HOMEMADE PORN FILM

i want me my my partner to make a home porn film,she wont even think about even though we have sex in the room window and in the sea on holiday.im not the kind of guy to go showing it to my mates it would turn me on watching us doing it.im no king dong so i def wouldnt show the movie to anyone else anyway!!!! any tips or experiences from anyone out there???

Well, something I did the other day which was quite sexy and might start getting her used to the idea:

I used my digital camera, which has a short video function, to make a few short clips of us having sex. You can just delete them afterwards (so she knows you won't be showing your friends) or you could save them on your PC if she's happy with it. I would probably find out how to password protect the file though - would want mum or mates finding it!

me and my hubby have the video camera set up constantly in the bedroom on top of the dvd player. and every time we have sex we tape it. he loves watching me play on film with my toys and he transfers them onto his laptop for when hes away so he can have a goo long wank over me. it has bought real spark to our love making and i like to do him special tapes with friend for him to.

She has the right to choose what she wants to do. Take it slowly and if there is anything she is not happy with don’t push her into it but you might suggest a less worrying option.

Perhaps you could agree to take some digital photographs. If she is not happy with that you could suggest pictures not showing faces. Look at them together then delete them all. Don’t forget to compliment her, telling her how beautiful she looks in the photos.

Involve her fully in deleting the pictures, but do delete them all even if she wants to keep some. If she is interested she will want to take more because of the disappointment when they were deleted.

Prove your intentions are non-threatening. Build her confidence and gradually test whether she would enjoy your idea of a home made porn film. She may agree to use a video camera directly linked to the TV with no tape in it as a ‘risk’ free experience.

Every relationship is built on trust. You will have to prove you are trustworthy if she is even to consider this.

why not just do it lover and if you dont like it just erase the film. easy isnt it, but you gota try it

is it any good? id love someone to film it but she wont have that unless its someone she fancies

Me and my hubby have made a couple, and although you can see how much we love sex. ther are always some annoying bits. Wrong angles, not all of our bodies in the picture, etc. We need to meet another sexually confident couple so we can make something good to lookat. Captain Blake and her hubby sound good to us.

I think porn director Anna Span has just released a book with tips on how to shoot your own porn movie. There's an interview with her on this blog

http://www.dirtywords.co.uk/index.cfm/2006/11/16/Bad-Kittys-Dirty-Talk-Show--Anna-Span

But before you buy the book, it's really important to make sure your partner totally agrees and is totally comfortable with being filmed. Don't pressure them into do anything they don't want.

Videos and pictures have a nasty way of finding their way onto the Internet or being shared, especially after a break-up! You don't have to be Paris Hilton or Pamela Anderson!

My partner and I have our special weekends around 1 a month.

We pack our nipper off to a grandparent and spend around 24 hours getting down to it and filming as much as possible.

We've got about 6 to 8 hours to so far - light bondage, toys, role reversal etc.

This weekend we are attempting to do more story based stuff. School girl in detention and saucy secretary are our goals. Plus the usual tying up etc.

We also have over 500 pics of random stuff and some specific sets.

We'd like to build our own website someday. :)

my partner was in the same sit as you i didnt fancy the idea at all but we started off taking pictures on our didgital camera weve got our own private album that stays locked away outta prying eyes, just started making home movies 2 for our eyes only. he got his way and im glad just take it slow and go on her queue oh n compliment her loads and be open and honest about it all!

My partner and I would love to make homemade hard porn movies for our own entertainment, but have no camcorder, plus we have heard that homemade porn is not of good quality, i heard of a company that specialises in homemade porn and filming for you, even providing extras if you require them at a cost. Only problem is I cant remember where I heard of it, if anyone knows please help...

why dont you start by useing your mobile let her film you as you do it then let her keep it on her phone when shes onher own tell her to watch it and she might start comeing round to the idea. good luck

p.s. we tried filming on a mobile and after watching them we then decided that we wanted to make a proper one... I suggest trying the mobile too, but let her decide what to film and what not to film.

Been filmed by a male friend. It's very exciting. It was fun watching ourselves afterwards and quite a turn-on.

I'm a keen photographer and I've never found it a problem - lovers have always enjoyed me taking pictures of them / us. Everyone I've met is turned on by the idea of acting the porn star in private so long as they trust whoever is taking the pictures. No trust, no pictures and that goes for everyone. If a new lover asks to see some of the previous pictures I always tell them no I'm sorry, I promised they would only ever be seen by me.

So my advice is, ask her what you can do to get her trust. The only other sticking point would be negative body image. If someone isn't confident about their body they don't want it photographed naked! Case in point was one girl I knew who was convinced her legs were too skinny and refused. Actually she was one of the sexiest women I'd ever seen and her legs were like a super models! After a few test shots with her in control she realised that and relaxed completely. In the end she was one of the most adventurous and least bashful people I've ever photographed - she's do anything for the camera! So talk to your partner about her possible body image worries and be reassuring. Offer to start with tame and anonymous shots (no head) and get more adventurous over several sessions as she loosens up.

Above all, always always respect the wishes of the person you're shooting.

ps - I meant to say also to anyone having their picture taken:

Don't assume that a picture taken of you on a digital camera and then "deleted" has been lost - it can easily be recovered with a computer and some simple unerase software. Pictures you want destroyed have to be WIPED. I'd also suggest keeping your personal porn in an encrypted file so theives / hackers / the new owner of your old second hand pc cant access it. PGP is the best encryption software for that.

I make a few clips for my blog which I really enjoy doing. Perhaps you could give her complete control over the videos so she would feel more comfortable. Or start by allowing her to take vids of you! The biggest problem I find is placing the damn camera at the right angle and place. A tripod is definitely useful.

Security worries me, I'm not that tech literate!

i'd love to make a home made porn film....how do i go about it?

i love to make my own porno films it gets me wet thiking about having sex on film i have 75 tapes thatb i have made

Its upto you both to work that one out maybe let her have control at first. Another good idea is filming it on a mobie phone but depends how long you can record for and whoever is on the bottom gets to film it.