Strange isn't it? I used to be totally freaked out by the thought, yet hornier than ever. Then when i got used to the idea, the ex decided HE didn't like it afterall and I got all paranoid again. Now I am relaxing a little, new fella don't seem interested - fair play, I don't mind doing other stuff for him, but still...
Like a lot of things sex related, I am convinced that my ex being freaked out by it made me paranoid - he didn't mean to, but his attitude made me feel 'dirty' quite often. There are lots of things I LOVE now that I used to be ashamed of liking because of his attitude to them, to the point where I almost ended up sharing his attitude. Thankfully new fella is a diamond :D