masturbated over by strangers.  Ew.

People I'm involved with, absolutely.  :)

Lubyanka wrote:

 I don't much like the idea of being masturbated over by strangers.  Ew.

People I'm involved with, absolutely.  :)

Involved with in what way?

Sorry if I ask too many questions of anyone, I'm just curious by nature I think and I like to learn!

 If they're intimate partners of any kind.

If it is someone I'm involved with or very attracted to, it's a massive turn on for me.  Some 'random person' might make me cringe a little though, if we've not been involved in mutual flirting etc - that's different.

We've all had fantasties about friends etc - however unless there is a mutual attraction and flirting etc between you, then it's best to keep your big mouth shut lol.

Damn damn damn damn damn............

TB

I reckon to be told by a virtual stranger that they are thinking of you while "doing the deed" could be rather odd?

Personally I find it is a major turn on to do this with someone who has meaning to you, and when you tell them and later they tell you what they just did thinking about what you did, it just gets hotter and hotter

As far as members of the OA Army are concerned, I have done this with a conscript and they know

well i keep on maturbating on my gf and she loves it and I love it too! It's great to do it on her!

Also I have a couple of guys who like to masturbate on me over the pnone. I think this is like cyber sex but without the cam view. I like this a lot.

 Heh, I think they call this "phone sex".  :p

 an old fashioned device they used to use in the olden days before they had teh intartoobz.  :p

Well if it was my OH or sum1 who is totally hot then i would love it but as far as sum creepy / grungy person definititly not yuck a fi x

grboy202 wrote:

Also I have a couple of guys who like to masturbate on me over the pnone. I think this is like cyber sex but without the cam view. I like this a lot.

Cyber sex doesn't have to include a webcam. I tried it once but tbh don't really like the idea of someone seeing my "masturbating face" haha

Lubyanka wrote:

 I don't much like the idea of being masturbated over by strangers.  Ew.

People I'm involved with, absolutely.  :)

I'm with you on this one Lubyanka.  If a guy I know (and like) masturbates over me - don't mind whether over something I've said, a picture or just a thought - I find it very flattering and depending on who it is, a real turn on.  I found it a little unsettling at first, but now I love it.  A little attention can go a long way to building one's sexy self esteem, I find. 

The thing is though, there might be other guys doing the same thing, and you don't know or aren't too keen on, and you might get creeped out.  As long as they keep it themselves I suppose................

From a blokes point of view... if it's a woman and she's not too bad lookin...then its very very flattering! x

Hmm, a partner definitely! Love to hear that he's thinking of me while pleasuring himself.

Friends... I wouldn't want them to tell me but nevertheless I'd find it rather flattering!

Strangers... again, as long as they weren't all pervy in telling me then that's cool.

I pretty much always think of my partner when playing :)

Nexas wrote:

This is something i have always wondered about and I was originally going to ask it in another thread but really didn't want to derail it.

Ladies: How would you feel if someone you knew told you that he fantasised about you while he masturbated? Or the same question for a stranger you're talking to online?

Guys: Have you ever told a woman this same thing? If so, was she flattered or offended?

Girls,

Let's not be sexist here eh, and have any of you girlies masturbated while conversing/thinking aout any of us testosterone fuelled campers???

Go on...... shame the devil-tell the truth!!!

TB